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busy at work as usual. anyways go to your local protest and join your local political organization

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[–] plactagonic@beehaw.org 5 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I had few days of high headwind last week but it got better. Now I have around 1400km according to my cycling computer, I am in Córdoba and next week I should be in Portugal.

So yeah, my tour is going great for now. I just wish that there will be more camps on route.

[–] rozwud@beehaw.org 4 points 8 hours ago

I spent an entire day walking along the coast in Lagos, Portugal. The scenery was stunning!

[–] HipsterTenZero@dormi.zone 6 points 19 hours ago

I just dropped off my resume to a plant nursery with an apiary in the southern US. If all goes well, I'll finally be allowed to walk into work each day and say 'beehaw'

[–] Megaman_EXE@beehaw.org 4 points 22 hours ago

I've had random jaw/tooth pressure for a few weeks now that won't go away. I went to the dentist and then a specialist, who claims I do not have any tooth related issues.

It doesn't seem to be sinus related so...only thing I can think of is clenching (which I don't think I'm doing? I don't notice it, at least? Both dentists didn't see any related issues that would point to it) or some kind of muscle tension, which is specifically causing pressure on my top right row of teeth.

I'm kinda at a loss at this point. I figure I'll go to the doctor in a week if it doesn't resolve itself. I'm assuming it's stress related or something considering everything going on in my personal life and well...the world lol.

In other news, the new monster hunter game is coming out soon. Which is kinda crazy to me because I didn't finish the iceborne dlc of worlds or get around to rise at all. Where has the time gone? I'm looking forward to that!

[–] LoamImprovement@beehaw.org 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Slightly better than usual, work is going well since the merger, they're about to take some duties off my plate since I'm taking on more in other areas. Notwithstanding that the next four plus years are going to be fraught with political turmoil, I'm cautiously optimistic about my personal life.

[–] its_me_xiphos@beehaw.org 2 points 1 day ago

I went to a day long Zazen retreat and it was lovely. Little victories. Needed the reset.

[–] MrsEaves@beehaw.org 5 points 1 day ago

I’m feeling a lot of energy drain from US politics and news, as well as teaching my class. I started teaching night classes the semester before COVID-19 hit, and summers aside, I haven’t taken a break since. I have a full time day job, so that’s no joke. I finally prioritized myself and rescheduled my trip to Japan, which I was supposed to leave for the week everyone got sent home. It meant taking a semester off though this fall. It’s the right decision, but I’m basically just trying to survive the semester at this point. My day job has a lot going on too.

Just gotta be patient with myself, get rest, hopefully get some exercise after that rest, and wrest myself out of this energy hole I’ve dug myself into. I am proud of myself for keeping the kitchen clean, and did a deep clean and vacuum of the living room yesterday. It feels much nicer in here now. :)

[–] Zaleramancer@beehaw.org 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Trying to balance gathering online resources and personal stuff. Working on being a more positive influence in discussions I have online, which is draining.

[–] Zaleramancer@beehaw.org 5 points 20 hours ago

Did not expect the government situation to deteriorate so fast, tho.

[–] Alice@beehaw.org 6 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I don't remember a single thing I did this week. Work and bite my nails, I guess.

I was gonna say I've never even heard of a local protest but I actually found one through Lemmy. There's a single post buried in the subreddit naming the organizer and it's a suspended account. I've seen three or four different start times and two different addresses. It's at the capital building, how many of those do they think we have?

Is this how it's normally done? Is this worth losing my job for? I don't want to be a coward but I don't want to lose my home and have it turn out this was a prank.

[–] melp@beehaw.org 7 points 1 day ago

Pick and choose your battles, love. This is a long road. You don't have to physically be present for every battle.

[–] bownage@beehaw.org 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Paint your nails so you'll stop biting them 💅 (worked for me anyway)

[–] Alice@beehaw.org 2 points 8 hours ago

Thanks! Unfortunately I tried it in the past and it didn't work for me. And things that do work just lead to me picking/chewing elsewhere. I probably need to deal with the anxiety itself rather than the symptoms.

[–] melp@beehaw.org 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

I was referred to read the book "They Thought They Were Free" by one of the bees here and it's great. I have a copy of it on document and my library has the audiobook version. I am studying Spanish and sometimes I think I'm such a hack at it but today's lesson with my sweetheart Argentinian teacher made me feel like I'm making progress. Some dickwad at a karaoke bday party gave me covid last week. Today is the first day of being covid negative. Paxlovid sucks, though. I finished building an RSS for myself so I can pick the good newsources and let the shitty ones be. I also finished studying pixelfed and cherry pick last week. Old friends are reaching out to me because the state of this country (the US) is scaring the shit out of everyone and they are coming to me to teach them about decentralized socials and because I worked as a human rights journalist/analyst for over a decade.* I guess they find comfort in talking to me. I donated money to archive.today and uhhh sh.itjust.works. Will donate to beehaw. My cherry pick instance is worried about being hosted here in the US and I told the mod I'll try and help them figure out a move. So any thoughts on that would be great.

[–] its_me_xiphos@beehaw.org 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

If you want a bit of a variety in book recommendations, bridging the US to Optimism gap would be Rising Out of Hatred. Then for the earliest national forest and wildfire relief, The Big Burn. People coming together to rebuild A Paradise Built from Hell.

For fiction/sci fi the new James S. Corey series starts with Mercy of the Gods. Its good. For RhE rebellious sci fi side, Red Rising and its series is quite good. Takes off, in my opinion, around the end if book 2 and into 3.

[–] Powderhorn@beehaw.org 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I finished building an RSS for myself so I can pick the good newsources and let the shitty ones be.

This is such a, well, simple thing people seem to have forgotten still exists. Pair it with Firefox, uBO and NoScript, and it's like reading a paper from 20 years ago, except just shit you might be interested in.

[–] its_me_xiphos@beehaw.org 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Can you give me a breakdown or a guide you'd recommend for doing this? I used to be an RSS junky years ago, but my skills atrophied. It sounds lovely and a fun distraction project for me.

[–] Powderhorn@beehaw.org 4 points 1 day ago

I use Feedly these days. The search function is pretty good for if you don't have a direct feed link. Some pubs do not put out feeds, but for everything else, there's MasterCard.

Grouping feeds into categories is dead simple. There are some other features I don't use, so I can't speak to overall how it compares to other RSS aggregators. I don't need a sprinkling of AI with my morning paper.

[–] melp@beehaw.org 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Exactly. And even if there isn't an RSS available some of the paid RSS servers will webscrape for you. I have been building my own webscraping code but it works. I just decided I need to put some distance between myself and the abusive way we are presented news these days.

[–] Powderhorn@beehaw.org 3 points 1 day ago

Congratulations for discovering the reason I'm here. News has become a toxic space I felt a need to fix somewhere ... it's the First Amendment, and everyone's worried about guns. And let's not get started on the 14th.

[–] Powderhorn@beehaw.org 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Well, I certainly learned some humility.

[–] melp@beehaw.org 5 points 1 day ago

You did great. Your intention was in the right place.