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[–] VelvetStorm@lemmy.world 56 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (5 children)

Ok, so this is my time to admit my very shameful past. I used to be racist, homophobic, and sexist(known as the big 3). I used my religion as an excuse for the sexism and homophobia and my father(my mom isnt racist and they are divorced) and dam near everyone on his side of the family is racist so I just grew up in that culture. Once I stopped talking to him and met a lot of people from other races, i learned we are all the same. Then I stated reading the Bible, and ~~once I did that, I obviously couldn't continue believing in it.~~ now I am an atheist and I don't rely on a very very old book to come to my moral conclusions.

So basically, it's willful ignorance, and it is always easier to blame others for your own downfalls, and it makes you feel better about your own shitty life if you can hate on someone else.

Edited for clarification.

[–] Laborer3652@reddthat.com 17 points 3 months ago (1 children)

This is my story too. Leaving Christianity behind has been an amazing and humbling experience.

[–] VelvetStorm@lemmy.world 5 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I can honestly say looking back idk if I ever really believed in it. I think I was just using it as an excuse to hate people while feeling morally superior.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

I think that’s a lot of people in it. Moral superiority feels really good and hating others is a convenient way to avoid dealing with however you feel about yourself

[–] Laborer3652@reddthat.com 2 points 2 months ago

I definitely did, and thats what made leaving so hard. I trusted the people around me, and they were telling me all kinds of things, so of course it is true. The indoctrination starts before critical thinking develops, so its just built into the firmware of your brain, you know?

[–] Trigger2_2000@sh.itjust.works 10 points 3 months ago

I'm so glad you were able to see the light and thank you for having the courage to put it out there for others to see.

The most difficult faults to see and change are our own.

[–] kent_eh@lemmy.ca 5 points 3 months ago

I used my religion as an excuse for the sexism and homophobia

I'm my experience that is extremely common.

[–] TokenBoomer@lemmy.world 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)
[–] RubyRhod@lemm.ee 2 points 3 months ago

Good for you.

I dunno it just made me think of that.