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[–] houstoneulers@lemmy.world 14 points 20 hours ago

Sad b/c teachers really don't get rewarded monetarily enough, and OOP is acting like that's some kinda lucrative career that would provide enough even for that.

[–] Kalysta@lemm.ee 20 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Wouldn’t it have been nice to get Bernie’s medicare for all, with vision and dental coverage, so people fresh out of college with their likely first real job don’t need to ask their shitty ass parents for help?

[–] buddascrayon@lemmy.world 9 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

It would be nice if boomers and older Gen Xers would stop cashing out and then blaming millennials and zennials for the inflation being out of control and the economy not being the monolith it was in the 1980's. You know, the 80's during which that little tech boom thing happened right around the time a famous actor got elected president and immediately started de-regulating everything under the sun so that huge corporations could start squeezing employees and consumers like the chattel they are, thereby inflating the value of goods, services, and land.

[–] bitjunkie@lemmy.world 32 points 1 day ago

Dude this is like every post on the estranged parents sub on reddit... they really are oblivious to the fact that their kids have good reasons to hate them

[–] thedeadwalking4242@lemmy.world 35 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Why does she say no real kids? Did she adopt or something and the mom is crazy?

My fifth grade teacher never had any kids, and considered us as her children. Maybe something like that is what she is referring to?

[–] keyez@lemmy.world 25 points 1 day ago

Probably has a pet or two and doesn't want any "real" kids so they don't end up acting like their parents...

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 7 points 1 day ago

She has robokids

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 28 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Someone tell them "i think i raised an entitled shit" isn't the pwn they think it is

[–] pyre@lemmy.world 113 points 1 day ago (7 children)

"no real kids"

"no real bills"

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the fact that he added "real" to both means she has them but he somehow doesn't consider them real, whatever the fuck that means. but this sounds like a total piece of shit and i feel sorry for the 24 year old.

nothing like ruining the economy and the future for the next generation and then refusing to help.

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[–] ronflex@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago

I only pay made-up fake bills, no real ones

[–] SasquatchCosmonaut@lemmy.world 19 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

To be fair you can get a pair of glasses on Zenni for like 20 bucks.

[–] zalgotext@sh.itjust.works 13 points 1 day ago (6 children)
[–] teamevil@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago

Best part is if you know your script you can tweak it if your vision changes.

Yep! You just get a prescription from the eye doctor and enter the values on the site. 20 bucks later and boom you have some very reliable and inexpensive glasses. I've been using these guys for years and had basically zero issues.

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[–] Showroom7561@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 day ago

From what I remember, $20 gets you a premium pair! I was getting glasses from Zenni and others for <$10.

If the daughter is looking at Lasik, it's not out of necessity.

[–] Matriks404@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Am I the only one who lives with their parent and helps paying bills? I am asking, because some people seem to be surprised that my father forces me to pay for the living in his house, but the truth is I don't mind that, and I'd rather not be a freeloader.

[–] fsxylo@sh.itjust.works 17 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

If your parents want you to pay rent, while at the same time complaining that you still live with them(which is often the situation), they can charitably be called dumbfucks.

[–] IMongoose@lemmy.world 3 points 20 hours ago

I really subscribe to the idea of the kid helping on bills + a little extra and the parent saving as much as they financially can of that into an account and giving it to their kid as a moving away gift.

But yes, I think you are more talking about having the kid pay market price to live at home which is fucked.

[–] Croquette@sh.itjust.works 3 points 23 hours ago

I understand the need to privacy as people get older, but if my kids want to stay with me for a long period of their life, I will be pleased to have them with me as long as they like.

[–] Showroom7561@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 day ago

I mean, if you're an adult with an income and living with anyone else (parents, roommate, etc.), you really should be helping with the upkeep of the place and bills. As well as paying for your own food, phone bill, etc.

"Forcing you to pay" sounds harsh without context. You'd have to pay rent to live anywhere else, right? Perhaps, "expected to pay" seems more logical... assuming you're an adult with an income.

[–] bitchkat@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Setting an appropriate amount of contribution is between you and your dad. There is no wrong way except if a child truly needs a roof to sleep under and they aren't a complete fuck up.

[–] naught101@lemmy.world 4 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Even complete fuck ups need a roof

[–] bitchkat@lemmy.world 4 points 22 hours ago

But at some point, it doesn't necessarily mean your roof. Especially if the fuck ups damage property or other persons.

[–] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 day ago

It's situational, but you're not the only one.

I lived with my dad for many years because he slowly lost the ability to take care of himself. My brother and I were there to handle whatever he needed and since I was working full time, I'd cover bills when it was required, either because he forgot or because he was struggling.

We eventually made the decision to have him moved to a care facility where he could get the care he needed, and far better care than we could hope to provide. He's passed on now, but it happens. That was a crazy time in my life. Now I live independently.

For the record, I'm over 40 now, and I'm the youngest of his children. He died a few years back at this point.

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[–] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 2 points 21 hours ago (3 children)

To be fair... On the one hand, publicly complaining about the upbringing of your own daughter is just bad, but on the other...

When you're 24 years old with your own (presumedly good) income and you want a non critical operation done, shouldn't you try and finance that yourself?

[–] Crashumbc@lemmy.world 15 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah there are a lot of possible nuances here.

LASIK can be optional, but there are a lot of situations where it can make a huge difference depending on her eyesight issues.

Teacher salary is NOT good in most places. And at 24 she's entry level. Could be making less than enough to really live on, depending on CoL in her area.

[–] saruwatarikooji@lemmy.world 11 points 21 hours ago

Add in that as a teacher she likely has student loans to pay on... At least until she can get through the system and get on the public service repayment option. I think they were trying to improve it but last time I tried to get on it the system was less than ideal to work with

[–] uis@lemm.ee 13 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Shouldn't goverment finance healthcare?

Wait, wrong country.

Finace yourself? In this economy?!

[–] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 1 points 11 hours ago

Shouldn’t goverment finance healthcare?

Are there any countries where LASIK is covered?

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[–] TankovayaDiviziya@lemmy.world 28 points 1 day ago

Remember when our parents told us social media is bad? Here it is, they are exactly why.

[–] norimee@lemmy.world 267 points 2 days ago (15 children)

24 y/o with a teaching job.

No real income is what she has. Probably on top of a shitton student debt.

[–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 115 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Don't forget how much money she spends on classroom supplies for her "not real kids"!

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[–] chrislowles@lemm.ee 31 points 1 day ago

"No one has audacity like the people you raised" proceeds to post about it to potentially millions of people, you know like people without audacity do.

[–] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 50 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I wonder if this lady will ever realize the politicians she votes for (come on, we know which party) are why her daughter with one of the most importsnt jobs in the entire world can't afford to see. Probably not.

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[–] fatboy93@lemm.ee 66 points 1 day ago (7 children)

The fuck does no real bills mean? Does eating, rent and gas/insurance not count as real bill?

[–] OlPatchy2Eyes@slrpnk.net 39 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Forget the bills, why does she clarify no real kids?

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[–] Dkarma@lemmy.world 125 points 2 days ago (50 children)

This pervasive selfishness in older generations sickens and astounds me.

Imagine not wanting to give your kids everything.

I would forego food if I had to in order to help my kids see better.

[–] Kalysta@lemm.ee 1 points 21 hours ago

I believe it’s because they’re all brain damaged due to lead poisoning from leaded gasoline that was widely used in their formative years.

[–] Kalysta@lemm.ee 1 points 21 hours ago

I believe it’s because they’re all brain damaged due to lead poisoning from leaded gasoline that was widely used in their formative years.

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[–] Septimaeus@infosec.pub 31 points 1 day ago (7 children)

It wouldn’t occur to me to broadcast this to others on the internet, especially with personal details, even for a random solicitor, let alone a family member, let alone my own child.

And since the kid didn’t anticipate the public ridicule, it may very well be the first time they ever asked for this kind of help. What an awful way to learn your parent considers you little more than an expendable prop in their social life.

In nature, some species prey upon their young. We usually understand this as an evolutionary mechanism, to ensure only the strongest offspring survive. With that in mind, if your parent behaves like this, consider that they may no longer be your caregiver, and it may be time for you to decide what it takes to be the offspring that survives.

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[–] HawlSera@lemm.ee 34 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (6 children)
  1. Teaching is a real job, probably one of the hardest
  2. Your daughter is fucking blind, and you're laughing at her? You are slime
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