Vlaxtocia

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secret rule in c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] Vlaxtocia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 6 months ago

That's what I used to think too!

In The Matrix, how are babies made? in c/showerthoughts@lemmy.world
[–] Vlaxtocia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 33 points 7 months ago (3 children)

No, if you die in the Matrix you die in real life

Who ARE... THESE people? in c/showerthoughts@lemmy.world
[–] Vlaxtocia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 7 months ago

Am I here late? This post just has a . In it and nothing else

Explain bidets for me please. in c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
[–] Vlaxtocia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 9 months ago

It's a shower, but just for your ass

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how did you deal with internalised transphobia? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

It's something I'm really struggling with, thanks to it it feels like I'm obsessed with the idea of 'passing', like whenever I see other trans women who don't pass it gives me a little burst of dread, thinking that it's impossible to pass and I'd never be able to. That horrible fear of looking "like a man in a dress" like there's actually a problem with that outside of the societal expectation I've had slotted into my brain.

I know that you don't have to pass to be trans, and that all trans women are equally valid, and that what I really need to do is to let go of the idea of passing altogether, and just be happy being who I am on the inside.

I was just wondering if any of you girls have been through something similar, and if you had any advice. Xx

The clothes you are wearing vanish in an instant. How does this affect you? in c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
[–] Vlaxtocia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 9 months ago

I'm currently sat on the toilet, I guess I'd take it as my queue to go have a shower

Not a fan of the new Rules in c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] Vlaxtocia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Oh has that stuff finally dropped?

Vocal training - Technical vs Practice? in c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] Vlaxtocia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 9 months ago

I've started recently too, something I took to heart was one of Vee's videos on goals and timescales, she said for basically the first month your goal should just be to play around with your voice, go high, go low, sing in a higher pitch than usual, just have fun with it. I've been doing that and I've noticed it's easier for me to maintain that higher pitch now

raytracing rule in c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] Vlaxtocia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 10 months ago

This, I can't run my pc in the summer, makes the room far too hot

Heyo! I'm Lilith :3 in c/howdy@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] Vlaxtocia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 10 months ago

You can get Minecraft hosting pretty cheap nowadays iirc, slap a basic modpack on there and it's all good! I was thinking about playing Minecraft again recently so it's good timing >:)

Finally cracked and it's been a rollercoaster. in c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] Vlaxtocia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Same girl, I'm still totally hung up on passing, even though I know I'm still questioning whether I am trans or not. Even though cis people don't get euphoria when they see a picture of someone their age passing, or thinking about being referred to with she/her lol. it's gonna take time but we'll get there queen 👑

Heyo! I'm Lilith :3 in c/howdy@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] Vlaxtocia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Oh man I'd be totally into the idea of blahaj events

Rowing is a terf, how do I prove it? in c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] Vlaxtocia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 10 months ago

I'm 6 minutes in to Shaun's video and it's already beyond reasonable doubt lol, while I kind of want to explain this to her myself (because she's super busy atm, so a 20 minute video will be a hard sell) but I doubt I'd do as good a job so I think I'll just send her a link. Thank you very much for the links!

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Rowing is a terf, how do I prove it? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

So originally I was sceptical about the TERF claims on rowling (because I didn't want them to be true), I'd assumed terminally online people had decided something silly (as has happened before), but the more I looked at it and thought about it, the more I thought, "Ok, I don't really have proof here, but the odds are looking pretty fucking likely that she is, surely it'd be quite easy for her to just say something publicly like "trans women are women" and it'd be all over".

The problem I'm having at the minute, is my wife still thinks that it's all probably something that's been blown out of proportion, and I can't explain to her why I'm not excited by the new Strike novel, or why I won't play the Harry Potter game. How do I prove to her that it isn't something that's been blown out of proportion and that Rowling really is a TERF

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Neck rule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 
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A little help with direct downloads (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

So with a little help from the megathread I have a particularly Good website for finding Old Games, and it worked yesterday when I downloaded systemshock2, but now I'm getting a 403 forbidden message. Is this from the site itself? Or is my ISP (virgin) cucking me?

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Ada you are our queen (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

Don't let those shitheels from hexbear get you down. I joined in the 196wave but I've stayed because blahaj is the safe trans affirming space I need right now, and from what I've seen you've been a key voice in making that happen. Thank you for all the hard work you do!

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Bitterule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 
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