No! Separate beds only! Get a load of this guy and his weird fetish 😂
this post was submitted on 28 Jun 2025
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Truly horrifying to read about the kind of deviant behaviours some people on Lemmy are into... 🤢 What's next, holding hands?!
exactly!!!
So you want to sleep with your fiancée? I feel like I’m missing something. That is pretty normal.
oh, you're right, idk why I posted this
I like it but I’ve always been a very restless sleeper so I’m ultimately happier if I don’t. Like, I put my glass of water far enough from the bed that I’d have to sleepwalk to knock it over. It’s obviously nice to fall asleep cuddling but I (apparently) roll around and throw my arms around. And getting into a (very minor) argument about something you literally can’t consciously control is not fun.
So, I’d rather cuddle (or “cuddle”) and then go somewhere I can fling my arms and roll around randomly.
Do you mean no matter what? Like if your partner isn't sleepy and wants to stay up, you'd get mad if they didn't stay in bed? If it's that...then...woah red flag.
no, not no matter what, don't worry