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[–] Wojwo@lemmy.ml 143 points 1 year ago (5 children)

This feels like the natural choice doesn't it?

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 18 points 1 year ago

Aight we need to open a ticket on github.

[–] Khrux@ttrpg.network 12 points 1 year ago

This is my favourite, it's a little cheesy and fun, but it doesn't have my biggest issue with the Reddit one which is for some reason acting like it's a birthday party.

[–] 0_0j@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

It's official

[–] SorteKanin@feddit.dk 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It should be software independent. Not referring to a specific Fediverse app, but general across the Fediverse. I don't think this fits.

[–] averyminya@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago

So the fediversary lol

[–] Aeri@lemmy.world 104 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Honestly I was praying that Lemmy dispensed with that reddit-ism

[–] SorteKanin@feddit.dk 29 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Aww I think it's kinda cute.

[–] pelletbucket@lemm.ee 0 points 1 year ago

i fucking hate it.

I found the whole 'cake day' thing on Reddit a bit immature myself, kind of like a stale remnant from the excitement and exuberance of the internet before it was dominated by a few massive companies.

By the time i left reddit my feelings towards those traditions were like yours. They seemed a bit hollow, over-egged.

Times have changed, Lemmy and its user-base are a reaction to the dominant internet campanies. With that i'd hope we can be more thoughtful about building an online experience thats healthy and sober.

To that point, i think marking an anniversary has a certain importance. I'd hope on Lemmy this kind of thing is approached with a more subtle maturity though.

But at the end of the day, what one person takes away from text, and what another person takes away from the same text can be surprisingly different. So maybe I just read all those cake day messages in the wrong light.

[–] charonn0@startrek.website 51 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Annual commemorative pastry observance

[–] cerement@slrpnk.net 32 points 1 year ago (2 children)

according to your profile, it’s still called β€œCake day”

[–] altima_neo@lemmy.zip 25 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I really hate using that term. It's very Reddit.

[–] schnurrito@discuss.tchncs.de 24 points 1 year ago

Everything about lemmy is. It is literally a reddit clone.

[–] toastal@lemmy.ml 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Not if we liberate it from them

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I also dislike it because reddit used it... They managed to destroy a lot of good things.

[–] Zeroxxx@lemmy.id 0 points 1 year ago

It was their creation to begin with, for free. Stop crying about reddit and move on.

[–] wesker@lemmy.sdf.org 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I've been using a mobile app for so long that I didn't notice that.

[–] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 25 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] proctonaut@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

SoufflΓ©mmy

[–] JustEnoughDucks@feddit.nl 23 points 1 year ago (3 children)
[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It doesn't, but I do think we should be happy folks are sticking around. I'm almost at one year!

I'm here since the exodus, but changed my instance to one from my country when I realized it existed. So this account isn't my real start here

[–] BruceTwarzen@kbin.social 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

We gotta make everything reddit. What does the narwhal bacon here? I vote opossum and curry. Is that le random enough?

[–] Dippy@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

is that le random enough? <

Do you always get mad when other people try to have fun?

[–] swab148@startrek.website 5 points 1 year ago

I also choose this guy's dead soul

Jeez man it's just some light hearted fun.

[–] modest_bunny@lemm.ee 17 points 1 year ago

could not give a f*k about what day i created my account

[–] Iapar@feddit.de 16 points 1 year ago

Account creation.

[–] Hadriscus@lemm.ee 9 points 1 year ago

Is it necessary to have this ? does it have any significance ?

[–] j4k3@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)
[–] wewbull@feddit.uk 3 points 1 year ago
[–] RGB3x3@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago
[–] palarith@aussie.zone 4 points 1 year ago
[–] Hadriscus@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago

Our cake day

Yep, cake day

[–] trk@aussie.zone 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Lamington Day

Cause Lemmyington.

This probably works better with a New Zealand accent... which I don't have, but like to imitate when I'm drunk.

"Choice bro, put your jandals in the chilly bin" - me, doing champagne comedy sketches

[–] Rentlar@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

Lemmuffin day

[–] Resol@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I don't even celebrate my birthday, because... I never needed to, so likewise I don't celebrate Cake Day either.

I'd rather just have a few brownie pieces with my coffee in the morning.

But if you insist... um... "Lemmydag"? (The final syllable is pronounced "dach" like in Dutch)

[–] yuri@pawb.social 1 points 1 year ago

petition to just call it a birthday and let it be confusing

[–] root@aussie.zone 1 points 1 year ago

Lemmington dap

[–] nmtake@lemm.ee 0 points 1 year ago