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ITT about male victims of sexism-based double-standard, we see
Wow, Lemmy. Be better than Reddit.
That is exactly why I'm downvoting many of the comments here. Not personal stories, but all the "men have it so much worse" comments, which are ultimately just toxic against women.
Because holy fuck, that was exactly Reddit, and I do not want this place to end up the same. We already have a massive imbalance between the genders and if we men start discrediting women, they're most fucking definitely not going to show up here.
I do want men to be able to speak about abuse stories. That is where our patriarchical society kills men, in that it does not allow us to show weakness. But it cannot fucking devolve into a us vs. them discussion, which this whole question is locked and loaded towards. That is not helpful to anyone.
I'm aghast at the comments in here lol
Like... I'm speechless.
This thread and ones like it just prove the point