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[–] dmention7@lemm.ee 148 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I feel like there is context missing here. The situation is just way too specific...

[–] Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social 92 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

I just came back home and went to go say hi to my dad

[–] snooggums@kbin.social 69 points 1 year ago (1 children)

So like taking off a hat indoors kind of expectation for him?

[–] dingus@lemmy.ml 23 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Quakers don't take their hats off for anyone.

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm just going to pretend you said "Qakers take their hat off for no man"

[–] MajorMajormajormajor@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 year ago

Death by technicality, a classic blunder.

[–] OneOrTheOtherDontAskMe@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You're not wrong. My nan died the other day, fucking guy didn't even take of his cap as they carried her through the kitchen to the backdoor. The box of Zatteran's at least bowed its head.

Little Debbie was grinning something awful though.

[–] 16mmPrecisely@mander.xyz 24 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I need more details. Let's get to the bottom of this. How long had it been been since you arrived home? Were you standing or sitting down? Holding any drinks? How heavy is your backpack?

[–] dmention7@lemm.ee 32 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Yeah I feel like we're getting somewhere now. At first I was on OP's side, but now I'm imagining them like sitting on the sofa drinking a Diet Dr Pepper while watching Judge Judy reruns and half carrying on a conversation with their dad while wearing their backpack. Then after Judge Judy renders her verdict, dad is suddenly like "why are you wearing a backpack?" Then OP gets defensive and weird, and finally we find ourselves at the situation in the meme.

[–] Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social 32 points 1 year ago (2 children)

That would be pretty weird if if I did that. But in case anyone is curious, It was a few minutes after I had just gotten home from college and went inside the house and then went over to my dad to say hi before going to my room. He immediately asked me why I had my backpack on and I told him that I had just gotten back from college. It was at that moment he told me that wearing a backpack while talking to someone was weird. My Mom later walked in and asked what we were yelling about and she then started laughing because of how stupid the conversation was. I was standing the entire time we were arguing.

[–] dmention7@lemm.ee 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Point of clarification: were you wearing your backpack with both straps on, one strap on your shoulder, or across your chest?

[–] Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] rab@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 year ago

Can you try it with one strap and report back?

[–] Gork@lemm.ee 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

More clarification needed. Was the backpack on your back or were you wearing it reverse (on your chest)?

[–] activ8r@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 year ago

This is a very important question I didn't realise needed to be asked.

[–] ki77erb@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Is this a first time occurrence? Has there ever been any other indication of your dad's discomfort around people wearing backpacks? There might be some history here that you're not aware of. Some past bad experience he had. A kind of PTSD.

[–] amansman@sh.itjust.works 13 points 1 year ago

I agree this whole scene really needs to be unpacked.

[–] mvirts@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

I feel like that's more in sitting on a couch wearing a backpack territory

[–] Ironfist@sh.itjust.works 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

But why does it bother him? Im curious and confused.

I don't know. He is just really stupid.

[–] regalia 7 points 1 year ago

Ok maybe now he's on to something. Did you just like get home and start pacing around with your backpack on? At that point why would you still have your backpack on lol

[–] youRFate@feddit.de 6 points 1 year ago

I mean, yea, I’d probably have put my backpack down when I entered their home.