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[–] TrontheTechie@infosec.pub 14 points 1 year ago (6 children)

This is why I don’t fuck guys who “don’t pay attention to politics”.

That means one thing, and it isn’t that they are blissfully unaware of the day to day happenings in their town, county, state, region, country, or planet of residence.

[–] PostmodernPythia@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

Eh, sometimes it means another thing, namely that they know their conservatism is off-putting to most women and they’re lying to get you into bed.

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[–] ophelia@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

This is my go-to response whenever anyone wants to start talking politics with me. Mainly because whenever someone wants to talk politics it's usually not because they're liberal and I really hate talking with people who just want to prove that their opinion is the right one.

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[–] medgremlin@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

It depends on why they don't pay attention to politics. Personally, I kind of have to go ostrich-mode and bury my head in the sand when school gets stressful because I just don't have the mental bandwidth to deal with both. I'm not going to judge someone too harshly for protecting their mental health from the absolute shitshow that is the American political landscape.

PS: This is not to say that any degree of modern conservatism is okay. Bigots can go fuck themselves and I'd be out punching Nazis and being a medic at protests if it didn't jeopardize my future so significantly. (Felony convictions make it really hard to get a medical license and I have to pay off my student loans somehow. Besides, I'll be in a much better position to make a meaningful difference as a physician than as a heavily indebted student or EMT.)

[–] b3nsn0w@pricefield.org 3 points 1 year ago

this. you can pay little attention to politics without being a "centrist" who isn't actually a centrist. news can be depressing as fuck, i'm hella glad i strongly limited my consumption of them, but that doesn't mean i'm gonna start both-sidesing shit. (with the exception of tankies vs nazis, because those two are in fact the same authoritarian, anti-west, bigoted crap under different flags that love to larp against each other)

[–] TurtleJoe@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I bartend. I was working on Easter, and one of our semi regulars came in with a guy that she was obviously on a drink date with. They'd been at at least one other bar before they came in; they'd had a couple drinks, but weren't past maybe tipsy.

At one point, she mentioned that the reason the last place they'd been to was slow was likely that it happened to be Easter. At the mention of the word the guy interrupted with,

"I REFUSE TO TALK ABOUT ANY POLITICS OR RELIGION!!"

To me this was a sign that this dude cared very much about religion and politics, but just like how scientologists don't drop the Xenu shit on you right away, he wanted to wait until any prospective partner was in too deep before revealing how abhorrent his views are.

That regular isn't my favorite person, but I was proud of her for pretty much ending that date after that.

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[–] Lunar@slrpnk.net 13 points 1 year ago (10 children)

Good lord the replies to this are sad. Believe it or not it's a perfectly reasonable expectation to only want to date someone whose core beliefs align with yours (and, y'know, actually respects your rights as an independent human being.)

[–] Syrc@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

As someone with a right-wing father and a left-wing mother: for fuck’s sake date people with your same beliefs. Deep disagreement on something like that is NOT something you can build a trustful relationship upon.

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[–] Nerdybynature@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago (7 children)

The last conservative I matched with was immediately bragging about being unvaccinated, was in his late 30’s, openly religious, desperate for kids.

If you’re openly conservative, you’re baring your soul about women’s rights, and if women don’t want to sleep with you as a result, you made your damn bed.

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[–] Holzkohlen@feddit.de 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Wow I did not expect so many right wingers on blahaj zone. Feels weird

[–] Rengoku@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Far left is not the only thing existing.

[–] animelivesmatter@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (7 children)

far left = having standards apparently

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[–] Kinda_Coral@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Call that the free market economy biiiaaatch

[–] PugJesus@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

Conservatives: "The free market is superior! Deal with it!"

Conservatives when the free market decides against them: "THIS IS LITERALLY SOCIALISM"

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

"Why won't women, objects meant to feed and pleasure me, give me the time of day like this super old-ass book I had read and interpreted to me by someone who is likely a child molester said they should? Do they worship Saytahn?"

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[–] dottedgreenline@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Being ok with being conservative is akin to being ok with being stupid. It's basically an admission of idiocy.

[–] PostmodernPythia@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

No. Stupid isn’t something you choose. As an adult, bigotry absolutely is.

[–] regeya@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ignorance is a choice, too. I've met so many people who are proud of being ignorant. I once met a woman who was in her mid 30s who was explicitly against learning new things because...reasons?

[–] PostmodernPythia@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Ignorance can be something you choose, but only if you’re actually smart enough to make the choice.

[–] dottedgreenline@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] PostmodernPythia@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Gonna have to agree to disagree on that one, barring very different understandings of the word “stupidity.” Cognition and action are different things, and pretending they’re the same doesn’t improve the efficacy of interventions.

[–] argv_minus_one@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago

Worse than stupid. Malicious. Harmful. Hateful.

[–] Bristlecone@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Seriously, conservatives want to pretend like we're all just regular people so what do our political views matter right? But if The last 8 years have taught me anything it is that every conservative is some level of a bigot, even if you can get along with them, purely based off their political goals. Sorry, you can't just work your ass off to deny people rights and sequester people you don't like, then call it a "political view".

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[–] Lazylazycat@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Why would anyone date a conservative, it isn't safe?

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Even if it was safe like ew you don’t believe in equality that’s just unattractive af

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[–] HornyOnMain@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

ngl, last time some conservative started flirting with me she got pissed of when i said i wasnt interested because they were a tory flag shagger, and then she called me a slur because im queer

[–] avidamoeba@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

Fuck 'em. No wait, don't.

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[–] kingthrillgore@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

The hinges on the meat chasm closed for all conservatives on 24 June 2022.

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