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My sister is 23 and still dresses up and goes out knocking doors for candy... and I find it weird but I let her do her. It got me thinking, at what age do you think someone should stop Trick r Treating at? Just curious.

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No such thing as an age limit.

It was never a "kid's only" holiday to begin with. It just became associated with that over time.

[โ€“] jet@hackertalks.com 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

As long as your neighbors know you, any age is fine, just have fun and be happy don't worry about what other people think, just be mindful and empathetic and don't make people nervous

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[โ€“] MJBrune@beehaw.org 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Halloween is all but dead in my area, Seattle Washington. Only pockets of neighborhoods put up decoration. If you are able to get to my front door I don't care what you're wearing or how you got there. You get a treat. Anyone elitist with this is literally helping to kill the spirit of Halloween. The holiday hardly exists, stop trying to kill it more.

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[โ€“] andrewta@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

Depends on the area around here 12-13 years old

When you have a place to live and can afford a bucket of candy, I think it is an obligation to everyone who wants this tradition to continue to stay at home (yours or someone else if youre having a halloween party) and give out candy to the kids and compliment their costumes.

But other than that, nah, no age limit as long as you can still say thanks and enjoy it.

[โ€“] cabbagee@sopuli.xyz 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I started getting judgemental looks in my teens. That being said, I don't know how much I would care if an adult popped up on my doorstep

[โ€“] Lophostemon@aussie.zone 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

As long as they didnโ€™t poop up on your doorstep?

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[โ€“] mrcleanup@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

When your sense of entitlement outweighs your sense of wonder.

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[โ€“] Son_of_dad@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

I want to make a house costume, so I can dress like a house, I will go to the doors, and make them knock on my little door, and I'll open it with puppets to give out candy

[โ€“] selokichtli@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

In Mexico, there are two dates for "trick or treat". One is for kids (the Day of ~the Holly Innocents~ All the Saints) and the next day is for Day of the dead or Dรญa de Muertos, which is for everyone, in a clearly adult-centric celebration. The treats in the first day are candy-like, in the second day it's very-Mexican-food-like.

Ask your sister which one would she celebrate. The rightest answer is both, the right is one or the other, the wrong is none.

Also, if she's watching after some kids, that's great and deserves a treat. Ultimately, as this post and comments suggests, it all depends on the people's heart.

[โ€“] dylanmorgan@slrpnk.net 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I would put together a costume if it meant I could go trick-or-treating and get tamales and empanadas instead of candy.

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[โ€“] Son_of_dad@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

Best part about having kids is we can all dress up and go

A UK sub asked this question recently. Their answer was teenagers. Apparently they are afraid of groups of teens. Therefore only primary age kids should go.

[โ€“] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Probably once they get to college they're too old, unless they're chaperoning younger people around. New England / USA.

[โ€“] Cipher22@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

I haven't done it in a couple, but I used to have a "trick or treat" table and a "trick or drink" table. You got to choose one. If I was even a little sus, you were carded, that was rare, and never actually caught anyone cheating anyhow. Takes a lot of prep work though.

[โ€“] shiveyarbles@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago

I allow it if it's a parent or sibling accompanying a child. Or if they have an amazing costume. If it's a grown ass man wearing a trash bag or a $3 mask not so much.

previously I think I would have said about 10-12 feels like the proper cutoff, but I took my 3.5 year old out tonight, and at one house she got a king size snickers bar while the teens after us got fun size. this feels the most fair.

[โ€“] Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 4 points 1 year ago

When I took the kids trick or treating there was one house with a fire pit that was offering candy, Pokemon cards or beer depending on the age and preference of the trick or treater

[โ€“] Admetus@sopuli.xyz 4 points 1 year ago

Your sister is having fun and like you say, each to their own. I'd do it definitely especially together with my daughter.

[โ€“] JokeDeity@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago

Shouldn't be one. I don't give a shit if you're 65 years old, if you knock you can have some candy. It's a holiday, for fun, I don't need to turn it into another fucking ethics test. I just want to have fun and I want others to have fun.

[โ€“] Crackhappy@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

As an adult I find it fun to dress up and go trick or treating, but I instead give candy instead of taking it. After all I can just buy candy any time I want so it's fun to reverse trick or treat.

[โ€“] ieightpi@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Hmm I guess in my mind it's when you have a job that pays you well enough to have fun money and buy your own candy.

So age isn't even a factor.

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