s0larfl4re

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[–] s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works 5 points 6 hours ago (2 children)
  1. me too and im on my period. feels like shit and i have cramps that are really painful
[–] s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works 4 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

i can try going!! i’m scared that it’s just as bad here in the u.s. as the country from which i came (russia) even when my family came here to escape.

[–] s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works 3 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

what are you gonna do this month for pride?

[–] s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works 2 points 9 hours ago (3 children)

are you going to the parade?

 

i know everyone knows it’s pride month but i like celebrating it as a transmasc enby :) 🏳️‍⚧️

 

i watch their videos sometimes but i’ve heard that their accuracy is questioned a lot or has been.

“first he died, now he dead!” love it

 

to me, they seem the same, but surely there’s a subtle nuance.

like, for example, i’ve heard: “i thought he died.” and “i thought he was dead” and they seem like synonyms.

[–] s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

What language(s) does she speak? If it’s English, he’ll just have to learn it anyway eventually so what better motivation than to date someone who only speaks English. International relationships where the partners have different motherlanguages and different degrees of fluency in a shared language are not uncommon.

apparently, he just said she speaks russian but not fluent

I am just very confused where the two keep meeting with him being on call with the family all the time. Are you in Uni and he’s constantly on the phone during lectures or what?

i live in us, him in poland. he tells me he usually calls the woman in front of his parents

 

my (22nb, 22ftm[?]) friend mark (20m) lived in poland since he was 4. he speaks russian, polish, and english.

his English isn’t the best sometimes, and he has foreign accent. he is in love with a woman (24f) he wants to date, but she only speaks English and his family only speaks russian and polish too. he is almost always talking to family on call the whole time in russian, and it gets awkward because she also can’t understand it.

[–] s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

ohhhhhh. how did you learn english? random question, i know 😭

[–] s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago (3 children)

ууу! i hear finland is very happy and accepting, is this true?

[–] s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago

yeah! in Russia, it’s said as «что это значит?» or directly “what it means?”

[–] s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

как там в европе? and idk, im not openly nonbinary to homophobic people especially, but i worry for the trans people and lgbt as a whole

 

i find it funny that i happen to be lgbt but was born in one of the countries that totally hates us. i’m nonbinary [she/he/they] and bi/pan :)

i moved to the us with my family at age 10 in 2013.

 

some people who i talk to say that, like my russian friends

 

half-european, half-asian 😊

 

i am actually half-white, half-asian. i don’t know what community will accept me more, the russian communities online/in the us (since i probably won’t go there) or the east asian (chinese/japanese) ones.

i clearly will not look full white and it may have people say im not “real russian”.

dad is chinese-russian, lived in germany for a bit. (baden-württemberg i think). mom is russian.

 

honestly, im not sure. i guess just any way that shows he or she cares about me can be romantic to me. maybe spending time with me and doing things for me??

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