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I am about to begin receiving a benefit to the tune of an extra $2k per month that I don't have a need for. I'm fortunate enough that all my needs are met financially and this is truly bonus income. If it didn't exist, my life wouldn't change significantly, and it's not enough to quit my job. Trying to get others thoughts on what would be good uses of this money that would benefit me and my family.

Thoughts:

  • ALL_IN_VTSAX - hit FIRE goal earlier than planned
  • kiddo's college fund - hit funding goal earlier than planned
  • do fun things - vacation fund, memories with family
  • fund hobbies - buy things I don't need but "lower-guilt" use of spare funds

Probably a combination of all of the above, but interested to hear the thoughts of others.

I'm also reminded of:

When you have more than you need, build a bigger table.

Curious of ways to help influence things in a bubble larger than my family too.

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[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 4 points 1 hour ago (2 children)

6 months of all of your expenses in a high yield savings is number one. Good times are great, take it from me though, tomorrow they can stop and you'll be back to zero income, when that happens you'll be happy you have that savings.

After that, investing. Very easy to get into, if you don't want to get in right now you can just put the money in CDs and then swap it over to the market later. Not individual stocks, I'm talking index funds and ETFs, things that track the overall market, not a specific company. Then just set it and forget it. Don't check it daily or weekly, just let it sit and make you more money.

Treat investing as just another expense, that has the lowest priority. As Warren Buffet says, pay yourself first. So first pay your bills, then your savings, then with what ever is left as the other commenters said, set aside X amount for fun play money (and it's good to have a number for this, that number can spiral if you don't control it, all of a sudden you just spent 2 grand on a GPU you didn't need), and then put in your Y amount into investing. When times are good it is good to set everything you can for the future. You'll be happy when times aren't so good.

[–] avguser@lemmy.world 1 points 30 seconds ago

Great advice. We're fortunate enough to have completed the FIRE flowchart and are at the maximize stage of our journey.

[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 2 points 1 hour ago

This is good advice.

If you don't have a goal in mind for your money right now, just save and invest it while putting it out of your mind.

[–] abbadon420@lemm.ee 3 points 1 hour ago

If you have extra money, you can invest that to become more money. That's probably the most mature thing to do. Otherwise just hookers and cocaine..

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 5 points 2 hours ago

24k a year, I would put 7.5 in my ROTH IRA, 10 in emergency fund, 2.5 for kids college. If emergency fund is ready I’d give kids more.

[–] sp6@lemmy.world 14 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

"Some people need a budget to save; others need a budget to spend."

My suggestion would be pick a % of your income to allocate as "fun money." 5%, 10%, whatever; the most important part is you budget it. Stick it in its own savings account, then invest the rest. Then, whenever you have the opportunity to do fun things, spend extra on hobbies, help family, donate, etc, you know exactly how much you can spend.

[–] cyborganism@lemmy.ca 4 points 3 hours ago

This is good advice. You want to save this for a better retirement, but not to the point where you can't have fun in your life.

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 3 points 3 hours ago

I fund hobbies, but before I do that, I make sure me, my friends, my dog, and things in the home can be taken care of.

[–] partial_accumen@lemmy.world 4 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

How old is the kiddo? Old enough to have a creative hobby? Fund that hobby.

  • Maybe they like drawing. Take them on a $300 shopping spree at the art store.
  • Maybe they like competitive dancing/performing. Spend the money on a trip taking them to a competition in another city/state/country.
  • Maybe they like woodworking. Let them buy the tool(s) they need to take their craft to the next level.
  • Maybe they like coding and computing. Send them to a kid-centric coding camp.
  • Maybe they like making music. Buy them that new instrument or private instruction on how to get better with the one they have.

Whatever it is (that is a creative hobby, not just Fortnite skins), letting them move forward with it can help them grown and succeed in ways you can't imagine decades from now.

[–] avguser@lemmy.world 3 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Too young to have any real interests yet. I was considering starting swim lessons, that's a lifelong skill.

[–] abbadon420@lemm.ee 2 points 1 hour ago

Swimming lessons is really good. Should be mandatory imho. You can start at age 5-ish and you'll be done in a year or so with the essentials.

[–] Fake4000@lemmy.world 9 points 4 hours ago

My father used to spend his bonuses on family trips. Back when we were kids, we had so many great memories with our parents. Father always made sure to take as many photos as possible.

Looking at those photos, makes me I want to do the same for my kids as I loved it to bits, but a bit difficult nowadays with everything being way too expensive.

However, I learned that trips, adventures, hikes, or any family activity builds trust, memories, relationship, and an opportunity to capture a lot of great photos for the future.

[–] BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz 3 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

My 2 cents: Invest it in something pretty stable (to counter inflation) and if you or your family doesn't need it later (wait until your kid is financially stable) donate the money to a good cause.

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 3 points 3 hours ago

I'd seriously consider donating some of it.

[–] empireOfLove2@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (1 children)

Budget 1500 of it to investments and savings. 300 of it to charities of your choice ideally locally focused ones like food banks, shelters, housing programs, etc. Use the last 200 as hobby or fun money to take your family out to a couple extra events or eating out.

[–] kingblaaak@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

hard to argue with that. honestly i may just follow that advice myself

[–] empireOfLove2@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 hours ago

Yeah. 75/15/5 is a rule I use for my own budget for all the money left over after my standard bills are paid. As long as the majority goes to accounts that earn good interest (CD's or index fund investments) it'll be fine.

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 4 hours ago (1 children)
[–] cyborganism@lemmy.ca 3 points 3 hours ago

I got a great cryptocurrency to present to you!

/s

[–] Phen@lemmy.eco.br 1 points 3 hours ago