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[–] Asnabel@lemm.ee 71 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (5 children)

Remember guys and gals, it's not body shaming when men are on the receiving end!

[–] Lumidaub@feddit.de 34 points 10 months ago

"This person conducts themselves with a confidence that usually comes with physical traits typically considered desirable."

[–] Omega_Haxors@lemmy.ml 7 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

That's why I prefer 'big ballsack energy' It's something every male can achieve with enough waiting or the right diet.

[–] Grayox@lemmy.ml 1 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Are you implying the term Big Dick Energy is body shaming men?

[–] criitz@reddthat.com 34 points 10 months ago (3 children)

Yes. It equates body types with positive/negative traits. ie. "Big dick energy" implies "small dick = bad"

[–] Touching_Grass@lemmy.world 15 points 10 months ago (3 children)

Can we shut the fuck up about being sensitive to everything. Just for a day. Sincerely guy with small dick. Its cold out. Always.

[–] killeronthecorner@lemmy.world 11 points 10 months ago (1 children)
[–] lemann@lemmy.one 1 points 10 months ago

Nooooo 😭😂😂

[–] criitz@reddthat.com 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Sorry that adapting is uncomfortable but no

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[–] Vampiric_Luma@lemmy.ca 2 points 10 months ago
[–] JohnDClay@sh.itjust.works 9 points 10 months ago

I think it's analogous to referring to balls the size of wrecking balls or something. I don't know of anyone who thinks bigger physical balls are superior to smaller balls, but the phrase is still common to denote courage. I think big dick energy is not as decoupled from people's biology as big balls, but it's still mostly decoupled in common usage.

[–] Grayox@lemmy.ml 7 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I could see how the phrase implies that, however this meme subverts that by saying that dick size doesn't matter as much as your energy does. And the meme literally says that small dick energy is bad, not having a small pp.

[–] criitz@reddthat.com 12 points 10 months ago (6 children)

Small dick energy is bad but not small dicks? How does that make any sense. Think about it.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Saying small dick energy is just a different way of calling someone out for acting insecure it has nothing to do with the size of their dick.

[–] GreyEyedGhost@lemmy.ca 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Insecure like someone with a....?

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 4 points 10 months ago

Insecurity problem

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[–] crystal@feddit.de 5 points 10 months ago

doesn't matter as much

[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 3 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (9 children)

It does literally refer to penis size. Hiding it behind the word "energy" is just obfuscation. It reminds me of racist people defending the N word by saying, "there's black people, then there's Ns. Black people are fine, Ns aren't."

You're just kicking the can down the road. It's the exact same idea, phrased differently. You just wanna say "small dick" and get away with it, that's all.

[–] Zehzin@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

MFer did you just compare "small dick energy" to the n word 💀

[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Did you just describe what I did in a reductive way, without even attempting to explain your point? Why should I listen to you?

Try attacking the idea itself: "You’re just kicking the can down the road. It’s the exact same idea, phrased differently."

[–] Zehzin@lemmy.world 0 points 10 months ago (2 children)

"That's reductive", said the N-word comparer 💀💀

[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 3 points 10 months ago (10 children)

Attack the argument or accept that you're wrong.

"Small dick energy" is just a way to say "small dick" without getting called out for it.

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[–] lolcatnip@reddthat.com 2 points 10 months ago

Ooh, name calling! Based on a willful misinterpretation of what they said, too. A sure sign of a solid argument!

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[–] problematicPanther@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago

spoken like one with little dick energy.

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[–] Zehzin@lemmy.world 25 points 10 months ago

"A specter is haunting Europe, the specter of deez nuts"

[–] mycatiskai@lemmy.one 17 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Except when a lady friend wants a big dick, then all the big dick energy in the world isn't going to do a lick of good, that's when you have to bring out the lick of good.

[–] funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

This is why I only get with ladies who like men that are the spitting image of Edgar Allen Poe. Never leave em disappointed.

[–] mycatiskai@lemmy.one 3 points 10 months ago

Is that why he grieved for lost Lenore, he couldn't find another who insisted on never more, just enough.

[–] paddirn@lemmy.world 14 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Can confirm, having a big dick really hasn’t helped me out.

[–] problematicPanther@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

you don't get into dick measuring contests with your homies?

[–] paddirn@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

We prefer games of skill, like dick-sucking contests, so it’s not the size of your member that counts.

[–] peopleproblems@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

Me neither. But, having big dick energy with a big dick is pretty awesome.

[–] jballs@sh.itjust.works 4 points 10 months ago

¿Porque no los dos?

[–] curiousaur@reddthat.com 1 points 10 months ago

It's a lot easier to have the energy if you've got it though. It just comes naturally. Being tall helps too.

[–] Immersive_Matthew@sh.itjust.works 1 points 10 months ago

Not for happiness

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