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No Stupid Questions

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[–] glimse@lemmy.world 146 points 9 months ago (8 children)

I downvote a lot of posts here because I don't think they're questions appropriate for this community. They're either loaded questions, opinions, obvious bait, or asklemmy material.

If this community is supposed to be the Lemmy version of r/nostupidquestions, the questions should be things that you think should know but don't. Things that might make you feel stupid asking.

A good question for this sub is "How often do I actually have to wash a hoodie?"

A bad question is "Why is [company] doing [something anti consumer]"

We get a LOT more of the latter here.

[–] theedqueen@lemmy.world 18 points 9 months ago (2 children)

A similar problem would happen on r/ELI5 that drove me nuts. Originally the kinds of questions you were supposed to ask were things like “the origins of the Gulf war” or “the rules on how to play poker”. But instead there were too many questions that were like “what’s going on in my stomach when it growls”.

[–] glimse@lemmy.world 6 points 9 months ago (1 children)

"Can someone explain [complicated geopolitical conflict] to me like I'm 5?" were my least favorite. At least pretend you tried to get the answer yourself

[–] echodot@feddit.uk 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

There should be a rule where someone actually has to explain it as if they were explaining it to a 5-year-old.

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[–] hamFoilHat@lemmy.world 5 points 9 months ago

That might not be the best counter example. Now I'm interested in why exactly my stomach growls, and would probably need it explained in simple terms since I'm not a doctor.

[–] Styxia@lemmy.world 15 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I appreciate your work. (sincerely)

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[–] bustrpoindextr@lemmy.world 11 points 9 months ago (3 children)

Okay but like, how often do I actually have to wash a hoodie?

[–] OldManBOMBIN@lemmy.world 14 points 9 months ago (5 children)

You should wash your hoodies (and jeans) when they are soiled, sweaty, or smelly; if they've been wet; if they have any sort of chemical on them.

Your situation will vary, and thus you must rely on your own judgement.

[–] Silentiea@lemm.ee 3 points 9 months ago (3 children)

And basically always if someone you meet says you need to wash it.

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[–] glimse@lemmy.world 5 points 9 months ago

I don't know!!! Someone should pose the question in a post

[–] dream_weasel@sh.itjust.works 4 points 9 months ago
[–] Acamon@lemmy.world 6 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Ah, I wasn't familiar with the subreddit, so I was just taking it as a free for all, so no question is out of place. Especially as lemmy is smaller, and lacks enough traffic in niche communities, it makes sense to have a bigger community for just answering whatever comes to mind.

But obviously there's issues with that, if the community was swamped it would make sense to have a stricter guideline.

[–] glimse@lemmy.world 11 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I mean if this is gonna be a catch-all for every question ever, why do we need it when asklemmy exists?

Guidelines make communities unique. And why did we remake the sub if we weren't going to continue the spirit of it?

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[–] eronth@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

The asklemmy ones are the annoying ones. It's less a question and more a conversation starter

[–] glimse@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

There's one up now that's basically "can someone recommend some songs to me?"

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[–] Xtallll@lemmy.blahaj.zone 111 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Or it might just be offensive or a dog whistle.

[–] half_built_pyramids@lemmy.world 43 points 9 months ago (1 children)

ive wanted to make an alt account and name it something like dog, and just bark at comments that hurt my ears

[–] idiomaddict@feddit.de 5 points 9 months ago (1 children)
[–] half_built_pyramids@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago

Is Dooku fast?

Fuck it, bark bark bark bark bark bark

[–] abbadon420@lemm.ee 10 points 9 months ago (4 children)
[–] TootSweet@lemmy.world 20 points 9 months ago

Frequently how it shows up on "No Stupid Questions" is that they're pushing a bigoted agenda under the guise of "I'm just asking a question and everyone's attacking me for it." Like if someone came to No Stupid Questions and asked (and this is just an example, not my position at all) "why is there so much trans propaganda on Lemmy?" or whatever. (And in the thread when people are like "you're a bigot" they respond with "I didn't say anything bigoted. I just asked a question.")

But yeah. Like what Xtallll said, it's more generally using language/symbols that for the in group is a reference they'll all get but for everyone else at least retains an air of plausible deniability. Often it's done by politicians (particularly right-wing politicians) to try to straddle the fence between the extremits and more moderates in their party. If a politician speaks in support of "states' rights," they'll get the vote of the extremists who know that "states' rights" actually means racist policies and also the moderates who still think or perhaps are still deluding themselves that it means somthing vague but more benign.

[–] Xtallll@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

urban dictionary Dog whistle is a type of strategy of communication that sends a message that the general population will take a certain meaning from, but a certain group that is "in the know" will take away the secret, intended message. Often involves code words.

Republicans say they want to make civil rights for gays a state issue, which is really just a dog whistle strategy for saying that they will refuse to grant equal rights on a federal level.

[–] Willy@sh.itjust.works 8 points 9 months ago (1 children)

That’s such a bad example for a good definition

[–] half_built_pyramids@lemmy.world 7 points 9 months ago (4 children)

Hmm I wonder why muscilunge said 88 million in this tweet? It could have been any number, right? Why 88?

https://twitter.com/elonmusk/status/1596439328338890752

What do you think, dog?

Just a dog: bark bark bark bark bark bark bark bark

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[–] Noel_Skum@sh.itjust.works 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

An actual dog whistle sounds at a frequency (?) inaudible to humans but is heard by dogs. The “secret phrase” can be said out loud, but like the whistle, only the big dogs hear it - the rest of the humans don’t. Does that make sense? It’s used as an analogy.

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[–] Silentiea@lemm.ee 3 points 9 months ago

It's a shibboleth, a way of asking a question that people who share your ideology will recognize as pushing it, while those who do not will not. This is like a dog whistle that can be heard by dogs but not by humans.

In question form it's also often subtle propaganda, asking a question that presupposes something controversial, like "Why are trans players allowed to win so much on sports?" where the simple shibboleth might be "Should trans players be allowed in sports?" Both are confronting the same point, but the former assumes a trend that has not been demonstrated, while the latter simply assumes some reason without making it clear what the reason is.

[–] CountVon@sh.itjust.works 42 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (2 children)

Serious answer, the question might be one that broke one of the community rules like Rule 5 ("No baiting or sealioning or promoting an agenda") or Rule 6 (No meme or troll questions, except on Fridays) and voters are expressing their displeasure.

Silly answer, the question wasn't stupid. The name of the community is actually "No, Stupid Questions." The missing comma is a typo.

[–] Fudoshin@feddit.uk 26 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Rule 5 (“No baiting or sealioning or promoting an agenda”)

That has the problem of blocking genuinely stupid questions that could be used to educate away ignorance. Instead the only people willing to answer their questions are nut jobs with an agenda. E.g.

Do black people sun burn?

Would get downvoted for being racist cos everyone must know the answer to this (I don't)

Where does the 'Jewish conspiracy' originate from?

Everyone would assume you're antisemitic instead of educating you on conspiracies by Nazis and Russian slike The Protocols of the Elders of Zion. But you know who does answer? Those conspiracy theorists who are more than happy to give you (wrong) answers!

Do women get horny?

Everyone assumes an 'incel agenda' cos it's OBVIOUS what the answer is. No it's some poor 13yo kid who's unsure about things so they asked. But you know who does answer (wrongly) those questions liberally? Andrew Tate is FULL of answers and sends them down a very dangerous rabbit hole.

I can't help feeling a lot of the modern shift towards alt-right bollocks is an almost elitist attitude that everyone has an agenda and there's no such thing as ignorance anymore. I'm sure that was QAnons next level goal. Sow distrust in people so they refuse to answer questions (downvote, shutdown, ignore) while providing (wrong) answers to people themselves.

As I've gotten older I've come to realise Hanlons Razor covers SO much more than people realise.

Stop assuming malicious "agendas" behind everything. At the least don't downvote things. At best answer people genuinely.

[–] CountVon@sh.itjust.works 6 points 9 months ago

I didn't say I'd downvote in those situations. I would guess that Rule 5 needs to exist for a reason. Without it the community could get overrun with ragebait posts. Personally I wouldn't consider any of your examples questions to be ones that violate Rule 5, but I'm not a mod and I don't make or enforce the rules. I also wouldn't downvote such a question myself, but I would consider reporting it if it seemed like the OP was consistently trying to pull the conversation into fractious territory. Anyway, if we want to to discuss the rules and downvoting vs. reporting, that should probably go in a meta post.

[–] Zerlyna@lemmy.world 10 points 9 months ago (1 children)

That reminds me of the Simpsons “no money down!”

[–] CountVon@sh.itjust.works 4 points 9 months ago

I know, I couldn't resist the urge to make a Lionel Hutz reference.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 20 points 9 months ago
[–] fuckwit_mcbumcrumble@lemmy.world 14 points 9 months ago (1 children)
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[–] andrewta@lemmy.world 10 points 9 months ago

Simple answer is : yes

The problem is everyone is going their own way with it.

[–] RightHandOfIkaros@lemmy.world 10 points 9 months ago

If anything is heavily downvoted on Lemmy, the most likely cause is that people don't like what it says. On rare occasions downvoting is used to correctly identify wrong information or rule breaking content, but most of the time people use it as an "I agree" or "I like this" button.

So if a question here is heavily downvoted, its probably because people don't like the question, despite the necessity of such questions.

[–] trolololol@lemmy.world 9 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I'd upvote this post. It's spot on.

[–] SolOrion@sh.itjust.works 9 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Either option is viable. Depends on the question. Usually things are either downvoted because it's too stupid to be a legitimate question and it's clearly just someone being inflammatory, or it's a question that, while arguably stupid, doesn't really fit with the idea of the community.

"What are your thoughts on photosynthesis" is a post that's -2 right now. It's probably getting downvoted because it's just a fucking question. It's kinda stupid, but only in the sense that I have no clue what they're wanting to hear about photosynthesis. It doesn't fit the community. Goddamnit I still instinctively type subreddit. It would work better for a general discussion community.

Sometimes there's a rare question that's actually incredibly stupid and clearly not someone trolling, but they give zero further information. Like "Could time start moving faster due to climate change?" How do you answer something like that without knowing how the hell they came to that conclusion? "No." isn't exactly a satisfying response, but it's pretty much the only one you've got.

Hell, your question isn't a particularly great example of a 'no stupid questions' question. It's really more of a shower thought.

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[–] Krudler@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago

If you down a question that is actually made in bad faith, just as you've done here, down is completely justified.

[–] Cinner@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago

Do we have a highthoughts sub for questions like this?

[–] howrar@lemmy.ca 4 points 9 months ago

Neither. It's because the question does not belong in the community for other reasons, such as being off-topic, or encouraging heated responses.

[–] iiGxC@slrpnk.net 3 points 9 months ago

Could be a lot of people see it on their feed but don't know what community it's from, and they don't want to see it so they downvote. Especially when people are browsing local or all.

I know lemmynsfw.com had that issue where people would downvote stuff on local that they didn't like, even though it was a good post for the community it was posted to

[–] Slovene@feddit.nl 3 points 9 months ago

Sounds like a philosoraptor question.

[–] Nemo@midwest.social 3 points 9 months ago

It means it's boring.

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