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Showerthoughts

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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

Here are some examples to inspire your own showerthoughts:

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[–] Ephera@lemmy.ml 20 points 3 days ago (1 children)

By some definition of "further", sure. Mainly the definition someone with no remorse would have.

[–] Randomgal@lemmy.ca 18 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Exactly. OPs logic only works if your definition of happiness is money and going from being the oppressed to the oppressor.

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[–] LavaPlanet@sh.itjust.works 22 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Yay capitalism! Perfect reasoning not to feel bad lying on a resume.

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[–] Salamanderwizard@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I'll die poor with morals rather than rich and evil. I'm okay with that.

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[–] JPSound@lemmy.world 11 points 3 days ago

Depends on how you define "further". I'd like to leave this earth knowing I had a positive impact on those i met while I was here. I can sleep easy at night, even dispte all the hardships in my life atm, knowing I'm doing the best with what it is I have. Also, in my early 30's, I started to really internalize the, "having nice things means keeping things nice" i.e. you don't need new shiny things all the time. Take care of what you already have and you'll never be without.

I can't lie and manipulate my way into being a kind and honorable man, friend, son and brother. Me achieving those things brings me greater peace of mind and satisfaction than anything I'd ever need to lie my way into to get.

[–] Fletcher@lemmy.today 18 points 3 days ago (1 children)

One doesn't do the right thing to be rewarded or to 'get ahead'. One does the right thing because it's the right thing to do. Selfishness only leads to insecurity and loneliness.

[–] JasonDJ@lemmy.zip 9 points 3 days ago

Yep. That's what the selfish ones have been telling us for thousands of years.

[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 6 points 2 days ago

I've been self-employed for about 30 years, which puts you rubbing elbows with other self-employed business people.

I have learned that while MOST people want to run a friendly, moral, legal business, and would never cross the line, there are a plenty of amoral businesspeople who don't have any problems crossing the line.

Furthermore, they are well-aware that many businesspeople won't cross the line, so that makes their willingness to act illegally or immorally their personal competitive edge, and they absolutely look at it that way.

They watch for decent, moral businesses, and they target them in various ways, either as a competitor, a supplier, a contractor, etc.

[–] thatradomguy@lemmy.world 7 points 3 days ago

House MD Pilot

[–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Ha, not really. If your only measure of success is your bank account then you're playing high risk / reward with a dishonest strategy that either lands you in prison or a jacuzzi.

Then when you get to the really bad end of the spectrum, well...

Do you think Hitler smiled as he killed himself? Do you think his confidants died easy? Evil people make their own lives shit, they just drag everyone else down with them. I see Elon Musk and Donald Trump in the news on the verge of tears every other day because everyone hates them.

[–] TheReanuKeeves@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

Everyone knows his body was a double and Hitler fled to Argentina where he changed his name to Mateo González to pursue a career in dog breeding and pastries for diabetics

[–] aesthelete@lemmy.world 10 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Yup and add intelligence to the list as well. Smart means nothing if you can't back it up with being an amoral pile of shit that takes advantage of people every opportunity you get.

[–] realitista@lemmy.world 12 points 3 days ago (8 children)

If you are smart, you can afford the luxury of not being a complete piece of shit if you get into the right career.

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[–] benni@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago

It makes a lot of sense. Lying and manipulation are done specifically to achieve goals. A defining characteristic of morals is that you're supposed to follow them even if it's neutral or disadvantageous for you. If someone follows "morals" to achieve a personal goal, they're not actually following morals, they're just acting in a way that incidentally looks moral.

[–] Strider@lemmy.world 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Absolutely true and stating otherwise is just crowd control.

[–] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago (1 children)

See, we used to exile those types. Modern society lost that ability and now we have CEOs.

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[–] kryptonianCodeMonkey@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Depends what you mean by "further". It is a trait that definitely serves well in some very lucrative areas like business or politics. But it very easy to ruin other aspects of your life like your relationships, your public image, and can run you afoul of the law. In areas of work where your image is paramount, being a liar and manipulator usually only gets you so far because it's very hard to maintain those lies and hide the manipulation under massive public scrutiny, particularly if you're doing illegal stuff in addition to it. Of course the wealthier you are, or the more fanatical your following, the more you will have others lie and manipulate on your behalf, so... accountability can decrease that way.

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[–] Pencilnoob@lemmy.world 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I disagree, other than a few notable counter examples most times folks are only successful when they build reliable business relationships. Most relationships will dissolve if one party is playing games.

On average it's more effective to follow "The No Assholes Rule". There's plenty of studies (referenced in the book Good To Great) that indicate that humble business leaders produce build more stable and long term profitable companies.

Lying manipulators can sometimes get ahead but just as often they get found out and blackballed.

I think it might be like a game theory type situation where if everyone is honest, then the first liar might get ahead a lot (although I suspect in that situation they'd immediately be shunned by all honest folk if found out). If everyone is a liar then honest folk have nothing to hide and probably will just be really defensive in their dealings.

[–] TheReanuKeeves@lemmy.world 12 points 3 days ago (7 children)

Business relationships are almost always purely transactional. When you stop being able to supply someone with what they want or at a good price then they will find someone else. The average CEO is not a friendly selfless person, which is why sociopaths find success in the business world.

Do you believe that the majority of people who hold power and influence are genuine philanthropists?

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[–] plyth@feddit.org 5 points 3 days ago

That depends on how much people with morals stick together. People are isolated so that they can be manipulated.

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