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does anyone else want their s/o to stay with you while you sleep? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 1 day ago by RicoPeru@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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weird question, but im soooo attached to my fiancée and i sooo want her to do this. <33 I want her to be there for me even while I sleep

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[–] ShittyBeatlesFCPres@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I like it but I’ve always been a very restless sleeper so I’m ultimately happier if I don’t. Like, I put my glass of water far enough from the bed that I’d have to sleepwalk to knock it over. It’s obviously nice to fall asleep cuddling but I (apparently) roll around and throw my arms around. And getting into a (very minor) argument about something you literally can’t consciously control is not fun.

So, I’d rather cuddle (or “cuddle”) and then go somewhere I can fling my arms and roll around randomly.