So, you need a system that works without singularity of leadership beyond creation. That creation gets checked by anyone and eventually everyone. "Enforced" by choice of the individual and otherwise ignored. When done will help you do what you are doing with your stuff. Eventually, everyone comes together and uses these creations together to work together and build something even cooler doing way much more shit. Etc. Etc.
...Like GNU/Linux and...almost Monero.
It's about the guy you are responding to being afraid to be christ-like in a more literal fashion because he is practically admitting to such blaming their nature and all.