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[โ€“] PerogiBoi@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 hour ago

To make as many people as uncomfortable as I humanly can.

[โ€“] lattrommi@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I try to follow a set of rules which define how i should live my life written in my own words, which essentially restate the golden rule/10 commandments/fundamental tenets/etc. I read them as myself, as if I'm giving advice to myself. Pronouns can be tricky. I don't follow them perfectly and often will tweak the wording, hoping to avoid misinterpretation.

I call them my veritaclaritives. (veritas + clarus = loud and clear truth; probably bad latin)

  • Always look out for #1

  • Always be prepared for a #2 (e.g. romance, friendships, shit)

  • Only desire what you require

  • It's only theft if they need it more than you (emphasis on NEED)

  • Create more than you consume

  • Help people up, more and before you put anyone down

  • Treat everyone as a friend until they prove otherwise (emphasis on both THEY and PROVE; the golden rule)

  • Make amends with your friends, before an unexpected end (r.i.p. Nivec)

  • Keep your friends close, be your own worst enemy

  • If thoughts of any enemy anger you, you've already lost (note plural)

  • Destroy enemies until they are unable to do you harm

  • All enemies can be defeated through unconditional love.

[โ€“] snail_stampede@midwest.social 1 points 20 minutes ago

These are more rules than a purpose, but do you think these rules are guiding you to a specific purpose?

[โ€“] Akasazh@feddit.nl 4 points 6 hours ago

Being as comfortable as possible

[โ€“] aceshigh@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago

To get as close to my true self as possible.

[โ€“] ma1w4re@lemm.ee 3 points 8 hours ago

I'm on a life-long quest to finding the EXIT from this matrix. For this I have to become the supreme lord of Holy C

[โ€“] papertowels@lemmy.one 9 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate the beauty; to find the best in others; to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch Or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded!

  • Ralph Waldo Emerson
[โ€“] Maeve@kbin.earth 5 points 11 hours ago (1 children)
[โ€“] And009@reddthat.com 1 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Everyone is born evil, the purpose is to realise we're one. It's a long cycle and we've done well in the last 100 year vs 1000 years

[โ€“] 13esq@lemmy.world 3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Hard disagree. I think we're born stupid, that's very different.

Honestly, your comment sounds a lot like the "original sin" shit that the Christian church tries to push.

[โ€“] And009@reddthat.com 2 points 5 hours ago

Well I'm probably wording it wrong or you're reading it differently.

But, what I mean is every individual has their own journey towards their maturity when they realise helping others is the way to go.

On a cosmic timescale, facilitate a world with minimal suffering and maximal fulfillment.

Nothing. Purpose implies the potential for failure and while there are certainly circumstances that I would consider personal failures, there are none so great that they would invalidate my existence.

That said, I have a vision for my life and the state of the world that I would like to see realized. I want to see a world where climate change is taken seriously and recognized as the imminent threat that it is. It will be waiting on the other side of every economic crisis or war that man chooses to wage.

[โ€“] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 23 points 19 hours ago (3 children)
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[โ€“] BevelGear@beehaw.org 2 points 11 hours ago

I don't have one. I just do what I can to be a good person and that's it. And I'm ok with it.

[โ€“] janus2@lemmy.zip 8 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

ideally producing scientific research and art but in practice I'm just trying to minimize my own suffering :/

[โ€“] Maeve@kbin.earth 1 points 11 hours ago

Pretty sure that's what everyone is doing. It helps to help others, where we can, in my experience. Focus on love, beauty, goodness. We can hyperfocus on the ugliness and easily fall into the abyss of despair, rather than the abyss of freedom (within personal constraints, obvs).

[โ€“] tiefling@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 16 hours ago

I used to be flourishing as an artist. Now I'm just trying to not end up in a camp within the next 4+ years

[โ€“] BreadOven@lemmy.world 17 points 20 hours ago
[โ€“] SpiceDealer@lemmy.world 1 points 11 hours ago
[โ€“] tobogganablaze@lemmus.org 14 points 20 hours ago

I'm just here to raise entropy.

To spend time with the people I love.

[โ€“] NineMileTower@lemmy.world 11 points 19 hours ago

To work for some asshole and make just enough money to get by.

[โ€“] WoodScientist@lemmy.world 8 points 18 hours ago

To crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and hear the lamentations of their women.

[โ€“] xmunk@sh.itjust.works 7 points 18 hours ago (5 children)

To enjoy the world and minimize how much I prevent others from enjoying it as well.

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[โ€“] mobsenpai@lemmy.world 9 points 20 hours ago

To end it peacefully

[โ€“] SplashJackson@lemmy.ca 2 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

To spread my genes around, mostly

[โ€“] dubyakay@lemmy.ca 1 points 10 hours ago

Stop licking every railing in the Eaton Centre, please.

[โ€“] deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz 5 points 17 hours ago (9 children)

Correct the mistakes of my ancestors.

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[โ€“] nicomachus@programming.dev 5 points 17 hours ago (4 children)

My purpose in life is to produce poop and pee. I work hard so that I can afford food and water so that I can eventually poo and pee. I have an urge to reproduce so that my children can also poop and pee.

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[โ€“] NONE_dc@lemmy.world 9 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

To "live", and by "live" I mean experience and creat Art. I don't need more nor less.

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[โ€“] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 2 points 14 hours ago

The purpose of life is to live.

My purpose in life is varied and technical and super-great.

[โ€“] JackGreenEarth@lemm.ee 6 points 18 hours ago

To reduce human suffering by some degree, even if it's insignificant in the big picture.

[โ€“] kionite231@lemmy.ca 9 points 20 hours ago
[โ€“] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 1 points 12 hours ago

To be exploited in every way possible.

[โ€“] j4k3@lemmy.world 8 points 20 hours ago
[โ€“] electric_nan@lemmy.ml 4 points 17 hours ago

To enjoy myself. What exactly that means, changes over time.

[โ€“] Gebruikersnaam@lemmy.ml 6 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Currently just trying to be a girl, be kind, and trying to help the people around me.

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