Mount the owner to show dominance
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Mount the owner.
Owner is playing 5d chess because that's what they wanted.
"Oi, fuckstick! Mind your dog!"
This.
People are inherently irresponsible. Dog owners, not all but many, simply think having the animal makes it a pet.
Call that motherfucker out on his irresponsible behavior not tending his own animal.
Mount the owner.
My dog was a big tall greyhound, and one time he was humped by another dog - a tiny Yorkshire terrier. It was clinging to his hock (ankle) and banging away for dear life, while my dog ignored it. Its owner and I were both laughing too hard to do anything about it, it was a ludicrous sight.
Sorry not to be more helpful.
Keep your dog away from their dog.
Are you suggesting that I leave the dog park because their dog is not neutered and they wont control their dog's behavior?
Either that or talk to other owners at the park about collectively shunning the problematic owner. It sounds harsh but I've seen this work and it's preferable to giving up a beloved community hangout just because of one asshole.
My goodness me.
"Talk to all the other people at the park and turn them against one other person in order to avoid an awkward conversation with said person".
If someone at the park told me to avoid some other person because their dog is a humper I world tell them to grow up.
I'm assuming OP has already asked the problem owner to stop and they are refusing to control their dog properly. Obviously talking to them comes first.
You could take photos of the dog humping your dog and make posters & flyers warning everyone.
Better yet, you could post to your local "mother's chat" Facebook group and let them resolve it
You can talk to them, which it seems like you tried and it didn't convince them to do something, or you can leave. Are there other viable options?
He could grow some balls and remove the other dog from his dog and then explain to the other dog’s owner why he’s an asshole and needs to leave
Pistols at dawn.
Oh god, I haven't felt the urge to make a hamilton reference as strongly as I do in this moment since high school. WhatdoIdo??
breathes deeply Sorry about that, the inner theater kid gets out of hand from time to time. The situation is under control now.
So you threw away your shot?
Physically restraining the problematic dog.
Would feel pretty horrifying if it were humans in the dog's place. I'd either tell the owner to get their dog to knock it off or find a new park with better trained dogs (and owners). :P
If your dog isn't spayed a dog park IS a pretty sketchy place for her to be
OP’s dog may be spayed, unneutered male dogs will hump anything.
Sure, in which case I guess it's just annoying? My dog will usually bark or snap at dogs that try to mount her, if you are at the dog park that behavior will happen regardless, spayed female dogs hump as well as males who are both neutered and not 🤷♀️
Literally if you can't handle the dog park don't go there. This is pretty much why we don't go the the dog park when it is crowded as well.
If anything does something to your dog you don't agree with you are fully entitled to remove that thing from being near your dog. Grab the other dog by the collar and drag it away (not yanking, controlled movements).
If the owner of the other dog gets angry at this then state that you wouldn't have had to do so if they had the skills to keep their dog having good behaviour. Some times people need a verbal slap in the face to even start thinking about if they should do better. They won't agree with you in the situation, but it may help effect some change in their behaviour over time.
Thank you. This was the comment I needed.
If that doesn't work, mount the other dog's owner to establish dominance.
/S
If at least one of them is fixed, at worst it's just a show of dominance. The bigger concern is for the dog humping. Those shows of dominance can lead to aggressive reactions from some dogs. If your dog isn't the type to react aggressively, it's not a big problem outside of any social awkwardness. The problem would be if that dog humped another that really didn't want it. Then there could be a fight. So it's in the owners best interest to discourage that behavior lest they hump the wrong dog.
All that said, even if your dog isn't the type to react and you just don't want another dog humping your dog, you should be fine taking some action. Either avoid the other dog or if that's not possible keep between your dog and the humper. Even physically holding the other dog away from yours should be fine. If the other owner takes offense to this, you can explain that you don't want their dog humping yours. At this point, they'll either concede and try to do better, remove their dog from the situation, or devolve into full Karen. Up to you how to handle that.
This is the most reasonable answer!
Here, take my shiny upvote:
Woah that looks expensive
Believe me, it was!
Ideally your dog should tell the other dog that it won't have it. Some times it takes longer than others for this to happen. For some dogs though this never happens
This is such a spot-on response. In addition to another in this thread (stating you are allowed to and should control the situation), it's 100% acceptable for a dog to correct another. Some dog owners see any "bad" interactions as aggressive but dogs can't learn to interact well without correcting each other. Unless it escalates into a legitimate fight, they should be allowed to work it out.
Hold their dog's collar and don't let go until the owner gets the hint. Just hold their dog in place. It's not hurting the animal but it's also not something the owner can just ignore.
Hold their ~~dog's~~ collar and don't let go until the owner gets the hint.
Put yourself between it and your dog. Mounting is an act to show dominance. Be the more dominant dog.
Happens occasionally when I'm walking my dog.
My dog will let the other one know when she's had enough nonsense.
IMHO find a way to get over it and get over it.
Hump the owner. Assert dominance.
Mount their dog.
just let it go. it's not a big deal. dog's gonna dog.
And that's how you get unwanted puppies
Spay and neuter your pets