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[–] Lairo@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

Y'all motherfuckers acting like sensory processing issues are exclusive to autism.

Many people with ADHD have sensory issues too

[–] justme@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 3 hours ago

Ok that explains a lot. Thank you

[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago

Yup. I very much dislike the feel of microfiber towels. Ugh.

[–] ninjabard@lemmy.world 10 points 15 hours ago

Mine was always that fuzzy pillow material that was all the rage either side of 2010.

"It'S sO sOfT! FeEl It!"

It feels greasy and I hate it

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 42 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (3 children)

That's a crap microfiber cloth if it feels like velcro. All mine feel almost as smooth as silk on one side, and soft suede on the other.

[–] Zorque@lemmy.world 28 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

There's different types of microfiber cloths. The ones you're thinking of are generally used for cleaning glasses or phone screens. There's others that have a more carpety texture that are often used for dusting or cleaning larger objects.

[–] kautau@lemmy.world 10 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Thanks for pointing this out. The entire comment section is devolving into discussion about neurodivergence and moisturizer when it’s a huge difference in the two types of microfiber cloths, and one of them grasps little bits of your skin

[–] kkj@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 16 hours ago

The grabbier one still feels pretty smooth unless your skin is really dry. The smoother one feels smooth even if your skin is dry.

[–] treadful@lemmy.zip 16 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Then you have some smooth hands.

[–] fuckwit_mcbumcrumble@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 20 hours ago (1 children)
[–] xylol@leminal.space 5 points 17 hours ago

Even with moisturizer working with screws and stuff with your hands you get velcro fingers

[–] Ephera@lemmy.ml 3 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Is that usable for dusting then, or is that for something else? I feel like for dusting, you want a somewhat rougher structure, so it can hold the dust better...

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 9 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

They've all come with glasses or other glass lensed items, and I use them more for removing smudges than dust. But that's why it has two sides. It doesn't need to be rough, it just needs a lot of surface area. The suede-like side provides that, but even my dry-ass hands don't get that funky Velcro feeling rubbing against it.

[–] Ephera@lemmy.ml 13 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

As far as I'm aware, the microfiber cloths specifically made for dusting have a structure like this:

Microfiber cloths looking almost like they're knitted.

So, it isn't (intentionally) rough either. You wouldn't really scrub with these. But yeah, certainly not ever going to be silky smooth either...

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 3 points 20 hours ago

I have some like that I use as dish towels. And yeah, those definitely feel like velcro. I guees I've just never heard these ones called microfiber before.

[–] meejle@lemmy.world 4 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

You know what one of the worst things in the world is?

Those "lenticular" prints, where you can see different pictures if you tilt them: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kOr9DwI4Rf0

Just... sheer sensory horror. 😬

[–] otacon239@lemmy.world 4 points 11 hours ago

It’s weird. I’m the opposite. I would run my finger back and forth on them to the point of wearing down my fingernail to make the zippy nose.

[–] rc__buggy@sh.itjust.works 12 points 21 hours ago (3 children)

Lotion is cheap, staying hydrated is cheaper

[–] ThePantser@sh.itjust.works 18 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

If you work with your hands then no amount of hydration will solve this. You build up calluses and that's what causes the rough spots and catches on the MF.

[–] glimse@lemmy.world 3 points 20 hours ago

Not totally true. I worked with my hands for years and had pretty rough hands from it but I noticed my friend in an even rougher industry (HVAC) so I asked him wtf he was doing and within a couple weeks, my hands were on great shape.

The answer is using lotion AND preventative maintenance. If a callous starts to rip, smooth it out with an emery board. It's otherwise not that rough if you losh up 2-3 times a day

[–] rc__buggy@sh.itjust.works 0 points 15 hours ago

I think it's fair to say I work with my hands, what with setting tile. I don't let my hands get gross but lots of my coworkers do.

You might be able to handcuff them with a dry microfiber, but the cloth just slips off of my hands

[–] Ephera@lemmy.ml 3 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Dry skin is mostly caused by not enough oils being on your skin, which normally prevent the water from escaping. You'll have a hard time hydrating so much that that's no problem at all.

But at the same time, the cheapest lotion will do the trick. In principle, you can even use sunflower oil or similar. The water isn't picky from what oil it gets blocked...

[–] rc__buggy@sh.itjust.works -1 points 15 hours ago

That's so wrong I can't even. Drink more water!

[–] verity_kindle@sh.itjust.works 2 points 20 hours ago (1 children)
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[–] GolfNovemberUniform@infosec.pub 10 points 22 hours ago (4 children)
[–] Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world 16 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

OP has sensory issues related to neurodivergence. It's not uncommon, I have an undiagnosed family member in denial who can't stand touching anything plastic.

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 12 points 21 hours ago

Or they have dry hands that catch on stuff like microfiber cloths. I hate touching them when my hands are dry and rough from doing yard work or woodworking, but no issue when they aren't.

[–] grue@lemmy.world 9 points 20 hours ago

There are people who indiscriminately crosspost things between ADHD and autism communities as if they aren't two different conditions.

[–] jol@discuss.tchncs.de 6 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Triggers bad sensorial feelings in many people

[–] GolfNovemberUniform@infosec.pub 10 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

Hmm ig that could be possible but I still don't think it's related to ADHD.

[–] tdawg@lemmy.world 3 points 21 hours ago

Maybe not, but people with adhd are definitely more likely to talk about something that bothers them

[–] jol@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 20 hours ago

There are no single symptoms that mean you have adhd. But texture sensitivity is sometimes one of them.

[–] Ephera@lemmy.ml 2 points 21 hours ago

To me, it feels almost like I'm touching very fine-grained sandpaper...

[–] Itdidnttrickledown@lemmy.world 3 points 19 hours ago

Only winter time. In the summer my hand are smooth enough I don't have to get drunk to touch one.

[–] AnarchoEngineer@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 20 hours ago

Well, thanks to the comments, TIL that I might hate this because I have really dry hands lol

[–] ThePantser@sh.itjust.works 3 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (1 children)

When lotion is not cutting it then....

I take 200grit sandpaper to get the rough spots off then use 400grit to get a silky smooth finish. Make sure to do a wet sanding, I use a bit of hand lotion as the wetting agent.

Works well on hands and feet, if your skin is that Velcroy then you won't even notice the sanding has hurt you. Fingers are a bit tender for a few days but it's worth it.

[–] Thorry84@feddit.nl 4 points 20 hours ago

YSK this is actually a bad idea. By repeatedly damaging the skin this way you can actually trigger a nerve condition where the ends of your nerves just send pain signals all the time. People who work in professions where they scrub their hands a lot for their work are at risk of this. It's probably fine to do every once in a while, but don't make it a regular thing.

The chance is small, but I know a few folk who were real men when they were younger so they didn't wear gloves when they really should have. Just don't worry about it and scrub it off was the mindset back then and men wearing PPE were (and sometime are) seen as weak. But they describe the pain as getting stabbed in the hand repeatedly and wish they just wore the gloves.

[–] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 1 points 20 hours ago

Actually one of the worst textures

[–] nfamwap@feddit.uk 1 points 20 hours ago

This, but for cotton wool.