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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

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Everything that makes advertisers happy is to the detriment of humanity as a whole. Everything that makes advertisers' jobs easier also makes it easier for authoritarian governments. "Innovation" is no longer about creating new things, it's about taking what already works, breaking it, shoving ads on it and charging a ransom in the form of a premium subscription.

On the other hand, there are endless ad-skipping tools, pages and sites where the main attraction is the lack of ads without a subscription. More and more people are talking about how intrusive and annoying ads are, even those who make their living from them. As the efforts of big tech to please advertisers grow, so do the efforts of ordinary people to screw them.

Very Cyberpunk.

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[–] flango@lemmy.eco.br 7 points 3 hours ago

There's a French film called "BigBug" that makes an interesting parody about this.

[–] Aceticon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 25 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (3 children)

With modern advertising techniques, adverts mainly work by psychological manipulation - putting a name in your mind, making you associate it with an emotion (for example cars are "freedom", perfume is "lust"), induce fear of a non-existing problem and then sell you a "solution" and so on.

It's like being the focus of a crowd of untiring salesmen who are slick manipulators with training in Psychology and with no ethics at all.

That's how it is every day in every place (even the comfort of your own home) in the advert heavy world we live in if one doesn't fight to keep that shit away.

[–] frezik@midwest.social 3 points 24 minutes ago* (last edited 24 minutes ago)

Also, "problems" that are things capitalism created for itself, and then sells you a solution. Such as services that scrub old subscriptions that you don't use, or companies that get you out of timeshares.

[–] anachrohack@lemmy.world 1 points 55 minutes ago* (last edited 55 minutes ago)

Advertising hasn't been that psychological since cable TV. These days, almost no work is put into advertising creatives. The goal is simply to spam and inundate you with messaging so the product is in your mind at all times. People have incredibly short attention spans thanks to smart phones so advertisements need to be virtually instantaneous in delivering their message.

Its really all about statistics these days. Very little thought or effort is put into advertisements.

[–] HasturInYellow@lemmy.world 3 points 1 hour ago

"It's like being the focus of a crowd of untiring salesmen who are slick manipulators with training in Psychology and with no ethics at all."

It's not LIKE that. It IS that. It's literally exactly that.

[–] Rooty@lemmy.world 10 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Online ads can be easily circumvented, I am more annoyed with giant billboards polluting public spaces. Oh well, one more reason to spend more time in nature.

[–] NONE_dc@lemmy.world 4 points 1 hour ago

Recently I've become more aware of how intrusive traditional advertising methods are: billboards everywhere, radio commercials interrupting the music, etc. It's incredible how immersed we are in that crap and how most of us don't realize it.

[–] BotsRuinedEverything@lemmy.world 9 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (3 children)

One day ads will be unskippable, unless you get a 12 hr AdPass by watching 60 minutes of uninterrupted ads while eyeball tracking software monitors your attention. You will get mini games where you need to sing along or high five a friend. You can get an instant AdPass by purchasing the featured product.

[–] SaharaMaleikuhm@feddit.org 2 points 55 minutes ago (1 children)

Fine, I will stop consuming whatever it is they are putting the ads in front of then.

Books in the library don't come with ads. But let's be real I will just emulate old video games on my PC until I perish.

[–] frezik@midwest.social 2 points 23 minutes ago

They're working on defunding the library already.

[–] NONE_dc@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

Some time ago I thought of something: one day they will invent some bullshit that maybe they will call "Proactive Advertising", which is basically that instead of advertising a product, they will force you to buy it in order to continue enjoying a service. "Buy a Coke for 20 minutes without ads. Buy a Six pack for one hour" and so on.

[–] Rooty@lemmy.world 4 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Thanks to enshittification I've gone back to reading books, so, thank you advertisers?

[–] trashgirlfriend@lemmy.world 5 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

NON ADVERTISER FRIENDLY MEDIA DETECTED WITHIN YOUR HOUSE

PLEASE GIVE IT UP WILLINGLY TO THE DANGEROUS MEDIA DISPOSAL SPECIALISTS DISPATCHED TO YOUR HOME

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 8 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

You just need some special sunglasses to see the real messages.

[–] Flemmy@lemm.ee 9 points 6 hours ago

Datavampires.

[–] vatlark@lemmy.world 3 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

Is this a self affirmation or are there other people in your shower?

[–] OminousOrange@lemmy.ca 2 points 42 minutes ago

There could be thousands of people in that shower if they were pondering in the rain!

[–] bradorsomething@ttrpg.network 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I would also like to know who else is in their shower.

[–] ICastFist@programming.dev 2 points 1 hour ago

It is I, I am in OP's shower!

[–] SpruceBringsteen@lemmy.world 6 points 6 hours ago

Calvin and Hobbes warned us

[–] TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zip 16 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

I propose we make a massive product database. If you need to buy something, you can see your options there on a level playing field. Companies who spend more money don’t get any more visibility than any other. If you don’t feel like spending any money, the database isn’t trying to push you down a spending spiral.

[–] PlutoniumAcid@lemmy.world 3 points 8 hours ago (3 children)

And then for convenience, add a shopping cart so it's not a separate research step - congrats, you've invented Amazon.

[–] utopiah@lemmy.world 1 points 7 minutes ago* (last edited 5 minutes ago)

Congrats, you missed the whole point about Amazon.

As others already replied, the business model of Amazon (and any marketplace that sells its own products within it while being part of an oligopoly) is precisely to prevent unbiased comparison. Amazon gets data on all the products being sold on its website, its warehouses occupancy ... then make Amazon Basics and replace them. They did that before also with diapers among many other examples e.g. https://arstechnica.com/tech-policy/2020/07/emails-detail-amazons-plan-to-crush-a-startup-rival-with-price-cuts/ but they also do the same with software products, e.g. AWS.

So no, clearly Amazon is not about having fair comparisons and a shopping cart. Amazon is about being the ONLY shopping cart one can have fill it with Amazon products.

PS: to clarify also something very obvious but just in case it's not so, Amazon by the simple fact of controlling the order of search results control what customers can, or can not, see and thus compare and in fine buy. Even if it did not sell it's own products (which again, it does) it would still be able to manipulate what customers buy. That is, again, the opposite of an unbiased product comparison service.

[–] haui_lemmy@lemmy.giftedmc.com 12 points 6 hours ago

Amazon is everything but a level playing field and it is highly manipulated.

[–] frog_brawler@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

Yes but now do a search for the item in your cart and buy it somewhere else.

[–] BeNotAfraid@lemmy.world 17 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

Started with 8Chan, where the same radicalised incels who support the rise of fascism worked in unison to move the Overton window. Allowing big Tech and Rupert Murdoch to constantly run propaganda against immigrants, whilst sustaining high levels of legal immigration to afford cheap labour and push the working class against eachother. All while Google, Meta, Microsoft and all of those clowns sell our active location Data collected from our phnes to Saudis, Russia and other extremely wealthy families so they could see businesses with less footfall during COVID, allowing them to bankrupt the global economy by shorting those companies through options. Netting them billions in profit and bankrupting businesses causing further economic downturn, in conjunction with the hostile takeover of the taxi cab and food delivery businesses. Further damaging restaurants and creating more unemployment, leading to fewer entry level jobs, normalising isolation and creating an atmosphere of distrust between people. Allowing for the further radicalisation of now unemployed young men by circulating millions of misleading, and sometimes, totally fake stories about immigrants. People that they brought here in the first place. All in order to push the world into a global conflict, buy up Earth and install themselves as the rulers of the ashes at the cost of billions of peoples lives.

[–] PunkRockSportsFan@fanaticus.social 89 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Advertising is pollution

All advertising is a psyop

All advertisers are eco terrorists and gaslighters.

They are enemies of normal people.

They have forgone their humanity and our planet and our own well being.

They should not exist.

[–] givesomefucks@lemmy.world 47 points 16 hours ago (4 children)

Advertising doesn't have to exist.

Like, we could just pass laws restricting or outright banning certain kinds.

I think people just forget that we can tell corporations they can't do whatever the fuck they want.

[–] PunkRockSportsFan@fanaticus.social 31 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Think about how much waste in bandwidth and electricity happens just to make a webpage unreadable.

Marketers are the opposite of accomplishment.

It’s a job that only exists in capitalism

If you’re a marketer and you read this, fuck you personally.

[–] TheTechnician27@lemmy.world 9 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (2 children)

It’s a job that only exists in capitalism

Not true. Government-sponsored propaganda campaigns need advertisers ("ads" are just corporate propaganda), public works projects need to be advertised for awareness, politicians will need people to advertise their candidacy, political movements will advertise their positions, and unless this is a command-control economy where one thing is delegated to exactly one entity, you'll probably be advertising some service or product you do or make.

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[–] Metostopholes@midwest.social 52 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (1 children)
[–] PennyRoyal@sh.itjust.works 26 points 16 hours ago

Came here to say that, he called it decades ago. Advertisers, marketers, and developers, all of them parasites

[–] Gullible@sh.itjust.works 34 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (3 children)

What’s distressing is the way they’ve been accepted. Ads are baked into many experiences, particularly online. Is this post an ad? Is the recommendation thread? The quiet suggestion that there has to be a solution to some problem? It’s impossible to say.

Hailcorporate used to be active, but now it’s a ghost town where specters whisper to one another, depressed and sardonic. That’s why I love lemmy. Aside from the sticker and knitting scammers, we’re nearly clear of ads. If you’re a human reading this, I very probably appreciate you!

[–] antonim@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

knitting scammers

Wait... what?

[–] Gullible@sh.itjust.works 1 points 6 minutes ago

Just classic spam

“wow, such a pretty ____. where can I buy it?”

“Here’s a link to my store”

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 1 points 4 hours ago

I think he's referring to kitaboga.

[–] ragebutt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Even here I’ve posted about how advertising is a destructive force that ruins everything it touches and literally should not exist and there are people that are so indoctrinated by the industry that they rush to defend it

“But how will small businesses prosper without the ability to annoy you with direct mail marketing and Facebook campaigns!”

And truly misunderstanding the difference between something like a business directory, that you willing submit yourself to as a consumer, and can be listed and compiled objectively without competitive advantage for rich assholes, vs advertising, which intrudes on your life.

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[–] andyburke@fedia.io 10 points 14 hours ago (4 children)

Enjoy our time. Eventually they will come. They always come... mostly at night, mostly.

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[–] Widdershins@lemmy.world 17 points 14 hours ago

Advertisers waste our time which is the only measurable currency we are all spending at the same rate

[–] ininewcrow@lemmy.ca 19 points 14 hours ago

Advertising is the blistering puss of an underlying Capitalist stage four cancer that has broken the surface of the body.

[–] SkavarSharraddas@gehirneimer.de 14 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

You could generalize that to "exploiters vs. humanity", ads are just a part of that.

[–] cravl@slrpnk.net 1 points 1 hour ago

Honestly, it always goes back to the seven deadly sins. In this case, I'd say greed and gluttony are most relevant.

[–] ZephyrXero@lemmy.world 12 points 13 hours ago

Modern marketing, post WW2 was the privatization of propaganda.

[–] Hello_there@fedia.io 6 points 12 hours ago

Have you seen they live? Seems relevant.

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (2 children)

we have ads because services paid for with attention are more accessible and get more traffic than services paid for with a monthly subscription ... we could probably subsidize a lot of websites or make them community efforts (like Wikipedia), but because there is a desire to profit from websites, we have this aggressive push for ads and monetization in every corner of the web.

Commercialization, though, is the problem more than advertising itself is. Monetization through "native ads" or affiliate link marketing is just as insidious and toxic, and pervasive. Just like people hate loot boxes and games that have mechanics where skill is less important than paying cash for in-game content to gain an advantage, the root problem is commercialization.

This is just capitalism, and cyberpunk as a genre is meant to be critical of capitalism and its rotten fruits.

I think it misses the mark to interpret the war as a war between humanity and advertisers when it's a war between the powerful and wealthy and the 99%.

[–] NONE_dc@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

I know that the advertising problem is just the tip of the iceberg. My observation is in how it seems to me that this antagonism between the Human experience vs. advertisers seems to be the first active front in a more generalized class war.

[–] crozilla@lemmy.world 3 points 5 hours ago

Exactly, also stop vilifying “advertising” when the cause of advertising is corporations. There would be no advertising without corporations paying for it. It’s like complaining about ashes instead of the fire.

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