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Hate being lonely (discuss.tchncs.de)

submitted 1 day ago by gamedeviancy@discuss.tchncs.de to c/casualconversation@lemm.ee

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No gf, no friends, it's hard to meet new people. Tinder and other apps don't work. Idk even if I travel somewhere I'm alone

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[–] TurboHarbinger@feddit.cl 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Or did you just comment to discourage people from trying to help and leave OP to suffer?

Sure dude, both discouraging people from "helping" (lol) and leaving OP to suffer are obviously the same thing. /s

First of all: OP didn't ask for advice. Second: I'm discouraging people from giving bad advice.

I can relate to OPs suffering. I know is though, and I undestand on my own experience how OP feels. I know that the only solution for it's like another commenter said: "get used to it". OP probably knows this too.

With some projection from me, I can assume he's only trying to rant over this, thats why OP ~~asked~~ said it on this sub. That's why he hasn't answered other comments beside hobbies. OP is trying to relate to people this way.

So when people show up full of self-indulgence thinking "OP ~NEEDS~ MY ADVICE", then it’s clear those comments are more for themselves than for OP. So congrats, you’ve given yourselves a pat on the back. If that’s your attitude, you can fuck off.

[–] Platypus@lemmings.world 5 points 11 hours ago

Yeah, many of these "advices" are as useful as a Chinese fortune cookie. They're just not applicable. I bet theres another 2 coming with "get a hobby or meet up" dude