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didn't we all grow up needing to be secretive? is it because of the adage of how 'everyone thinks women are hot' so like even straight women would get turned on more by their own moaning?

like as a guy i don't even...have the impulse to involve my voice in it at all

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[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 44 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Trans woman here, and I can say from first hand experience that hormones change sexual response and desire. I'm guessing (and only guessing) that that is at least a part of the reason.

I know my own experience changed and i vocalise more, but even I can't tell you why.

[–] peopleproblems@lemmy.world 22 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

You know I've never really thought about it until now, but besides the hormones helping your body match who you are, do the hormones change anything mentally? I assume no personality changes, but I've wondered if things like senses, pain, temperature tolerance etc. change.

Edit: that's wild y'all. thanks for the answers.

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Skin sensitivity, smell, taste, posture, temperature tolerance, it can all change!

[–] agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Cis, but I've heard that MtF typically your vision becomes more sensitive to color differences, and FtM it becomes more sensitive to shapes and outlines.

[–] Kase@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Ftm here, I've never heard of this before. If anybody has further information, I'd be very interested

[–] solivine@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 year ago

I know for MtF the temperature tolerance goes down because of physical changes. I'm sure the hormones change things mentally, whether you're aware of it or not. They're a big change.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

So personality changes in the same way antidepressants have them. But yeah the rest absolutely. I became more scent over vision, increased pain tolerance relative to mental state (but happy has way less physical pain tolerance than dead inside so it’s not necessarily an increase), and everything is too damn cold

[–] RaspberryRobot@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

Trans man, I would say I vocalize more now that I'm T but that might just have to do with my life circumstances significantly improving at the same time, so I tend use my voice more often in general.