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[–] burgerpocalyse@lemmy.world 5 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

there isnt enough porn on Lemmy. and despite that there isn't enough porn, theres like 100 specialized sites for specific body parts, with very low activity and the same person posting everything

Be the change that you want to see

[–] ipitco@lemmy.super.ynh.fr 4 points 3 hours ago

Is it really though?

[–] fondue@lemmy.world 11 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

Bit of a community question on the OP theme:

I see a lot of yard-sticking with Reddit, and frequent comparisons are 1) more of Reddit should migrate here and 2) not enough content is generated in Lemmy. These are both confusing to me. Anyone else?

  1. Reddit is a cesspool. Its users are often toxic. Administration and moderation is burdensome. With self-hosted and decentral-hosted Lemmy instances, why would we want more of Reddit to come here? Other than the philosopher king meme, I don't feel the urge to bring R. communities and users to L. Separation is good, no?

  2. Content follows users. Users follow content. Lemmy has less content. Fewer social games and participants who are seeking a dopamine relationship with the internet. If you come to Lemmy seeking dopamine fandom, you will be disappointed (narwhal bacon and my axe this amirite lol). That shite is generally absent, and users aren't constantly jerking themselves off to get a spicy comment in for votes. This is good, no?

I guess I don't understand the attraction to Reddit, or the urge to think of Lemmy as a replacement. It is similar, but shouldn't it be different? If it isn't different, defederated or no, won't it eventually slide into toxicity? I understand why people like things about Reddit, but... There's Reddit for that. This doesn't have to be that.

Thinking of two groceries: one is a little odd spot that is run by an eclectic family, has some stuff you want, some odd German snacks you don't understand. It's cool, but it doesn't have everything.

The other is a giant stucco nightmare warehouse that mostly sells deep fried heroin and also ten extremely useful things. It's run by absolute creeps, and the customers are standing uncomfortably close, and being uncomfortably irritating. Maybe one of them is waiting to follow you home because they didn't like what you bought.

Does the community want to put a sign out front to woo those people over? Does Lemmy perish without them? I'm relatively new here, but my own answer to both is no. IMO, Lemmy does not need to be an engagement addiction machine, and the people who want that might just really be wanting Reddit deep down.

Sorry for the diatribe! I tend to like that it's kinda sleepy here and often more authentic. I like seeing what Germany is doing on a memie wemie from time to time. I've got other shit to do beyond my phone, and don't want to have a pack of digital ultra nicotine with me at all times. Peace, homies.

[–] Patch@feddit.uk 3 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

A social network needs enough users to actually function. In the early days, Lemmy/kbin/associates were too quiet to be appealing, so there was a constant push to bring in new users. As this is a Reddit clone social network, inevitably that means hoping that Reddit users will come across.

I would argue that Lemmy et al is already at a high enough number of active users that there's a basic critical mass; that there's enough activity here such that a new user would find plenty to keep them engaged. It could certainly stand to be much bigger still, but the pressure to grow is much less intense.

[–] Doom@ttrpg.network 2 points 8 hours ago

There's a formula I'm confident we could come up with that focuses on the amount of users you have, how shitty your userbase is and how fresh/niche/true your content is.

Lemmy is on one end, decent userbase, not so fresh, mid content. Reddit is massive, shitty and riddled with bad actors and poor information but offers more niche and fresh content

[–] epicstove@lemmy.ca 14 points 9 hours ago (5 children)

I have both Lemmy and reddit.

The front page on Lemmy changes every week.

On reddit it changes daily.

The only new posts I see best the end of the day on Lemmy are all in German.

Don't get me wrong, Lemmy is great, but it's got a LONG way to crawl to get to reddit's level of success.

I only have Lemmy but I consume way less social media since that's all I have... Which is a good thing.

I don't mind the fact that Lemmy changes at a slower pace. Gives me less to scroll through

[–] Empricorn@feddit.nl 5 points 8 hours ago

I ditched Reddit 2 years ago and haven't been back. This is a self-solving problem: as more people use and contribute, there will be more content and engagement.

But as a heavy user of Lemmy (and previously of Reddit), there's things you can do. Chief among them is switching from the "Active" list to "Hot" when you want to see new stuff. I pretty much never run out of content, and that's without even dipping into "New"...

[–] SwingingTheLamp@midwest.social 1 points 6 hours ago

Different strokes for different folks, as they say. That's precisely one of the things that I value most in social media— exposure to people and ideas outside of my day-to-day experience. I don't understand the femcel memes, or c/ich_iel, for example, but that's what makes them so fascinating. I was thinking of leaving Reddit even before the API fiasco, because the feed changed daily while not changing at all. I didn't find it valuable to see the same breaking news story posted to 15 different subreddits, nor the same "Men of Reddit: Do you pee through the underwear flap, or over the waistband?" question posted (literally! I watched and counted one day!) every 5 minutes. I didn't replace Reddit with Lemmy, I just stopped using the former when Apollo stopped working. Lemmy drew me in over the course of a couple of months. It's quiet, but you can have conversations instead of shouting into the void.

For me, Lemmy is far more successful.

[–] IndustryStandard@lemmy.world 2 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Reddit is people reposting stuff from Twitter, so what you are saying is that we need to repost more stuff from Twitter.

[–] epicstove@lemmy.ca 1 points 8 hours ago

We do the EXACT same thing here already.

I remember being on reddit and complaining thr everything was political. And holy shit Lemmy is like 10x more political. Like, I get it, they are important issues. But I don't wanna see it for every single post.

Oh, and let's not forget thr .ml users....

[–] zebidiah@lemmy.ca 13 points 12 hours ago (4 children)

The main problem with Lemmy, is I see the same 20-50 posts for 3-4 days until there is a new front page...

I fucking hate Reddit, but the front-page is always fresh, so I always end up going back....

[–] angstylittlecatboy@reddthat.com 3 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

The problem with Lemmy is that the demographic that uses it is too specific: nerdy, atheist, college educated (usually in computers) Gen X and early Millennial left-wing political hobbyists.

Like, there's a reason the one of the only specific media franchises that can sustain an active community here is Star Trek.

[–] TheSambassador@lemmy.world 8 points 11 hours ago

Sorting by top day and hiding read posts gives me more than enough "fresh content." If you're craving more, maybe that's just the Reddit addiction.

[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 5 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

I find there is new content but so often a lot of it is US politics based. Some other stuff does exist but its hard to filter out the stuff I don't care about at times.

Sure I can subscribe to other communities, but finding them can be difficult and searching for all is swamped by Trump and Musk.

[–] nutomic@lemmy.ml 3 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

It helps if you block all those communities you don't care about. Or even block some instances.

[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 1 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Sometimes you don't want to completely block them though, just see something else right now

[–] tio_bira@lemmy.world 4 points 11 hours ago

Nah, Reddit front pages didn't few fresh since 2021 for me, and recently it became worse by the bots posting the same post i saw 5-10 days early again.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 92 points 1 day ago (15 children)

Half the success of Lemmy is not becoming the three ring circus of Reddit.

How long will it last? Idk. I've already seen people complaining about AI bots blowing up their instances with requests, mining for data. I've already heard complaints of bots manipulating votes on certain subs and accounts.

If that gets worse, Lemmy gets worse.

But for the time being, we're mostly just a large community of terminally online nerds doing our things and sharing amongst one another, which is what Reddit was supposed to be about.

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[–] BagOfHeavyStones@piefed.social 15 points 23 hours ago (6 children)

Is it still Lemmy, or is PieFed close to overtaking?

[–] compostgoblin@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 10 hours ago

That’s the beauty of it - it doesn’t matter, since it’s all the Threadiverse. Lemmy, Piefed, mbin, whatever else may come along. As long as they all use ActivityPub, they’re all interoperable, and people can choose whichever one suits them best. Afaik, though, Lemmy is still far and away the most popular right now

[–] Nalivai@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

And here's a problem. Even I, pretty tech savvy user, can't keep up with all this. I look away for a moment, and you'all on a new meta already, all the old servers are bad now and all the cool kids on a new system already. I can't imagine anyone with an advanced grass-touching ability being able to keep up with all this shit.

[–] Patch@feddit.uk 1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

In theory it really shouldn't matter. You choose your instance, and it's up to the instance admins to make decisions about backend software choices. It's possible that we'll get to a place there it's possible for admins to migrate a server from Lemmy to Piefed or back again without loss of content, in which case all the user would see about it would be a change of default interface.

I'm on Feddit.uk, which has several different web interfaces to choose from, and I mostly browse using a mobile app (Boost). It really makes basically no difference to me whether it's running Lemmy or Piefed.

[–] Nalivai@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 5 hours ago

It shouldn't, and yet. When I joined, I spent non zero amount of time choosing an instance. Then one of the instances I chose shut sown. The second one defederated from a bunch of others and now I couldn't read any comments because if the thread contains a comment from defederated instance the whole thread disappears. Then I moved to .world and then discovered the reason all those instances got defederated so I switched again, and now one of my instances is very slow because money run out, and now there is a new kid on the block so inevitably I will have to move again at some point.
Don't get me wrong, I still believe in all this Fediverse thing, but boy does it make it hard to do sometimes

[–] Vanilla_PuddinFudge@infosec.pub 2 points 10 hours ago

...same-same

[–] stebo02@sopuli.xyz 12 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

most posts on the piefed feed are posted by lemmings so nahh

but we can be successful collectively ;)

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 11 hours ago

but we can be successful collectively ;)

that's the spirit!

[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca 1 points 11 hours ago (3 children)

Has anyone come up with a name for the corner of the Fediverse that includes Lemmy, mbin, and PieFed?

[–] Transform2942@lemmy.ml 3 points 11 hours ago

Yes, "threadiverse"

Collectively, they're part of the Threadiverse, which is a subset of the Fediverse that focuses on threaded content. Technically, though, Mbin is not strictly a part of the Threadiverse, as it also allows microblogging.

[–] Natanael@infosec.pub 1 points 10 hours ago

The c's? (for the /c/ links for the communities here, and it sounds like "the seas")

[–] sik0fewl@lemmy.ca 5 points 18 hours ago

Either way, it is successful.

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