spaduf

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[–] spaduf@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (10 children)

https://hexbear.net/post/352119

Top comment on this post is

Every instance that has talked shit and got dogpiled should be thanking us for breathing some life into their dead and boring ass websites.

https://hexbear.net/comment/3744380

[–] spaduf@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 year ago (5 children)

overly concerned with civility or respectability

I for one do not mind admins that are concerned with civility or respectability. Forums should be about talking to people and I will always prefer to talk to people with civility and respect.

[–] spaduf@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I wish there were a way to lock threads to the local instance.

Might be worth putting this feature in an automod bot in the long term.

[–] spaduf@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 year ago (17 children)

Ada has very poorly handled the response to her “people of NATO” statement in a way that leaves a very bad taste in my mouth regarding the administration of Blåhaj Lemmy. I have noticed that a comment left by a Hexbear user saying “death to Nazis and transphobes” is gone now as well, which if this was an act of a Blåhaj Lemmy administrator, further reflects poorly on Blåhaj Lemmy’s administration.

I really do not think it's fair to go after Ada about this. I think this is such a weird hill to die on.

[–] spaduf@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago

Lol try that on the hexbear folks

[–] spaduf@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Does anybody know if this is a feature of a decimal system?

[–] spaduf@lemmy.blahaj.zone 61 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I think the fact that they’re more active in this thread than the blahaj folks is fairly emblematic of the problem. They can't seem to help themselves with the brigading and they do seem to be drowning out local opinion with tankie rhetoric and spam.

EDIT: Just pointing out that if this were a blahaj exclusive thread you would get a very different sense of where popular opinion actually stands.

EDIT 2: I was initially pretty excited about federating with hexbear but I think after seeing the effect it has on the overall tone of discussion I'm pretty disappointed.

Not having downvotes does not, by any means, mean you need to post your disagreement. Our instance also does not have downvotes. You ARE drowning out exactly the sort of discussion this community is for. I can guarantee what you would like to say has already been posted and upvoting those posts and moving on IS the appropriate way to handle this issue in a meta community for an instance you are not a part of.

[–] spaduf@lemmy.blahaj.zone 78 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Not a great look here overall. Was definitely hoping they would take a little bit more accountability. The solution seems simple. Spend less money on egregiously expensive equipment and spend more money on making sure things are accurate before they go out the door.

[–] spaduf@lemmy.blahaj.zone 39 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm seeing 43k likes and 48k views. That's insane.

[–] spaduf@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago

This is a great point. I'm super curious but generally unfamiliar with how things are in other parts of the world.

[–] spaduf@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago

Looks like it's been taken down

 

/r/menslib does weekly check ins. Stealing a page from their book. If you find yourself in need of resources please check out their wiki

 

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/1227654

That is, do you feel like your worth as a man is related to your practical utility?

 

That is, do you feel like your worth as a man is related to your practical utility?

 

This is obviously less applicable to men who aren't necessarily looking for a masculine look. If you consider yourself part of that group please feel free to chime in about your own experiences with style.

 

From the article:

Sadly, the woman I briefly dated is not alone in her beliefs. In a survey of over 1,000 women, conducted by Glamour in 2016, 63% of women said they wouldn’t date a man who’s had sex with another man. (This isn’t just men who identify as bi. This includes all men who’ve experimented with another man, even if it only happened once!) Still, 47% of women said they've been attracted to another woman, and 31% of women have had a sexual experience with another woman.

NOTE: This is not the titular study but is used to establish context. The study can be found here: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/15299716.2018.1563935?journalCode=wjbi20
If anybody happens to be able to find the fulltext please feel free to link it.

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