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Straight men, what's the weirdest thing you've been told you can't do because it's gay? (lemmy.world)

submitted 6 days ago by return2ozma@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] joshcodes@programming.dev 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

This advice feels a lot like something that should be stuck on a wall rather than posted as a comment in a conversational subreddit. It's kind of like reminding people on posts about alcohol and partying not to drink and drive - unprompted. Reminders like this are great, but setting and context are important, otherwise you drive people away from the conversation.

[–] TheOubliette@lemmy.ml 3 points 4 days ago

Comments with warning likes mine should be stickied at the top of all posts premised on people providing personal information in order to post.