This encounter was contrasted with the player’s first encounter with Morrigan, the much-loved Dragon Age character. “It does everything right to make you like the character, before showing you her darker side,” Clark said of Morrigan's introduction in Dragon Age: Origins. “I don't think they did this with Lae'zel.” Gaider dismissed this suggestion, saying “it truly does not matter”.
That's the best part. Why would you like a character male or female that is openly hostile to you? You wouldn't. That's the point. She isn't your friend (at least towards the beginning), you simply share a common goal with this githyanki. I wouldn't be more forgiving if she was a guy. She's still being an asshole to me. But it works especially for evil playthroughs as the relationship works totally fine as something that's just transactional in nature.
You know who I couldn't forgive? Alistair. All he needed to do was shut his damn jackass mouth for 10min. Really hard for me not to see him in Gale everytime I talk to him.