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I've subscribed to a plethora of communities that really interest me and actually have posts and discussions in them, but I have to go to the specific community to see this. My "Subscribed" feed only contains a few of the same posts that I've seen for weeks in Hot, the same posts from even longer ago in "Active", posts from the same communities as the ones in "Hot" in New and no other communities, and pretty much only posts from the Meme's community I unsubscribed from when sorted by "All". I also see a majority of posts barely have upvotes or comments on them at all from the "bigger" communities. Is this just the growing pains of this site? Am I still doing lemmy wrong? Is it the instance I've chosen to join?

UPDATE I want to thank everyone who posted and gave me helpful advice on this matter. It turns out that there are still lots of people here on Lemmy with me, I just couldn't see you because I was sorting my feed incorrectly. I'm excited that there are more people here and I'm excited to continue to contribute to Lemmy with you! Thank you all for the help, I really appreciate it. The solutions are to continue to subscribe, contribute to my favorite communities, and sort by top day, 12, and 6 hours. It really helped liven up my feed!

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[–] Wander@yiffit.net 310 points 1 year ago (11 children)

The Hot timeline becomes stale if the lemmy server isn't restarted every 6 hours or so, which takes 10 seconds but can't be done on larger instances such as lemmy.world because it kills the queue of outgoing activity.

This is a known bug and is being worked on. For the time being you should try with "top 6 hours" and "top 12 hours" sorting.

[–] SPOOSER@lemmy.today 77 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I appreciate the sorting suggestion! I'll try that. I understand that Lemmy isn't as big as Reddit, but I swear there are more people than my feed is leading me to believe.

[–] tburkhol@lemmy.world 54 points 1 year ago (6 children)

It's been hard to look at all these posts about how big lemmy is and how fast it's growing, to watch the scale-up issues, and keep in mind just how much smaller it still is than reddit. According to https://lemmy.fediverse.observer/stats the lemmyverse is just now closing in on 2M users (from 750k last month), but only 70,000 of them are "active." Reddit claims 50,000,000+ daily users and 400M monthly. That's essentially 1000x larger than lemmy - that's the difference between seeing your favorite band at a stadium concert or your local pub.

[–] Windex007@lemmy.world 19 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I'd be curious to see what the comment/post rate is for "active users" per platform.

It's an open secret that it's a very small percentage of users who engage in comments, and a MINISCULE fraction of a percent who post content... Tinier still the percentage of accounts that post the things that end up in the "all" feed. A boggling percentage of Reddit front page content comes from like, 100 user accounts.

[–] stankmut@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

The comment/post ratio for active users on Lemmy is 100%. An active user on Lemmy is defined as someone who has made a comment or post within the last month.

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[–] Lemmylaugh@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Then the solution becomes simple. Track those 100 power users and lure them here.

[–] FigMcLargeHuge@sh.itjust.works 18 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Please don't! That's what made reddit such a shithole in my opinion.

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[–] DoctorTYVM@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

All of us reading this post feeling the same way can do our part by posting and commenting. If everyone who thinks they're the only ones here start talking the emptyness disappears

[–] ronalicious@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

I'm definitely more active here than I am\was on reddit, and there's definitely less activity here... but I can accept that, just to get away from the firehose of nonsense that reddit has become.

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[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 30 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That's great information. Thank you so much!

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[–] Dnn@lemmy.world 15 points 1 year ago

If that's true it should really be stickied by am admin. That's crucial info.

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[–] theneverfox@pawb.social 117 points 1 year ago (11 children)

You're doing Lemmy wrong, and it's not your fault. People keep saying "instance doesn't matter" - sure, you can interact with anything all over the main lemmyverse, but the best experience is to find a home server with a community that feels right. Subscriptions and the sorting will get there, but right now ALL (or maybe even local) is a way better experience

Here's the servers I checked out:

Lemmy.world

What I signed up on. The most people, the most content, civil community. Moderation is there, but you mostly feel it by the sense of civility. They keep getting targeted and they're experiencing a lot of hiccups, but they're the biggest source of content right now. Feels to me at this point

(Sh.itjust.works)[Https://sh.itjust.works/signup] About as close as you can get to freedom of speech while keeping out the aggressive bigots. I think one of their rules is along the lines of you can drop n-bombs or argue for whatever you want, but not use slurs against actual people. That says a lot... But they're great for shitposts and are experimenting with democracy at !agora@sh.itjust.works

(Beehaw.org)[beehaw.org/signup] I'd describe it as a safe space. Heavy moderation and curation of content. Those kinds of places feel uncomfortable and tense to me so I find it hard to give it a fair review. Not my thing, but they claim to be closest to Reddit... I'd give lemmy.world that title, but it was a big site and I was constantly searching out the medium sized subs.

(Lemmy.nsfw)[Lemmynsfw.com/signup] A stable server that will show you plenty of sfw content, and the community is welcoming. And of course, there's the obvious...

(Blahaj.zone)[https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/signup] The flip side of why I go to sh.itjust.works, lots of queer shitposts. I like the memes, I like the people, not so sure about the admin... She's been stirring up a lot of drama the last few days. Maybe there's more to it, I've mostly just seen her posts that look a bit power-trippy from a distance. I've also been waiting for that to happen to see how we as a community handle it, so

(pawbs.social)[https://pawbs.social/signup] This is my main home server now. A while back I came to realize furries are always big early adopters of every new tech, they're super welcoming, and they don't care if you're not a furry so long as you don't care that they are. I like the art anyways so it doesn't bother me. A lot of tech stuff too. They are most definitely furries though, and you'll see OwOs and all that comes with that. They're very chill, until someone isn't, so if you can't handle that you're going to have a bad time

(Lemmy.ml)[Lemmy.ml/signup] The original devs instance. They're going through some stuff with their domain and definitely anticapitalist, but after digging for evidence and talking to them they're far from extremists, but the constant stream of people heading over to there to pick a fight, the site was on edge when I went there a few weeks ago. A good place if you're into good faith debate on economic and governmental systems

lemmygrad.ml was a more extreme version (literally someone came in to start a fight in every thread i saw) they're understandably pretty wary. Their ideas are out there, but they're definitely not pro genocide and don't worship Stalin (at least as a whole).

Lemmy.ml I wouldn't pick until they get their domain issue shaken out, but I included them because after an afternoon trying to get to the bottom of it (the only proof of anything I found was a mastodon post about someone very vague about what was said and ending with "unfortunately the conversation was deleted"), so it seems to me they've been getting misrepresented. I'm very open to more concrete details though

(Dbzer0.com)[https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/signup] They sail the high seas. Less content, but what was there was pretty interesting if you're into tech, security, or digital rights

Those are the sites I remember off the top of my head after exploring around, there's >2k instances (although about 100 were populated by users when I went through the data dump a few weeks back)

If you're on Android, I'm doing bug fixes before launching my app very soon, and iPhone build is coming once I can get one to test on. I pushed back the launch to pack on features, I've got keyword filtering, you can explore servers without changing accounts, it saves your place, hides read posts, it offers URL replacement (I accidentally went to Twitter for possibly the last time today and YouTube yesterday, the logo change was worth it but nitter is less jarring).

You can interact with Lemmy links, collapse comments, post with a control bar that doesn't float around, save drafts, and it's all in a dark material-design style (but with way less cards). There's still a lot to be done, but after bug fixes and optimization v2 will be focused around combing feeds and accounts to get just the right mix. Eventually I've got eyes on pixelfed and maybe even things like friendica - the beauty of the fediverse is how amazing a foundation it is to build on

For today, there's still occasional bugs and jank, but at this point I can say it's pretty stable when the servers cooperate. I'll be covering for more and more of it through the client as time goes on, but for the last 2 weeks I've been using it exclusively. My friend convinced me I need to wrap it up and put it out there and get feedback, so

Check out !flemmy@lemmy.world if you're interested, I just posted some screenshots (it will get prettier, but hopefully it's good enough to not be distracting)

[–] Tedesche@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Thank you for posting this! I realize it's just your assessments of these instances, but I've been interested to see summaries of what other instances are like, since I'm not completely satisfied with Lemmy.world. Having read your descriptions though, I think I'll stick with it a while longer.

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[–] yoz@aussie.zone 6 points 1 year ago

Thanks. I needed this

[–] miles@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Great instance review, thank you! FYI your markdown links are broken, switch the brackets, links are [like] (this) not (like)[this]

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[–] deweydecibel@lemmy.world 64 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Content aggregation is a WIP around here. Reddit had very similar issues in its early days. Give it time.

[–] SPOOSER@lemmy.today 43 points 1 year ago (8 children)

The amount of responses in this post have been extremely reassuring. I honestly just felt like I was using the site alone with a bunch of bots lol

[–] deweydecibel@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It's a bit of both. No, the place isn't empty, but it's still not populated enough for content to aggregate as well as it does on Reddit.

Content aggregates based on how the users vote. The more votes there are, the more data the algorithm has to work with, the better it can sort content.

Think of it like a waterwheel. On Reddit, the water comes in like Niagra, that wheel can power a city. Here, it's like modestly sized, gentle river so you've got less to work with.

Simultaneously, the waterwheel here is still somewhat under construction, whereas Reddit's has been a well oiled machine for many years now.

In both cases, time will fix it. Just need a little patience.

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[–] Sabata11792@kbin.social 8 points 1 year ago

Big companys dump millions into a perfect algo to milk engagement and ad views. Right now the priority seems to be security and stability before moving on to features. Lemmy blew up pretty much over night. Its going to take time and volunteers to improve.

[–] mrmanager@lemmy.today 56 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sort by 6 or 12 hours is super important.

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[–] redcalcium@lemmy.institute 47 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Here is what I do. First, sort by Top Day to see what I missed. Then sort by Top 12 hours to reveal newer stuff. Then sort by Top 6 hours, Top 1 hour, any finally Sort by New until I run out of content. At that point, it's time to put down the phone and do something else.

[–] xylogx@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I pretty much sort by new most of the time. There is less noise in the system right now so you do not have to wade through so much toxic BS. That also means that you actually run out of genuinely new content pretty quickly. Viewing new posts has some nice side effects in that comments get good engagement much more often and you get to have a real influence on whether something gains traction.

[–] can@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I try to comment on new a lot too. Even if it's nothing substantial I figure people are more likely to add something if there's already a comment. Someone could have a really interesting take but if they see 0 comments they might not even bother.

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[–] WackyTabbacy42069@reddthat.com 37 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There's just not as many people here as there is on Reddit. Things will be slow for as long as we don't have large numbers. Best thing you can do to make things better is engage frequently and spread the good word of Lemmy

[–] SPOOSER@lemmy.today 12 points 1 year ago

Thanks, I'll keep trying to do my part to grow my favorite communities on Lemmy.

[–] iRyu@lemmy.world 31 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I feel your pain! Sorting by Top 6 Hours is my current go to, mostly because I only scroll every few hours or so. Additionally, I start by scrolling through "Home" then transition to "All" if I feel like it. If you use the voyager app, there's a new function to hide read posts, which could be helpful to you, as well!

[–] 933k@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago

That "top 6 hours" tip is great, thanks for sharing

[–] Vlhacs@reddthat.com 31 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I felt the same way, but it's mostly due to lemmy's still premature sorting algorithm. Sorting by New, Top Hour, or Top Six changed my experience drastically. There's still issues like posts having not enough involvement through comments, and duplicate posts from similar communities, but overall it's much better after about a month in.

[–] SJ0@lemmy.fbxl.net 28 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I've been preferring new or top X hours ago, then just choose the X for the last time you visited.

[–] slaughtermouse@lemmy.world 33 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Okay, so here's my first problem with the Twitter rebrand

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[–] electromage@lemm.ee 23 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm just seeing a wall of the same crap about Reddit and Twitter most of the time. I need to learn it better, and I think the technology has room to grow. The userbase exploded, and a lot of people have their own ideas of how it should work.

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[–] DaveNa@lemmy.ml 21 points 1 year ago

My takes: 1. Lemmy is small yet, so, few content. 2. A lot of propaganda accounts. You need to block communities and users. 3. Once in a while a small community make it to the top, so you found about it and subscribe to it. 4. Little by little your feed gets better. 5. Human nature, you can't escape from it, you know, that quote about how stupid is the average person and so. 6 Accept the limitations and enjoy the platform. PS: I do like all the silly memes.

[–] fujiwood@lemmy.world 20 points 1 year ago (10 children)

You're not going to like what I'm about to say.

You're part of the problem. You can fix it though.

Ready?

You need to make original content for the communities you are apart of and stop expecting others to provide you the conent you want. Because if that's what everyone did, then there would be absolutely nothing here.

That's just the way it is right now. There's not enough original content creators on Lemmy yet.

What does original content mean? It doesn't mean reposts from other websites. It doesn't mean articles from other websites. The original content was already posted by the writers of the articles, on the original website. It doesn't mean comments you make. My comment here isn't original content. It's a reaction.

Original content is something you make. You baked some sourdough bread? Post. You made a chair from wood? Post. You made something out of leather? Post. You took a nice photo? Post. You made some digital art? Post. You drew a sketch of a building? Post. You did "insert hobby"? Post. You're a collector of this niche thing? Post.

The truth is, original content can be hard and time-consuming. It takes a certain mind to want to post original content. If everyone here would make just one original content post, I think that would help make Lemmy a better social media site.

Be the change.

[–] SPOOSER@lemmy.today 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Your ~~rant~~ post is ill-placed, because I'm trying to do that. I've already posted and commented multiple posts in communities I enjoy trying to garner attention and content. But i'm also a busy person who's trying to live with a family, children, and a budding carreer. I understand I need to be a part of the community and I am doing more now than I ever have on Reddit.

EDIT: I also wanted to add that this post is not about me complaining about a lack of content, it was a misunderstanding of the sorting algorithm. After posting this, I got lots of very helpful advice to help me use Lemmy's sorting better and my enjoyment of Lemmy has improved immensly to the point of where my experience on Lemmy is no longer lame.

EDIT 2: I must have misread your post because it was not condesending, but more motivating. I appreciate the sentiment and redact the condesending part, but stand by the rest of what I've said. I deleted the entire second paragraph because I was defensive and wrong in its entirety. I appreciate the sentiment while affirming I am trying to contribute more while my life is still very busy. I apologize for getting defensive.

[–] fujiwood@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

You're right, I didnt look at your profile. That was my mistake. My comment wasn't intended to be an attack on you. It was more of a generalization of a problem of Lemmy at the moment. I should have gone out of my way to look at your profile and to better phrase what I was saying so that you and others wouldn't feel as though I was making a personal attack. Sorry about making you feel attacked.

[–] tabularasa@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

I commend your amazing apology. This is what makes this community better than Reddit.

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[–] constantokra@lemmy.one 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

This type of 'post or you're the problem' comment really gets on my nerves too. If no one replies, people won't post again, and if a sub is nothing but single posts no one's coming back.

It's great you're putting in the effort to post, and people should appreciate that. I'm autistic and I can't post. I can give incredibly detailed information in response to a post or a comment if it relates in any way to any of my special interests. And I do. And so do people like me. It's why you can find the answer to basically any question on the internet. These 'post more' people need to cool it, because the reason people like content like this is depth and engagement and it's not going to happen without people engagine with the content too.

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[–] Silviecat44@aussie.zone 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Turn on “hide read post”! It changes everything

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[–] fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com 14 points 1 year ago

Once clients add "mark read on scroll" this may go away, too.

[–] RunAwayFrog@sh.itjust.works 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sort by "best" is coming to Lemmy, in case you didn't know.

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[–] Hazdaz@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm shocked you have had any discussions at all, quite frankly. Step outside of the some of these more visited subs and you see threads that are many days or weeks old with 0 replies. And lots of them at that. It doesn't make you want ot contribute because you know you won't get any replies either, so that kind of perpetuates the problem. You need a certain critical mass of visitors to a sub to get it going and sustain itself.

Also, I too have noticed that the same threads appear over and over again, days later. I can't imagine there is such little traffic that more posts aren't getting posted, but who knows.

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[–] Magrath@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I feel you. Hot just doesn't work like it did on Reddit. I get swamped with posts from the most active communities and some old posts. It doesn't give me a nice spread of all my subbed communities like Reddit did. Also when browsing all it gave randomly showed me like 10 posts from some long nosed dog community. Did it twice so I blocked that community. Probably not on them, but just an issue with the Hot algorithm.

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[–] Astroturfed@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

What, you don't like all the crazy fury porn? Cuz I mean, if you don't like fury porn..... Ya there's a lot of it.

[–] SPOOSER@lemmy.today 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I have, thankfully, seemed to have avoided a lot of the furry porn. If you like it, more power to you! I'm thankful I can avoid that kind of content!

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[–] Fibby@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 year ago

I like to sort by top of the hour. Gives you recent posts that you can still engage with but is more filtered than "new".

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