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[–] Onionguy@lemm.ee 1 points 2 hours ago

Chlorine on my skin after going to the pool.

[–] bstix@feddit.dk 4 points 4 hours ago

Pine and fir needles.

[–] noxypaws@pawb.social 1 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Dogs. A place where dogs have been living has such a comforting smell to it. Also their paws smell so nice

Corn chip feet

[–] DFX4509B_2@lemmy.org 1 points 3 hours ago

I'm surprised no one put crayons on here yet (I don't really care either way but it seems like something that would go on this thread).

[–] MintyFresh@lemmy.world 4 points 5 hours ago

Baking bread. The smell right after a summer shower. Books. Diesel exhaust on a cold day. Don't ask on that last one, it's weird I know, but I love it.

[–] jbk@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 5 hours ago

My dachshund's feet. Seriously. They smell something like popcorn sometimes.

[–] Allero@lemmy.today 1 points 4 hours ago

Grass, lily and petrichor.

Bonus points if all combined :)

[–] SolarMonkey@slrpnk.net 3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

I like the smell of jergins shampoo from like 30 years ago. My mom, who died when I was 23, used it when I was growing up, and I haven’t smelled it in literally decades, but I’d know it if I smelled it again, because it’s impossible to mistake for anything else, but you try really hard to figure out what the smell is. Pretty sure it died in the early 2000s (apparently it’s still available but I have no hope it smells the same, because I haven’t had a whiff in so long.. last time was on a bus around 2002)

It had a very unique… tangy? smell that wasn’t floral or fruity or musky or anything. It was just its own very specific smell. Probably all man made chemicals. But it contains volumes of memories.

Interestingly, I still don’t like her perfume (dune from like 1990-2004). I have 2 bottles of it, and I find it very unappealing. It smells like her, sure, but I don’t like it. I sniff the bottle every now and then, for memories. But they are adult memories. The jergins is childhood memories.

If anyone has a really old bottle of jergins floating around, I’d pay money for it..

[–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 2 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

This is a really nice one. Have you tried hitting a big perfume store? Staff might be able to find something similar.

[–] SolarMonkey@slrpnk.net 1 points 3 hours ago

No. I appreciate the thought but I feel like most of the people working those places have never smelled the specific and very particular scent I’m looking for, and throwing shit at the wall to see what’s close isn’t a solution because my brain will trick me but it won’t work the way I hope.

It’s one of those lost memories, I think, like when you want the same game experience but aren’t the same person so super Mario 1 is just really hard instead of being fun..?

[–] hihi24522@lemm.ee 4 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Matches (No I'm not a pyromaniac)

[–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 2 points 5 hours ago

Sounds like something a pyromaniac would say

[–] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 7 hours ago

Horse feed. Sweet feed to be exact.

[–] LilB0kChoy@lemm.ee 6 points 10 hours ago

Corn chip puppy smell!

[–] ApollosArrow@lemmy.world 6 points 10 hours ago

The smell a candle makes when it’s put out.

[–] stelelor@lemmy.ca 4 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Cheap old books, when the paper turns brittle and yellow or even orange.

[–] MintyFresh@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago

The way libraries used to smell before they became homeless shelters. Not hating on anyone who needs a warm place to be. Just sucks it falls to the libraries to be that place.

[–] wendigo@lemmy.ca 2 points 9 hours ago

vinegar, just can’t get enough of it

[–] EchoCranium@lemmy.zip 8 points 13 hours ago

Campfire, and the smell of woodsmoke on clothing the day after.

[–] Vari@lemm.ee 10 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

I hate the taste of coffee but the smell is heavenly

[–] AtariDump@lemmy.world 2 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Like walking past a Starbucks.

[–] Vari@lemm.ee 2 points 8 hours ago

Or the coffee isle in the grocery store

[–] eezeebee@lemmy.ca 1 points 10 hours ago

That smell that tells you it's Spring.

Fresh bread.

Gasoline.

Bleach.

That head shop incense smell.

The smell of detergent or fabric softener from a nearby house doing laundry.

Whatever that syrup is they use for canned peaches and fruit salad cups.

[–] bizzle@lemmy.world 2 points 12 hours ago

Freshly harvested cannabis is my favorite smell, far and away

[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 12 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

My chicken after she's been dust bathing, or when it rains.

The dust bathing brings in an earthy note to her natural birdy scent. She just smells like a little nature spirit might, if such things were real.

When it rains, she's usually under cover (though sometimes she gets out into it), but she's picks to the petrichor aroma of rain and soil. She'll carry that scent all evening usually, so when she comes inside and is nestled up next to me, there's the normal bird smell, but also that rich aroma that a gentle rain brings, that usually fades quickly.

Mind you, I also love her normal smell, that almost dusty book, nose tickling smell of bird, colored with the mild earthiness and slight tang that's all chicken.

Luckily, she doesn't mind being sniffed occasionally :)

[–] atomicorange@lemmy.world 3 points 16 hours ago

Bird sniffers unite!

[–] bumblebird@lemm.ee 2 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Now i want to sniff your chicken. She sounds delightful.

[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 1 points 14 hours ago

She really is :)

[–] boaratio@lemmy.world 12 points 20 hours ago (4 children)

No one is going to say bacon?

[–] stelelor@lemmy.ca 1 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

I woke up early yesterday and the one and only reason I got out of bed instead of going back to sleep is because someone was cooking bacon and the smell made its way up to my room.

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[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 1 points 11 hours ago

New packs of cards when the shrinkwrap is removed.

[–] XTL@sopuli.xyz 3 points 15 hours ago

Lots of nice smells, but I'll just list a stranger one I like. Dry hay.

[–] atomicorange@lemmy.world 8 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (1 children)

Weird one, but I have pet birds. They smell AMAZING. Just stick your nose right up to their feathers and huff. They kinda smell a bit like corn chips, or laundry dried outside in the sun, dusty and earthy and warm.

[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 4 points 18 hours ago

I so feel that :)

Our birds are chickens, so they pick up the extra smells of grass and soil as well, but there's still that "birdiness" too, and I love it

[–] rapist1@lemmy.world 3 points 15 hours ago

Cooking bell peppers on a frying pan. Add onions and it's even better.

[–] h54@programming.dev 2 points 14 hours ago
[–] KittenBiscuits@lemm.ee 6 points 19 hours ago

Salty air, leather, books, a wet or dry forest, my cat's fur, fresh bread, my homemade vanilla, coconut scented anything, woodsmoke, fresh snow, & my boo ❤️

[–] Mugmoor@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 19 hours ago

Cedar. There's nothing like pulling a blanket out of a cedar chest and surrounding yourself in it.

[–] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 27 points 1 day ago

A combination of the smells from my grandfather's shed: sawdust, machine oil and petrol from the lawn mower, freshly cut grass, leather, his pipe tabacco, and just a hint of whisky from the bottle he used to keep in there. He had a couple of old, leather, wing-back chairs in there and sometimes at the weekend after mowing the lawn we'd just sit and talk in his shed for a bit while he smoked his pipe and had a wee dram.

Sadly long gone (he died in the late 80s) but I get hints of it occasionally. Sometimes I'll smell maybe the lawnmower smells in my own shed and my brain will fill in the rest and I'll feel small and safe and warm and comfortable just for a moment or two.

[–] LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Pizza cooking in the oven. Fresh laundry. Slight electrical warm smell of a heater (not burning). Petrichor mixed with city smells. Smell of asphalt in the sun (takes me back to childhood and drawing with chalk with a childhood friend).

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[–] Flamangoman@leminal.space 10 points 23 hours ago
[–] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 18 hours ago

Allll of my partner. Mmmmm.

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