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I’m really curious where else everyone here hangs out on the internet besides Lemmy.

I myself am frequently on discord with my wife and friends playing games. I’ve also found myself in and around smaller blogs spaces like Kev Quirk and related people. Reddit used to be a place for me to hang out but I never found a community that I felt connected to. I don’t know if YouTube would be considered a place to hang out, but I frequently spend way more time there than I should. IRC used to be a great place for me.

So, where are your favorite places?

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[–] hperrin@lemmy.world 48 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I like Mastodon, but I gotta say, Lemmy has basically taken over as my go to boredom relief app. When I’m not on Lemmy, I’m probably on YouTube.

Then there’s work: GitHub and email.

And play: Steam.

[–] amitten@normalcity.life 9 points 10 months ago

I don't get the whole twitter-like microblogging thing. Mastodon feels kind of strange to me because it's similar to that. I try to find a cool place to hang out there, but it always feels like a waste. But YouTube... the amount of time I give YouTube.. lol

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[–] MrGG@lemmy.ca 36 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I'm still on IRC! There's a raw simplicity to it that I appreciate. You don't have to use a bloated Electron app to connect to a proprietary service, you can just go straight text on the protocol-level in terminal (if you're nuts), and the protocol is open and simple enough to understand that you can easily make your own client even if you're a lazy or mediocre dev.

So IRC, Lemmy, and I guess Instagram (if that counts)

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[–] Thorny_Insight@lemm.ee 24 points 10 months ago (1 children)

98% YouTube and 2% Lemmy

If rest of the internet dissapeared it would take a while for me to notice.

[–] Feidry@lemmy.world 11 points 10 months ago (13 children)

I'm like 90% YouTube, 2% Lemmy and 8% just googling random stuff. Celebrity facts, historical events, programming problems, stuff I want to buy. YouTube is king though. Kinda hate that I waste so much time on it.

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[–] 1984@lemmy.today 21 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I think some of us are intentionally avoiding big tech now and try to find places online that doesn't feel completely dead soul wise.

Lemmy feels good for me, but I'm also looking for web sites where I feel connected to people.

[–] amitten@normalcity.life 4 points 10 months ago (4 children)

I’ve found that small blogs are excellent for this. I started my own and reached out to a few smaller blogs from some really interesting people. I instantly felt at home in the community.

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Thanks, yes, I guess it's time to go back to following blogs and interacting with real people again on the web. Before big tech, that's what the entire internet was. Just lots of original web sites from individuals wanting to show their web design skills or talking about random topics.

It just feels like it's harder to find those now, and also a bit inconvenient to remember to go to each site every now and then. We got lazy with centralized services, with everything under one centralized controlled roof owned by an insane billionaire with mommy issues.

[–] amitten@normalcity.life 6 points 10 months ago

An RSS reader is the ideal tool for that. No need to remember to go to every site when all of them are in one place. And most blogs have an RSS feed as well.

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[–] Saigonauticon@voltage.vn 13 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Hacker News, mainly.

Sometimes I log on to Reddit to help travelers to my country or hobbyists trying to learn engineering. I try to avoid discussion on Reddit as the quality is often not high, e.g. lots of tourists asking how to commit crimes in my country -- better to just not answer.

For discussion I go here, it's much more interesting.

IRC has always been pretty cool. I might go back to that one day. For now this is just the part of my life where I try to make money and don't have much time to socialize.

[–] amitten@normalcity.life 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Which IRC servers are worth some time?

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[–] davefischer@beehaw.org 12 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Primarily mastodon. Really enjoying that.

Facebook for relatives & friends from the real world.

[–] amitten@normalcity.life 7 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I find the Mastodon/Threads/Twitter medium to be kind of hard to love sometimes. You must have found a great community! Where/who do you interact with on Mastodon?

[–] davefischer@beehaw.org 6 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Retrocomputing, film & art crowds.

I've been posting a lot of silent film stuff recently.

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[–] eezeebee@lemmy.ca 11 points 10 months ago (6 children)
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[–] toastal@lemmy.ml 10 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (2 children)

XMPP MUCs, IRC, some Matrix Spaces. Lobsters, Mastodon.

I refuse Discord. I really wish I could refuse Microsoft GitHubβ€”source code doesn’t need to be a proprietary social media plaform.

[–] isolatedscotch@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

if it isn't for work related stuff, there are some self hosted github alternatives like gitlab, gitea and gogs

they might have less features tho

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[–] jecht360@lemmy.world 10 points 10 months ago (1 children)

At this point it's mainly Lemmy, Imgur, and Discord for me.

[–] chagall@lemmy.world 9 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Do you just look at pictures on Imgur? Are there actual communities? I’ve only used it as a place to upload pictures to link on Lemmy or Reddit.

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[–] purple@lemm.ee 9 points 10 months ago

YouTube has kicked the wasp nest by blocking Adblockers. Lots of drama over there

[–] i_am_hungry@meganice.online 8 points 10 months ago (4 children)

I only hang out here, been spending way less time browsing online, which I'd say is a good thing. Been playing more video games, and even reading.

Also I'm curious about Discord, when people say they hang out there, do they just find a channel they like and keep up with the chat all day?

as someone who was heavily addicted to discord: yes, morning routine was basically reading messages from the night, mostly fear of missing out

[–] yads@lemmy.ca 3 points 10 months ago

Also I'm curious about Discord, when people say they hang out there, do they just find a channel they like and keep up with the chat all day?

I think so. I'm in a few discords, but don't really keep up with it. However, people seem to be active in them.

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[–] Pika@sh.itjust.works 8 points 10 months ago

If it counts, I know a lot of people hang out on VR chat. It's a very common misnomer that you need a VR to run the platform, most of my friends don't even bother being in VR they just use it in desktop mode. I expect you probably meant more text-based, but I wanted to throw that on the board as well

[–] 6daemonbag@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I still use Instagram to keep up and chat with friends and Facebook only because my kid's school only posts there

[–] JTStrikesBack@lemm.ee 5 points 10 months ago

The obligation to stay on Facebook for things like this is so frustrating at times. It feels like LinkedIn, where I have it because it's the only place to get some information.

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[–] JeSuisUnHombre@lemm.ee 7 points 10 months ago

My routine is, in this order, Lemmy, Mastodon, Tumblr

[–] atlasraven31@lemm.ee 7 points 10 months ago

Reddit for niche topics, Imgur for weird and funny.

[–] TH1NKTHRICE@lemmy.ca 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Twitter and BlueSky. Shifting more so to the latter the worse the former gets.

[–] amitten@normalcity.life 6 points 10 months ago (9 children)

No Mastodon? I always assume all of us lemmy people use Mastodon (if they are into the twitter kind of thing).

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[–] Thisfox@sopuli.xyz 6 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Forums. Those of interests that interest me, specific games forums, OS forums, comic book forums, forums.

Lemmy is just a weird poorly-designed forum I also read.

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[–] thorbot@lemmy.world 5 points 10 months ago

This is it. And board game geek. And discord.

[–] AceFuzzLord@lemm.ee 5 points 10 months ago

Even though I'm technically not hanging out with people, I like to occasionally look through some of the different sites on Neocities to see what cool things people have made.

[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 5 points 10 months ago

Discord and the osrs grand exchange w390 or dustbowl tf2

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 5 points 10 months ago

TV Tropes is absolutely packed if you ever want to join.

[–] kratoz29@lemm.ee 5 points 10 months ago

According to my Android phone:

Sync for Lemmy in second or first place most of the time, same for Telegram.

A bit of Discord and Sync for Reddit too.

Firefox random searches.

A bit of Meta apps (almost zero use of Instagram, but it vary with Facebook, WhatsApp and Messenger, usually FB is the winner).

Feeder and Feedly at the very last (I get my tech news right here).

YouTube I use it a lot, not on mobile but my Shield TV

[–] nothacking@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

IRC, assorted mailing lists and forums, Matrix, Mastodon and occasionally Reddit (blasphemy, I know)

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[–] fluffery@lemmy.ml 4 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Matrix, lemmy, mastodon, mumble, im not a fan of irc I have an xmpp, i dont use it often tho I also have signal for irls

[–] fluffery@lemmy.ml 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Ive used discord, trying to run away from it

If anyone wants to chat im down my contact site lol (idk if thats self advertising)

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[–] w3dd1e@lemm.ee 4 points 10 months ago

Lemmy is my go to when I have downtime and want to mindlessly scroll but I’ve been really into making things lately so I’ve been on GitHub for fun trying to understand how other projects work.

[–] xmunk@sh.itjust.works 4 points 10 months ago

YCombinator's HackerNews mostly.

[–] kaffiene@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago

Mastodon mostly

[–] h_a_r_u_k_i@programming.dev 4 points 10 months ago

Mostly YouTube, Hacker News, and some mailing lists. I do join some random forums to discuss non-tech hobbies like English writings, games, or classical music.

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