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Say pretty much anything. I just need distraction

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[–] DagwoodIII@piefed.social -2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Go out and find someone else to help. Walk a neighbor's dog

Sitting online isn't going to help as much as getting out of the house will.

[–] adry@piefed.social 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

OP: if you manage to get the will to do this, please come back and tell us how it went! I am sure as hell we all want to hear the story however how trivial it may be.

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I just went on a heroic mission to the local shop and bought cat food! Best I can do today

[–] DagwoodIII@piefed.social 2 points 1 day ago

I got myself a cat a few months after my mother died. All I was doing was going to work and coming home. I didn't feel like doing anything. I figured if I had a cat I'd have to get them food, and I'd be obligated to keep myself going.