Phoonzang

joined 2 years ago
[–] Phoonzang@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago

I can be on a different continent opening a can of tuna, yet my cat will still be next to me in a jiffy with his "you gonna finish that" look

[–] Phoonzang@lemmy.world 20 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

"Because I'm not poor! I got all the water I need from food".

My boomer dad, constantly suffering from health issues because of poor hydration. Does not help that the only liquids he consumes are beer and wine.

[–] Phoonzang@lemmy.world 9 points 4 weeks ago (3 children)

After my mother passed, I spent more time with my father than before, just because I thought it was the right thing to do (and my siblings really did not care that much). I realized why I did not have a lot if contact before, he us a classic toxic boomer narcissist.

Spending more time with him did not mean that we grieved my mother's loss as a family, it was just him monopolizing the grief and needing an audience wallow in self pity. I had no say in any aspect of the funeral, he did not listen to anything I said, he never even once asked how I was, and when I talked about stuff from my life (because someone else asked), he started talking over me, making the conversation about him again. Classic narcissist parent playbook.

At some point i was fed up, and told him as much, which of course did not go over well. Complete disbelief, he acted as if I had insulted him, yelling, accusations of being ungrateful, all the bells and whistles. Not a single thought that this behaviour might have been wrong. I just left and cut contact. After a week or so he wrote me what I think was meant as an apology. What he "apologized" for was that because of his greatness, he was always the center of attention which of course emphasized my insignificance, which he can see made me feel bad. It was so grotesque that I burst out in manic laughter, my wife was seriously worried.

The good thing about this, it made me slowly unwrap what I now realize is a lot of childhood drama (which I thought was normal), and understand why my siblings basically don't want anything to do with him. Still struggling to take the step to seek professional therapy (which I know I need), but I already feel better starting to understand that how my father treated me was not because I am worthless, but because he was a really bad dad.

[–] Phoonzang@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

But that's additional value! Seriously, they Factor the price of NaOH into their cost efficiency estimation, yes, they use the retail price of NaOH to offset the sodium cost, and only by that are comparable to synthetic aviation fuel. This is beyond ridiculous.

[–] Phoonzang@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The latest season of Black Mirror had an Episode just like this.

[–] Phoonzang@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago (3 children)

But those things do not scale with the (alleged) value oft the property, but with things like property size, number oft occupants, curb length etc. Or could even be billed at actual cost (your garbage example).

[–] Phoonzang@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

As someone who travelled to the ZS for work (under different Visas(.... Not really shocked. The shit some CBP officers pulled during immigration at the airport. "What do you mean, you are here to work, don't we have Americans to do the job?", " Why do we invited Europeans to America to speak at an American conference?", "You're here because a Swiss company bought an American company? This can't be right."

And this was mostly in California. During Obama. I can only imagine how these interaction would go now, when those notjubs feel encouraged by their leader and on the right side of history.

Not going back there for a long time.

[–] Phoonzang@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

Nonono, they plan to do it. Might take anorher 3 years for execution.

[–] Phoonzang@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago

It would in a properly free market. But late stage capitalism's goal is monopolization, because it maximises profit. Or to quote Marx: "Monopoly is the inevitable end of competition, which engenders it by a continual negation of itself."

And this is exactly what Steinbeck is describing here: "you buy food from us, at our prices, or nothing at all. We'd rather destroy our product than to sell lower." And they can do this because no one has access to the products, or the means of production (e. g. the land to grow produce).

And this is where we are today with Amazon, Nestle, Walmart and so on. They don't have any real competition anymore.

[–] Phoonzang@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Dude, you have some tiny ass washing machines.

[–] Phoonzang@lemmy.world 9 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Additional day 3: be overjoyed that you can just replicate your basic needs, so you now can work less (or not at all). All that free time! Think of all the projects xou could do!

Start by replicating junk food and beer and sloth around until the evening of Day 29, panic, make plans for some way to big Project for Day 30. Day 30 replicate stuff you need for the project. Before properly starting, realize you forgot to ~~buy~~ replicate some crucial stuff but ~~home depot is now closed~~ you've already used the replicas quota, be discouraged, overwhelmed, give up, promise "next month is going to be different!".

[–] Phoonzang@lemmy.world 7 points 3 months ago

I guess since most devices don't have removable batteries anymore, you'd be violating checked baggage regulations as they don't allow batteries. Not sure what the consequences would be, though.

 

Moin zusammen,

habe (mehr aus Langeweile als aus irgendwas sonst) eine Kreditvergleich bei einem der Aggregatoren durchgespielt, und dabei tatsächlich ein Angebot von unter 1% für 30kEUR auf 2 Jahre bekommen. Auf meinem Tagesgeldkonto Krieg ich derzeit 3.25%. Jetzt könnte ich ja einfach die 30k vom Kredit da drauflegen, und dann einfach von dort die Raten bezahlen. Kurze excelei sagt mir, dass dann am Ende gute 800 EUR übrig bleiben, und ich habe da noch nichtmal eigenes Geld eingesetzt. Selbst wenn ich zwei Stunden mit dem Kreditantrag besxhäftigt wäre,. wäre das doch ein netter Stundenlohn... Da muss doch ein Haken sein? Im Grunde könnte man sowas ja auch mehrfach machen (allerdings wohl nur soweit, wie man fiktiv die Raten bedienen könnte), oder versaut man sich damit die Schufa?

Wo ist mein Denkfehler?

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