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whenever I post or talk to people on an online forum or something like that, they think that I'm a child or "chid-llike" q.q That is fake!! I'm not a child because I am 20 years old ok!! But it's ok if they think that, I think it's something disrespectful >.<

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[–] maquise@ttrpg.network 48 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Learn to write better; use proper punctuation and grammar.

[–] gravitas_deficiency@sh.itjust.works 41 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

doesn’t capitalize

q.q

>.<

whines about being pigeonholed as a child due to how they communicate on a social network

“I deserve to be treated like an adult because I am at least 1 year and 1 day past the US age of majority”

I remember my first time on the internet, too

[–] Bloodwoodsrisen@lemmy.blahaj.zone 26 points 11 months ago

I'm 22, 23 next month. The reason you're being labeled as a child is the way you type. The vibes people are getting from your messages/posts do convey a pre-teen person. Tone down the exclamation points and capitalize the beginning of sentences. Emotion Faces should probably be reserved for chats with friends or family as on the internet they are tied to younger people. Here's a re-written version of your post as an example:

"Whenever I post or talk to people on an online forum or something, they think that I'm a child or child-like. But I'm not, I am a 20 y/o. It's fine if they think that, but I think it's disrespectful."

[–] HamSwagwich@showeq.com 19 points 11 months ago

Your biological age doesn't matter on the Internet. Your only currency is how you communicate. If you communicate like a child, as far as the Internet is concerned, you are a child. If you want to be treated like an adult you need to act/communicate like an adult.

[–] morphballganon@lemmy.world 10 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Adults convey meaning with words, not emojis.

[–] 01adrianrdgz@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

ok thank you for that feedback!! I will limit the emoji use, that is a nice feedback, thank you.

[–] RightHandOfIkaros@lemmy.world 9 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

q.q

Perhaps this?

[–] properlypurple@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 11 months ago (1 children)

The secret is to not care about what people on the internet think or say. You do you 💜

[–] 01adrianrdgz@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

thank you very much for that!! Please be yourself too always. Thank you!!

[–] theKalash@feddit.ch 9 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I mean, twenty is just a couple of years short of still being a child, depending on definition. When people tell you that on the internet it's usally not an actual guess of your age range, they are telling you that you're acting childish.

[–] yum13241@lemm.ee 8 points 11 months ago

I'm a teenager and I don't talk like that.

Just:

Capitalize your sentences Stop spamming emoticons, emojis, and exclamation marks Don't be naive Use common sense

And you'll be fine.

[–] Ganbat@lemmyonline.com 6 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Your typing and mannerisms are very child-like, and your responses show a naivety indicative of immaturity. Not an insult, just an observation, but I did see your post a few days ago, and the statement "Xenia wouldn't say that," struck me as... Prepubescent.

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago
[–] governorkeagan@lemdro.id 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Where’s the popcorn? I’m loving the comments (specifically the OPs responses)!