I would prefer people trying to be funny over endless threads about how Reddit sucks.
Let people like what they like, and leave the elitism out of the fediverse.
Share a story, ask a question, or start a conversation about (almost) anything you desire. Maybe you'll make some friends in the process.
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I would prefer people trying to be funny over endless threads about how Reddit sucks.
Let people like what they like, and leave the elitism out of the fediverse.
What's also nice is that due to the lower amount of users, when you do find these people who can never take anything seriously and just spam, blocking them instantly cleans up your comment sections all over the place.
I'm all for jokes, but they get to be too much. I'm so sick of reading a long "history" of something that ends with "Source: I made it all up". Especially when it's in an informational community. I've been somewhat liberal with my block usage and it has improved things greatly.
Also consider blocking people who mass post dozens of articles all at once but don't comment. They tend to flood communities with posts that don't get much response and are no better than the bot reposting accounts. Especially when they post the same link to 5 different communities and it's all that shows in your feed.
Wait, you can block and unblock individual posters and/or comments?
I did not know that, I must have not been fiddling with it enough!
Reddit is this weird combo of the unfunny pun-chain dipshits who take nothing seriously lumped in with the "AKSHUALLY" assholes who take themselves way too seriously.
The vibe on Lemmy is much better in general. And when you do encounter a random jerk here, blocking works. As another commenter pointed out, the lower population of Lemmy is a feature not a problem.
Reddit is this weird combo of the unfunny pun-chain dipshits who take nothing seriously lumped in with the “AKSHUALLY” assholes who take themselves way too seriously.
Hey, some of us do both at once! Get it right! 😡
I always love it when there's a thread about annoying behaviours and people show up to demonstrate that they are the exact thing being complained about 😂
That is the best description of Reddit users I’ve ever seen. And I guarantee you they’d downvote you for saying it even though you’re right lol
And, this comment attracted exactly the type of annoying users we’re talking about.
So, the replies in this thread have brought about my first use of the block button(x3). Thanks to whoever suggested liberal use of it. Definitely recommend.
Blocking makes the experience much better. People sometimes worry this can create a "confirmation bubble" but the real trap to avoid is engaging with the trolls and weirdos. I wouldn't talk to them on a subway platform, so why talk to them online.
As another commenter pointed out, the lower population of Lemmy is a feature not a problem.
And when an instance gets too big, smash that block button.
I much prefer the higher mix of soft, sensitive types on Lemmy. Humor really gets in the way of feeling my feelings you know?
Depends on how fast you block people, some users are going to have a pretty empty experience if they just block anyone that doesnt agree with them on everything all the time. As far as hive minds go it's just as bad here as reddit.
Not seeing "the ol' ___ switcheroo" or "r/unexpectedthingthatispostedineveryfuckingthread" is great
The switcheroo has sadly already begun
What is the switcheroo
Where someone purposely misinterprets a question and answers it. Then someone says "Ah the old reddit -something-aroo" where it has something to do with the conversation and it links to the last time the switcheroo happened. Then someone else replies with "Hold my -something- I'm going in". It creates a link chain where it's just a bunch of switcheroo jokes.
Ah, that's a meme that I miss from reddit. It was silly, innocent, and made lots of fun for link spelunkers.
I miss the old reddit. Oh, well, guess that's why we're here.
Until I left Reddit I didn't realize how not funny the comments were.
It would be nice to be able to mark a comment as silly while writing it, just like low priority emails. OP could skip notifications for those and they could be sorted to the end.
Tildes has this feature, and I love it. There are a bunch of tags that can be applied to comments, both of the "this is a brilliant contribution" and "this is noise/low effort/silly" varieties.
In general, Tildes culture is high effort, but there's still room for fun. It's nice to see each platform innovating.
Hey, man, do you even realize how hard it is to scrape the bottom of a barrel? It's pretty hard. Especially if you're a large fellow.
I've never understood what's so difficult about it. Once you flip it upside down it practically scrapes itself.
Banning all jokes is also a mistake. The biggest joke on Reddit was the science subs, where hardcore moderators pretended to be responsible for building an encyclopedia of only true statements. Leave that for Wikipedia or actual publishing. Nobody in their right mind would go to Reddit or Lemmy to search for the absolute truth about rocket science anyway. A forum is a place for discussion and conversations and should contain clueless questions and even jokes.
I don't mind a joke or a good pun as long as it's original and relevant to the context. Some jokes only work well in a serious context. The problem is that they're not original and often forced to fit the context.
Serious and interesting comments also get repeated ad nauseam. This happens because of the size of the userbase. It's "original" to someone. (Please don't link the 10.000 xkcd).
Also the age of the users. There are soo many juveniles on Reddit who still have to learn how to even have a conversation that isn't about arguing or one-upping the previous poster.
Overall, I think people here have a better grasp on what they want from an online community.
It used to be funny to open up a thread on /r/AskHistorians and see all the comments removed and the thread locked. In that sub, even true information was forbidden if it came from a dilettante.
siR tHis iS a WeNdyZ
Lol, the Earth will be fine.
I strongly agree with your sentiment. There is absolutely less karma whoring here and it makes the place nicer to be in. Jokes stop being funny after about the thousandth time but the circlejerk stopped them from dying.
I love that you don't have to trawl through a mile long pun thread before you find a comment that is actually novel or contributes to a discussion.
Then again it's not like this place is perfect, there was the bean thing which was funny for about five minutes but went on for weeks and meme accounts which are the same old flogging jokes to death that you were talking about.
Maybe an unpopular opinion, but I think I prefer the jokes over what I've experienced on Lemmy. So far a lot of it has been smartasses that seeming only care about broadcasting their opinion with little to no interest in actual discussion. Kind of like Twitter actually
Mentioned it elsewhere, but Mastodon continues to be one of the best social media experiences I have ever had (look, it isn't as low of a bar as you would expect but still...). Something about the nature of Mastodon means people actually talk to each other and try to elaborate on talking points. My theory is it is because basically everyone on there knows it will never be "the new twitter" and are instead focused on being what twitter should have been.
Whereas lemmy... Lemmy is like going on a date with someone who just got out of a long term relationship. They can't stop telling stories about when they were with their ex or comparing you to them. And... when you head back to their place after drinks they keep joking about whether they can film themselves giving you a blowy and sending it to their ex to show just how over him they are.
Combine that with a much more lax policy toward piracy and a LOT of "I just learned what linux is and anyone who doesn't use it is a sheeple" college kids and... yeah. Plus, I have definitely gotten the vibe that a few people want to become one of the big "personalities" of the platform.
Honorable mention to Cohost. I think people have really done a good job of making it feel like something special. But it also feels like everyone isn't sure how horny/weird they should go on nu-tumblr.
I have noticed a much stronger contingent of Tumblr vibes. I wish I got more humor, but instead I get this gestures broadly.
It's the brooding sensitive types that crumble under humor or criticism that I see most. Maybe I'm the antagonist of this story but I feel like I've made more people cry on lemmy than I've made laugh or change minds, and I'm not the even the mean reddit type.
Edit: a word
I feel like I've made more people cry on lemmy than I've made laugh or change minds, and I'm not the even the mean reddit type.
This is certainly a statement.
I can't speak for Tumblr vibes since I've never interacted with that platform much. But I do agree with you, I also see there are more sensitive users here than on Reddit.
@CashewNut me too. The top comment is always a joke. 5 out of the top 8 also attempts at jokes. Its not a discussion anymore.
Gonna have to disagree, the quality is identical there's just fewer overall comments so it seems that way at first glance. Instead of the top five being jokes it's only like two and they aren't as upvoted.
in reddit someone argued that Lemmy isn't user friendly because you have to make several accounts in several 'instance' thingy's and thus not practical at all. tbh if it takes unpracticality to fend off those single braincell people then all the better: might as well require 2fa and an iris scan just to post a comment or sign in smh
Did nazi that coming
How could you not, it was reich in front of us
Well demonstrated. Puns are facile and AIDS, especially puns in response to puns.
..i don't get this one
Agreed. It would be nice if joke comments could continue to find a happy home in joke communities. I’m not really in it for the laughs most of the time.
I think it's slightly less of a problem with the platform and more of an issue with how the content that is the replies get served. First come, first serve. Even on Lemmy the first few responses will be much higher voted than the rest, because they get sorted to the top.
This is the same thing I live about Lemmy, it doesn't need to be the start page of the internet and thats fine with me.
It was a while ago, but I remember there being a forced meme about peanuts or something, right around after Reddit APIpocalypse
THIS!
This is the main reason I'm here. In 5-10 years, the fediverse will be standard, and full of the same slobbering morons. But for now, being niche and fresh, it seems to be populated by more intelligent and conscientious folks.
Personally I quite enjoy stupid jokes, but it's not like I super miss them. I just have a soft spot for bad puns and low effort word play