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[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 55 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Red flags in relationships are serious business and don't go away. I wish desperately I never got married, and when someone goes to the point of deliberately running over a squirrel to upset you, you've really hooked up with a sociopath. If your gut says go, go before you tie your finances to that of a crazy person.

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 18 points 2 months ago

This is true. The book "why does he do that" is a fascinating look into how abusive people (mostly but not always men) operate.

[–] hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

Running over a squirrel when I told him to watch out for the squirrel running across the road.

The tip of the iceberg to be honest.