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I think you’re missing the point. They’re not looking for a badass. They’re looking for someone broken that they can attempt to fix.
I think it's a lot of things. I've seen people looking for a badass, I've seen people looking for a project, and I've seen a lot of people looking to self harm by finding someone who treats them like they feel they deserve often seeking people who will tell them the same things their parents did