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Born in 01. I’m excited to be 24 and have a celebration with my girlfriend and family, but I feel OLD.

What is the cutoff? When do you stop being a young woman?

(I was going to say I wish I was still around 10 years younger when I realized that people born in 2011 are going to be/are 14 and not 5.)

Other edit: It’s been almost 8 years since my Sweet 16. Holy crap. My sister was 6.

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[–] Bridger@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

0 to 30: young. 30 to 60: middle age. 60 to 90: old. 90 to 120: ancient.

[–] serpineslair@lemmy.world 1 points 6 minutes ago

Damn my thoughts exactly. Those were the age ranges I immediately thought of.

[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

I would hope so

[–] hddsx@lemmy.ca 6 points 3 hours ago

As someone in their 30s, you are a young woman

[–] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 3 points 3 hours ago

Yes. You're still young enough where you don't seem out of place going to bars every friday night, and hanging out of the tops of limos going WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO as the limo drives down the street. The driver isn't annoyed that you're not acting your age. The driver is annoyed that his job is basically glorified babysitter on wheels.

But as a young woman, you need all of the advice. You need to do all the things. See all the stuff. And my advice is to do nothing. Relax, don't do it. When you want to go do it. Relax. Don't do it. When you want to come.

All the advice. None of the advice. Do everything. Do nothing. Life is all about making decisions. Some decisions you'll love having made. Others you'll later regret. Life is all about finding the road that leads to self acceptance and inner peace.

But shoot it in the right direction. We're making it your intention. Live those dreams. Scheme those schemes. Got to hit me with those laser beams! Ow ow ow! Laser beam me! 1, 2, 3, 4

[–] serpineslair@lemmy.world 21 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

I'd say anyone under 30 is "young".

[–] altima_neo@lemmy.zip 13 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I mean anyone before 40, really. Once 40, you're middle aged.

[–] Flagstaff@programming.dev 5 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

The "young adult" category is usually cut off by 30, though, according to Meetup groups and age-restricted social groups I've seen online.

[–] PriorityMotif@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

According to u.s. law, age discrimination kicks in at 40. If you're under 40 they can say you're too young.

[–] Flagstaff@programming.dev 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

I don't understand; who is the hypothetical "they" and why would you get kicked out for anything just for being under as opposed to over 40?

[–] PriorityMotif@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Employers can't discriminate against people for being 40+ for housing it's 55+ they can legally say you're too young to work or live somewhere

[–] AuroraGlamour@lemmy.ml 3 points 6 hours ago
[–] Sami@lemmy.zip 15 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

18-24 usually gets grouped together for census and survey stuff so you got a good year left in the tank before you're part of the 25-44 crowd

[–] AllNewTypeFace@leminal.space 5 points 6 hours ago

And a decade or so before your targeted ads switch from fast fashion, adventure holidays and entertainment to things like lawn care products and orthopedic footwear.

[–] AuroraGlamour@lemmy.ml 3 points 6 hours ago

😮‍💨

[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 6 points 5 hours ago

Young and old is relative. I side with those saying young is until 40, then you're middle aged.

[–] morgunkorn@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

anyone born after 2000 is young in my book.

[–] ardorhb@discuss.tchncs.de 10 points 5 hours ago (1 children)
[–] schnurrito@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 5 hours ago

I used to think that but for "anyone born in a year after my birth year", but now I look at some such people and realize that all people eventually turn older. :/ OP is a lot younger than even that though.

[–] AuroraGlamour@lemmy.ml 4 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Thanks! I’m still young!

[–] Flagstaff@programming.dev 0 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

Yeah, come on, of course. "Young" = no one would question the chromosomal health of your baby if you chose to have one right now. So it's in the 30s when that starts to get shaky, but certainly not the 20s.

[–] humanspiral@lemmy.ca 3 points 4 hours ago

Leornado DiCaprio says you got 1 more year!

[–] Bonje@lemmy.world 4 points 5 hours ago

M26. I feel old as shit and it's only gonna get worse. A lot of it is your attitude and environment, something i'm struggling with rn. You can still be young in your 60ies if you have wonderful people surrounding you.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 3 points 5 hours ago

I'm 43. I say I'm old, but I don't actually believe I'm old.

Don't convince me otherwise.

[–] jqubed@lemmy.world 3 points 5 hours ago

For me (male) even turning 30 didn’t feel “old”; in my mind that was still basically in my 20s. When I turned 31, though, it hit me. Of course, it’s still not old, at most middle age, but hard to say you’re “young” anymore. But hopefully that means mature. You still have a lot of your energy and health, hopefully, but now also hopefully have a better understanding of what to do and how to make the best use of your life for your goals.

[–] MapleEngineer@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago

I'm 58. You are a young woman.

[–] BillTongg@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago

I have children older than you. It's a matter of perspective - I think anyone under 50 is young, and no doubt in 10 years time I'll think the same of anyone under 60. I don't feel that I really grew up until I was well into my 30s, and my career didn't really get anywhere before I was 40, but now before I know it I'm retired. Relish your youth - it'll pass soon enough!

[–] chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago

Not a woman but I just turned 41 recently. Here’s the secret to life from here on out:

While your body keeps changing (slowly) your mind really doesn’t. So you’re going to feel the same as you always did! This is pretty cool!

[–] AFKBRBChocolate@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago

It's all relative. I'm 62 - from my perspective you've only recently gone from being a girl to being a woman, so for sure a young woman. Of course in ten years I'll be 72 and you'll be 34, and I'd still call you a young woman.