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It would be rude to not even allow them to ask. But it wouldn't be rude to turn down the favor after hearing what it is.
(Seriously: If it's a stranger, it's not rude at all. It's actually more rude to ask a complete stranger for a random favor)
Your stance is that I'm required to say yes for some random street person to ask you for a favor?
As in yes, please explain the favor first so I can say no afterwards?
I suffer from anxiety and nearly had a panic attack. Been mugged and had broken bone from it.
Edit, i guess I could have handled it better and was slightly rude for immediate denial.
I don't think you're required to do it, personally, but I agree that it would be rude to not even hear someone out. Especially with someone you know even as an acquaintance. It could be anything from, "can you hold this for a second" to "do you mind splitting this $8000 timeshare with me?"
If it's just a completely random person on the street, and their first word is "can you do me a favor" that's different. I think it's still rude, I just also think that when you engage with entirely random people being rude is acceptable sometimes. Especially if there's an actual reason for you to feel unsafe- if you're alone/it's a shady area type thing.
This probably depends on the area, though. I'm from the southeastern US and from my understanding people engage with each other waaay more in public here than they do in- as a random example- New York.
I have severe anxiety too. It is an unfortunate additional challenge, but it does not absolve us our part in society nor give us an excuse to treat others poorly.