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[–] mjhelto@lemm.ee 2 points 1 hour ago

A particular orange turd to face the consequences of his actions or croak.

[–] nao@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 hours ago

No one mention any far right talking points

[–] CallateCoyote@lemmy.world 3 points 4 hours ago

This was all just a bad dream and I'm waking up to Mortal Kombat for the Sega Genesis under the tree in 1993.

[–] steeznson@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I want my council tax bill paid. They didn't take it for two years straight due to an administrative error - I even had a direct debit setup - but have only just now realised on their side and now they want all of it back at once. Paid off a big lump of it immediately but had to go on a payment plan where they take an extra £400 per month for the next quarter.

[–] thermal_shock@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

I HATE how errors like this favor the company. THEY fucked up, but can just dump it all on you.

yes they can argue that you shouldn't have spent the money and should have noticed, but if it were reversed, they'd fight to not pay you and delay it most likely. people that don't understand "shit happens" suck.

New PC, new chain and sprocket for my moto, or pay down some debt would be nice, ain't gonna happen tho lol.

[–] moktor@lemmy.world 6 points 14 hours ago (2 children)
[–] thermal_shock@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

man, similar boat. sometimes she can't even stand straight without teetering, and I'm tired of fighting over it. if anything, this will be the cause to our end.

I know how people here feel about reddit, but https://old.reddit.com/r/Alanon can help you get away or communicate better possibly.

[–] steeznson@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Oooft hope my wife wouldn't write something like this about me. No actual drama but my routine of being a middle-class wine drinker sinking glasses in front of the tv in the evening could be considered problematic.

[–] thermal_shock@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

as long as you handle all your responsibilities, it is what it is. when I can't communicate with my partner or have to keep asking her to handle responsibilities or have the exact same conversation every day because she can't remember? that's a big problem. if I can't trust my partner, then why are we together.

[–] rickyrigatoni@lemm.ee 4 points 14 hours ago

More than three days off this month.

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 5 points 15 hours ago

Wish I had friends to spend it with instead of a person who is abusive and swears at me every day.

[–] Mango@lemmy.world 7 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

I want real freedom. It's basically impossible.

[–] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 4 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Freedom is free, comfort is what costs.

[–] Mango@lemmy.world 2 points 15 hours ago

While I'm a huge fan of what you're saying, I'm more about going unimpeded. Barriers really suck.

[–] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 1 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

That's easy. Just stop wanting to do the things you can't do.

[–] Mango@lemmy.world 1 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

That sounds like a restriction.

[–] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

It surely isn't. True freedom is the ability to do whatever you want. You're so worried about the supply side of that equation that you forget you can affect the demand side.

To put an example to it: I already live in a world where I can rape and murder as much as I want. I don't want to do those things, so I have the full freedom to meet my desires.

[–] beansbeansbeans@lemmy.world 8 points 22 hours ago (1 children)
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[–] Wahots@pawb.social 12 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I want to have children, but cannot afford them for an undetermined amount of time. Fingers crossed that we'll have enough money someday!

[–] qjkxbmwvz@startrek.website 1 points 2 hours ago

Our experience is that basically the only really expensive thing is childcare. Are you eligible for subsidized, or free, care (or have trustworthy and willing relatives)?

As for gear, babies don't need much. But for what they do need, reach out to friends, neighbors, and family! We're fortunate that we could have afforded everything new, but we really only bought a few things because friends and randos alike gave us so much free kid stuff (we bought a nice stroller, a baby basket, and an IKEA crib


basically everything else was a hand-me-down). Join local "buy nothing" groups, or parent groups (sadly they're usually WhatsApp, but whatever). Most people hate throwing away stuff, and would rather it go to a good home.

Look at programs for subsidized/free necessities like diapers. There are lots of resources out there, especially in cities.

As everyone else said, no one feels ready. We certainly didn't!

[–] BarbecueCowboy@lemmy.world 1 points 12 hours ago

Seconding other comments, you'll never ever be financially ready, there will always be new concerns, but that was true for most parents. People far less intelligent and less prepared than you have figured it out and done alright.

[–] whoisearth@lemmy.ca 7 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

3 kids here 12 and under. If you are mentally and emotionally ready for kids just do it. That's the big secret. You will never be ready financially. Kids adapt and will be happy so long as you are stable and can provide the most important necessities like love, a roof and food.

[–] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 5 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

If I had serious financial stress I cannot imagine also having kid stress. What if one needs serious medical attention or has special education needs?

I dunno. This seems reckless.

[–] whoisearth@lemmy.ca 3 points 14 hours ago

Granted in America yes those are concerns we don't have to the same degree in Canada but all things considered having a kid is reckless anyways. You either adapt and make it work or you don't.

[–] BarbecueCowboy@lemmy.world 1 points 12 hours ago

So, possible, but they probably won't. Anything can happen at any time and you could do everything right and it could all fail spontaneously and catastrophically through no fault of your own. Its not a likely outcome though.

It only seems reckless until you step back and think about it rationally. You can't expect to prepare for everything so spend your time on more legitimate worries.

[–] blackn1ght@feddit.uk 5 points 20 hours ago

My mum to meet my daughter.

[–] Syltti@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago
[–] irotsoma@lemmy.world 4 points 20 hours ago

A reversal of the cuts my health insurance is making and further to have all of my healthcare paid for by the insurance I pay a ton of money to have. Especially hurts since the insurance company is my employer, or at least I used to. Now they have the same parent company or whatever they call it these days.

[–] Valmond@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I have all that I can reasonably want that I could reasonably be given, so I'm making a gift instead, I'm off donating blood in half an hour, hopefully someone will appreciate it 😋

[–] qjkxbmwvz@startrek.website 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

hopefully someone will appreciate it 😋

Not sure if wholesome, or wants there to be a car crash...

(I know what you mean, I just found it humorous.)

[–] Valmond@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

Ugh yes I worded that badly 🥲

A gift no one wants but will nonetheless appreciate?

[–] NastyNative@mander.xyz 6 points 1 day ago

To spend xmas with my grandparents that passed away!

[–] Toes@ani.social 5 points 1 day ago

The motherboard in my computer is basically dead. Every morning I must perform voodoo to get just one more post.

But my computer is fairly old now and I can't justify just replacing the board for more money than upgrading the platform. 😔

[–] kionite231@lemmy.ca 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Linux market share to grow more

[–] timestatic@feddit.org 2 points 17 hours ago

B... But I thought 2025 would be the year of the Linux desktop!

[–] DragonsInARoom@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

The Return of the British Empire

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[–] cabron_offsets@lemmy.world 23 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Sex. Not gonna happen with the kids at home and houseguests.

[–] MegaUltraChicken@lemmy.world 41 points 1 day ago (1 children)

What about your spouse/partner? Maybe they'd have sex with you instead?

[–] Nfamwap@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

Dunno, OP sounds kinda kinky.

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 day ago

A (significant) raise in salary (after tax) to invest and hopefully increase my portfolio.

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