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[–] lapping147@lemm.ee 9 points 5 hours ago

Buy local goods, even is it cost more... most people will go for cheapest price, even if you're handing your money to warlords and human trafficking.. same argument every time "There will always be ".

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[–] HurlingDurling@lemmy.world 15 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

From my point of view of life, it feels like the belief of "Do unto others as you would like others to do to you" is no longer something most people seem to believe in.

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[–] explodicle@sh.itjust.works 28 points 7 hours ago

Violence against oil company shareholders is justified defense of yourself and others. Starting with a face slap for small-time diversified 401k oil investors.

[–] Andromxda@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

The state must be abolished. In fact, all forms of hierarchy must be abolished.

[–] TripDawkins@lemmy.studio 2 points 3 hours ago

Yeah, it would be great to have to arm myself just to drive down the street because the dude at the corner decided to implement a toll to drive in front of his house. Lawlessness! The only law of the land under anarchy is might. The concept of "right" goes out the window.

[–] pachrist@lemmy.world 11 points 6 hours ago (3 children)

I have two.

There is no such thing as toxic masculinity or toxic femininity. There is only toxic individualism.

Sometimes, you shouldn't be yourself. The person you are might be awful. Bullying and societal pressure correcting you to a norm can be a good thing.

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 4 hours ago

I feel like you've mixed a very general problem with a very specific pair of problems, here.

[–] AES_Enjoyer@reddthat.com 3 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

There is no such thing as toxic masculinity

I beg to differ. I've been self-repressed for many years from speaking about my problems with my close ones because of toxic aspects of the social understanding of masculinity that I absorbed.

[–] pachrist@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago

Same, but when I began really looking at it and trying to overcome it, I found it's a very universal experience, certainly not divided by gender.

When you look at these odd archetypes of what people want out of the ideal man or woman, they all share the same core. Strong, independent, doesn't need help, doesn't want help. The individualistic experience is such a sad, lonely, miserable, experience. They want to be able to go it alone, but in hundreds of thousands of years of truly human existence, going it alone is such an exception. Our weights and burdens and lives are meant to be shared. They always have been and always will be.

For example, I have a 4 year old son who has been infatuated with ballet for a couple months now. There are dads today who are beating their sons for liking ballet. It's terrible. But it's not that ballet is "queer" or that men don't do ballet. There are plenty of men who are queer. There are plenty of men who do ballet. But, I don't do ballet. If I beat my son, it's because I am making it about myself. I don't want a son who does ballet. That is as narcissistic and individualistic as it gets.

That's not to say that it's not toxic masculinity, just that the toxic masculinity is narcissism in a trench coat.

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[–] anon_most@lemmy.world 36 points 8 hours ago (10 children)

Open borders. I strongly believe in open borders as a moral imperative. Human beings have been migrating for survival, resources, and exploration for over 20,000 years. The concept of nation-states imposing constraints on movement is a modern invention that doesn't align with the inherent human need for freedom of mobility. People in the southwestern states of the US with Mexican roots will tell you "We didn't cross the border, the border crossed us."

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[–] mrodri89@lemmy.zip 37 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

The stock market should be illegal in all countries. Its basically a legalized gambling ponzii scheme.

Retirement also shouldn't be tied to this type of system.

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[–] humanspiral@lemmy.ca -4 points 2 hours ago

Nazis are bad, even if they are Ukrainian, and highly self motivated in conscripting others to diminish Russia. The morality of diminishing others apparently has a Russian exception.

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