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[–] h3mlocke@lemm.ee 1 points 58 minutes ago

I don't know how it works, but it does!

[–] Audacious@sh.itjust.works 7 points 8 hours ago

Gmail is an email provider, and so is protonmail. They are two companies providing email services. And you can communicate between the two email services by sending emails. Both email providers have their own rules and regulations you have to follow because they are run by different people in different places/countries.

Lemmy is similar. Each Lemmy instance provider is run by different people in different places/countries. When you make a comment or post on one instance, it automatically sends your message/post to the other Lemmy providers/instances (if they don't block the federation). You have to follow the rules of the provider/instance you join, just like for email providers.

Choosing a Lemmy provider/instance based on location or theme is the most common. Also, it's recommended to not choose the most popular instance, because that would defeat the purpose of federation if everyone is in one place, like reddit (one company, one location, one rule set for the entire platform).

[–] thisbenzingring@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 8 hours ago

push the buttons!

[–] chaosCruiser@futurology.today 30 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (1 children)

Read posts and comments. Upvote the good stuff, downvote the bad stuff. Post comments, ask questions, join communities etc.

If you write stuff people like, you’ll get upvotes. If you’re mean, you get downvoted to oblivion.

[–] digital_Nomad@lemmy.world 5 points 11 hours ago (4 children)

Can you suggest some beginner friendly communities

[–] Rogue@feddit.uk 8 points 10 hours ago

Lemmy is fairly small compared to other social media sites so instead of restricting yourself to a handful of communities I'd recommend browsing the "all" feed and just seeing everything.

Keep an eye on the instance each community is hosted on as there's often a social or political bias.

You can then block communities and instances that you aren't interested in or would rather not see.

[–] Sergio@slrpnk.net 2 points 7 hours ago

Here you go. I'd consider these beginner-friendly because they're not focused on tech or politics.

click here for a list of communities that are NOT politics, tech, or meme -related.

Most are currently active (except for the ones with a * which were less active last I checked) Sometimes politics, tech or memes sneak in but they're not the focus.

GENERAL DISCUSSION / QUESTIONS

ART / PHOTOS

ANIMALS

COMICS / GRAPHIC NOVELS

ENTERTAINMENT

GENRES / STYLES

HISTORY

INFORMATION / KNOWLEDGE

OTHER

FEDIVERSE

FINDING NEW/GOOD COMMUNITIES ON LEMMY

click here for a list of meme communities

MEMES, SOCIAL MEDIA REPOSTS, AND HUMOR

Most of these are currently active. (except for the ones with a * which were less active last I checked). Sometimes these include politics but that's not the sole focus.

[–] chaosCruiser@futurology.today 2 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

This should get you started. Hopefully you enjoy some of this stuff.

cute stuff

!capybara@lemmy.world

!capybara@lemy.lol

!superbowl@lemmy.world

!upliftingnews@lemmy.world

weird stuff

!whatisthisthing@lemmy.world

!showerthoughts@lemmy.world

interesting stuff

!nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

If you also like linux stuff, open source stuff, or political stuff, there’s no shortage of those communities.

[–] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

What are you in to? Communities are small here but growing

If your into cute things, search for Otters the .world community is good. If your into Star Trek or Linux your options are vast. Lots of politics unfortunately do to the U.S. moves, but also there are great communities everywhere. I'll follow up if you have any hints. Dullmensclub may be nice?

That said you can create filters to weed out things that make you depressed like Terms involving Musk or such.

[–] Blaze@sopuli.xyz 7 points 11 hours ago

Welcome to Lemmy, here are a few pointers to help you settle in

[–] homesweethomeMrL@lemmy.world 2 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

There's no algorithm so it's up to you to block communities you don't have an interest in. If you see a user you constantly don't like you can block them too. By structuring it that way you'll get a feed of things you want to see and people you want to hear from.

(You can always un-do a block if you change your mind)

[–] can@sh.itjust.works 4 points 8 hours ago

There are algorithms, just not ones tailored to individual users.

[–] Ziggurat@jlai.lu 13 points 13 hours ago

If you're able to post here, you already know most about-it,

You subscribe to communities, post content, and comment-it, you can upvote the content and sometimes downvote it, as easy-as-it.

Regarding the federation, here is an explication for Mastodon but it also applies to here https://tilvids.com/w/887e7b95-a6b1-4df1-83fd-d5c47f17ec4c

[–] Scott_of_the_Arctic@lemmy.world 4 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

It's like Reddit, but not owned by a large faceless corporation intent on using it for social engineering. That being said, if you disagree with the political ideology of some instances they'll give you a ban for racism and not qualify it. Eg don't talk badly about Russia or Palestine on lemmy.ml posts. Generally, be nice and people will reciprocate. Except lemmy.ml.

[–] Urshurak@feddit.nl 1 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

Now I don't understand anymore? Lemmy bans you if you talk bad about Russia??!?!

[–] Scott_of_the_Arctic@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

A few instances are ideologically driven. So lemmy.world and lemm.ee tend to be pretty straightforward instances politically slightly left of centre but there are others like lemmy.ml and hexbear that push Kremlin/CCP propaganda. Anyone can set up an instance and federate with the other instances. But instances can also de-federate with specific instances. For example most instances have de-federated from hexbear and threads so posts made to them won't show up for users who use lemmy.world for example.

[–] thisbenzingring@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

some instances or communities will flat out ban you for almost nothing, just accept that there are bad actors participating in lemmy and don't worry about blocking instances or users when you see it happening

after a bit you wont notice them and you will be better off for it

[–] hit_the_rails@reddthat.com 6 points 12 hours ago

Lemmy as a whole is a community of people who choose it as a nice place to spend time.

Just participate. Or don't. Either is fine.

If you do, be kind. Plenty of people here seeking positive interaction and discussion.

If you don't, make sure you at least up/downvote stuff. It still contributes to this amazing community.

Either way, you are welcome here.

[–] TimewornTraveler@lemm.ee 2 points 10 hours ago
[–] CaptainBasculin@lemmy.bascul.in 6 points 13 hours ago

Think of email in how accounts are named. Mine is CaptainBasculin@lemmy.bascul.in, where lemmy.bascul.in is the instance I use, similar to an email server.

Now, on email you can send mail to users from other mail servers like from hotmail to gmail, right? It works the same way on lemmy, and also the fediverse. You can see posts made on other instances, reply on them and upvote them.

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 6 points 13 hours ago

Communities are similar to subreddits, with the main difference that there are many servers (instances) instead of just over main website. I find it helpful to think of it as IRC servers on the larger networks: your user is associated with one instance, but you can access users and Communities associated with different ones more or less seamlessly.

[–] 11111one11111@lemmy.world -4 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

Id start by asking for help from experienced vetrans of this site instead of other new users to the site🤪 /s