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I recently got a job after finishing university, all is good. However, after 5 full days of being behind desk job, I feel a bit exhausted of being behind desk.

Thus my desire to game on PC has soured immensely. Despite having a huge backlog and actually want to finish games.

I’m debating to purchase a Steam Deck OLED in the hope, I can actually play some decent games on there without getting fatigue of desk/ screens but that’s a big investment (€670-700).

So I was wondering; how do the adults of Lemmy with 5 full days of work still get the time and desire to play their games?

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[–] orca@orcas.enjoying.yachts 5 points 1 week ago

I recently bought 2 of these for my partner and I. Worth every penny if you’re going to lay in bed or sit somewhere with it.

[–] Megaman_EXE@beehaw.org 5 points 1 week ago

So interestingly enough. I work, play, and sleep in the exact same 5 feet nowadays. But I remember that initial feeling all too well from when I graduated and found work.

Similar to what someone else said, I'm always exhausted. I don't think that feeling really goes away. I think the difference is that eventually, you kind of get used to the exhaustion. It doesn't feel good by any means. But my brain has given into it and adapted slightly. I still hate it, but I've kind of adapted.

Do you drink coffee? I resisted it for a few years and then eventually gave in when I realized I wasn't able to function well without it. Mainly because I'm sacrificing sleep during the week. Partly due to bedtime procrastination, and also partly due to stress/anxiety. During the week, I'm getting about 6 hours of sleep each night. Not enough, in my opinion

It also depends on what the rest of your schedule looks like outside of work. When I had to work in the office, I was losing an extra 2-3 hours of my day every day.

I'm sorry you're feeling this way, though. It's not a very fun time. I wish everyone could have a better work-life balance

I don't mind sitting at a desk, but some care tips.

  • Stand up at least once an hour, even just to get coffee, go to the bathroom.
  • Always have a (full) bottle of water with you. If it's there, you'll drink it, you won't even notice it. Keep it in your eyeline
  • Eyedrops. If you're in an office job, you need eyedrops. If you game on top of that you need them more. I actually dried out my eyes from coding and gaming too much, it's very easy to do. Talk to your eye doctor, get some artificial tears. Look away from the screen every 20 minutes or so and just blink.
[–] KingOfTheCouch@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I watch other people play the games. Then when I'm tired I close my eyes and I have a nap. I can wake up, fully rested and maybe get to see the final boss! Or not. Maybe I just go to bed.

[–] Kissaki@beehaw.org 2 points 1 week ago

Username checks out.

[–] PunkRockSportsFan@fanaticus.social 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I fall asleep with sticks in my hand

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[–] borari@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I work on a computer at a desk all day. I’m do penetration testing and red team operations, so I spend a fuck ton of time doing training and development courses and labs which usually just involve typing a bunch of shit into a terminal window, both during work and on my own time (I genuinely enjoy it, it’s not a shitty workplace colonizing my off time situation), and I’ve played games my entire life.

Idk I’ve never had this problem. Screens recharge me, it’s people that drain me. I’d have the same flipped question for product vendors that are always at conferences and stuff, or business insurance sales people, just wondering how they get through all these small talk conversations, sales calls, dinners with clients, etc., without a chance to just sit behind a screen and answer people at whatever pace they need.

Oh. I have a variable height desk I got from DeskHaus. I love it. I’m standing a fair amount of the time I’m working. I have a decent SteelCase chair I bought during the beginning of covid. I got it from a refurb reseller, but even brand new it’s not their nicest chair, but it’s expensive enough and holding up well enough that I don’t see a reason to replace it yet. Standing through the workday helps me not feel exhausted and tired of sitting in the same chair for 12 hours since I haven’t been.

[–] t3rmit3@beehaw.org 4 points 1 week ago

I don't burn out on screens. I can enjoy a game for 4 hours to unwind from 6 hours of work.

If you're just starting out working, I wager to say you're still... unoptimized. Putting in a lot more effort than necessary. New jobs are always stressful. Working for the first time even worse. Give it 10 years of working, and you'll (hopefully) find your groove where you don't let work drain your entire battery, and you still have energy left for relaxation.

[–] Mugmoor@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Steam Deck. I can play in bed, or even hook it up to the TV in my living room and play from my couch. I even picked up a wireless keyboard and mouse for that specific purpose.

When I was in my 20's I had my PC hooked up directly to my TV. Now I have kids and I would rather not have it set up like that, but it may be an option for you.

[–] Itsamelemmy@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 week ago

I got burnt out after treating WoW like a full time job for multiple years, while having a full time job. Ever since my PC is connected to the TV. Sitting at a desk isn't relaxing. So PC or console, it's from the comfort of my recliner with a controller.

[–] Azzu@lemm.ee 3 points 1 week ago

You can't really. Only solution for me was to just not work 5 days a week. If you have a good job now... likely 3/5ths, so 3 days a week, will also make you able to support yourself.

[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 3 points 1 week ago

Weed helps, but not much. What really helped was getting out from a screen most of the working day.

[–] eezeebee@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 week ago

I nap almost every day.

[–] Vodulas@beehaw.org 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I go through waves. Sometimes I don't want to play games at all, and during those times I do some of my other hobbies/activities. Summer especially I spend a lot of time outside. I would advise against spending money to try and fix what just might be a temporary thing. Not to say you shouldn't buy a SteamDeck if you want one outside of the fatigue, just don't let that be the only reason.

How long have you been working a day job? It might just be a period of adjustment. School life vs work life is a lot different, so it takes time to adjust for most people. Also, if you work from home, that may also be a factor. If so, try not working where you game if possible. That was a huge thing for me.

[–] ModernRisk@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

How long have you been working a day job? It might just be a period of adjustment.

For about 2 months and a few days now. So I think, I already adjusted to the changes.

School life vs work life is a lot different, so it takes time to adjust for most people.

Definitely! It was tough the first few weeks, lol.

Also, if you work from home, that may also be a factor. If so, try not working where you game if possible. That was a huge thing for me.

At the moment I don’t yet, I purposely asked if I could work full time at office. I still live with parents and the distractions are a bit much. Might try working from home sooner or later though.

[–] Vodulas@beehaw.org 1 points 1 week ago

In that case my original advice might be the best. Try doing some of you other hobbies, and then re-evaluate after a couple weeks. I'm guessing you are not in the US, but the weather is getting better in the northern hemisphere. Try finding something to do that gets you out of the house. If you still want to play games later, you'll find the time

[–] Zikeji@programming.dev 2 points 1 week ago

I work full time at a computer. I have two jobs, so I put in 68 hours a week (second is 28 hours a week, no overlap).

I have no issues with eye fatigue best I can tell, that or I've just gotten so used to it. I will note I do have the blue light filter on my glasses lenses my optician recommended.

Well, I don't have a desk job and I'm on console. So while I can sympathize, I'm not really able to offer advice.

[–] sculd@beehaw.org 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I know this is not for everyone, but may I suggest you to try Hoyoverse games?

Since they are designed to be played both on desktop and mobile, the game play session can be short but still meaningful.

At least this is what I do. I still play other indie games but Hoyoverse really made be forget the need to buy "AAA" games that are designed to waste players' time.

[–] balssh@lemm.ee 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The story and graphics are top notch, but at times can be pretty grindy.

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[–] nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

i can't play anything that requires more than 0 minutes of my time in a session because i have extreme levels of adult ADHD or something

[–] Monkyhands@feddit.dk 1 points 1 week ago

I play pretty much exclusively on handheld these day. The last thing I want to do after a long day working, is to sit at my desk some more.

I have a Switch and a Steamdeck, both are fantastic for different purposes, and both let me game while relaxing on the sofa or anywhere else.

I usually bring one of then when I travel for work as well, great for killing time in airports or while flying. I'd highly recommend the Steamdeck for your situation - it's definitely worth it.

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