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I searched what's rbf and lmao at the result

Imagine being used as the example photo for resting bitch face

Here we go, someone mentions how an issue affects men and it's instantly shut down with "well women have it worse".

It was pretty funny when women thought "how would you feel if" would work in this case. They clearly didn't know how starved of positive attention men are.

I'm sorry but really don't understand what you're saying. Are you saying they're ruining things by turning down a threesome because they're not into it?

Tbh, it sounds like she did try her best to clarify by mentioning her boyfriend before they actually went to the destination.

She mentioned it pretty much last minute on the day they were supposed to go. We don't know the full circumstances and I get that you're trying to see it in the best light but the situation was far from optimal. Best moment to ask would've been before agreeing, so whether purposefully or just because she didn't realize, that's where her error happened. Not to say that the guy couldn't have clarified it was a date.

I was thinking more when he's asking about going hiking. At that point it would probably be good for both, either side to make sure what the expectations are.

Of course if you start off right away with "I HAVE A BOYFRIEND" then that won't be looked at very favourably lol

Not necessarily but very commonly it is. Especially if you keep at it. It's just something to keep in mind if you do it knowingly. She might've not realized.

Someone just being into something doesn't make me feel like they're missing out. Not everyone likes the same things.

She could've been trying to make a friend and it was all an unfortunate misunderstanding. Both having been a bit more forward about things could've helped.

Why would you feel sorry for people not being into it?

If it was accidentally (she didn't realize) then could be just an unfortunate misunderstanding.

For all we know she might've been stringing him along. Story doesn't say either way.