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[–] zxqwas@lemmy.world 41 points 2 days ago (1 children)

They told me I'd change my mind about not wanting kids when I got older. I'm still waiting for it to change.

[–] emogu@lemmy.world 1 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

As someone who didn’t want kids and then had them later in life, your mind doesn’t really change until after you have them. That’s when I was like Oh

At least that’s what it was like for me. Plenty of people’s minds never change even after kids sadly.

[–] zxqwas@lemmy.world 1 points 11 hours ago

Seems unwise to take that risk. What if I don't change my mind?