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[–] wordcraeft@lemm.ee 3 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I wake up around 5:00-6:00, depending on the day and when my wife gets up.

I’m a morning person. I cease to function after 8 pm, unless I’ve been drinking. Regardless, I cannot physically sleep during daylight hours.

[–] Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 7 hours ago

Exactly the same here, minus the wife. If I make it to 9pm without being in bed it's a miracle. I wake up with the sunrise and get tired at sunset.

[–] golden_zealot@lemmy.ml 1 points 8 hours ago

Tuesdays and Thursdays when I have to take a train to work I'm up by 700 or earlier. Every other weekday when I'm remote I'm up at 730 to 800. I'm off every day at 1530. Weekends I'm up anywhere from 800 to 1100.

[–] mutat0@lemm.ee 2 points 11 hours ago

5:25am. Work at 6. Out at 4. Four day work week. 👍🏼

[–] Lennnny@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

11am, I'm a lazy fuck.

[–] Toekneegee@lemm.ee 1 points 1 day ago

7PM I work nights

[–] Lycaon@lemm.ee 7 points 1 day ago

Between 5:30 and 6:00 am, work or no work I'm just a morning person in general. If I'm not up by 7 am my dog comes over to check if I'm still alive lol

[–] grogreen@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

4.30 on a work day otherwise the sun wakes me up, so sleep in in winter

[–] VirginiaLife4me@lemm.ee 9 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Retiree and I am always up by 4am at the absolute latest and usually it is anywhere between 2 and 3am. But I do go to bed at 8pm so there's that. Habit from my working years and I enjoy the peace and quiet. Me and the dog up while the wife sleeps in until 6am when she gets up for work.

[–] Typewar@infosec.pub 3 points 1 day ago

Incredible!

I tested this last year when I moved into a new place having been up all night.. went to bed at 19, and woke up at 3 AM. From there I kept it going throughout the year.

I used to enjoy being up late for the peace and quiet but damn, you can rather get that in the morning AND feel good about it at the same time

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 7 points 2 days ago

Crikey what job did you do?

6:30am during the school year 8ish in summers if I can.

[–] TheFeatureCreature@lemmy.ca 5 points 2 days ago

Usually 8am but often shifts to 7:30am or earlier in the summer when the sun is up earlier.

[–] 9point6@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

My natural going to sleep time is between 12 and 1am, so I aim for 8:30am

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 5 points 2 days ago

I aim for 7, I feel like I've got the whole day ahead me then

[–] ZDL@ttrpg.network 3 points 1 day ago

5:30 on workdays, anywhere between 7:30 to 11:00 on weekends.

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

6-7 if it’s my morning for the child or 9ish because I like my sleep

[–] Shimitar@downonthestreet.eu 2 points 2 days ago

6:20 on school days, gotta take the kid to the train station before 7am.

7am on other days.

8am when stars aligns and the aliens do a certified landing

[–] dicksteele@lemm.ee 1 points 1 day ago

About 0600-0630. Usually go gym at 0710

[–] Boomkop3@reddthat.com 1 points 1 day ago

Between 5 and 6 somewhere. I take a while to wake up

[–] Libb@jlai.lu 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I never needed much sleep. So, I wake up at 4AM, 5 at most. I like to write early in the morning while our apartment, as well as the entire city around us is quiet. In the summer, I will often work on our balcony so I can enjoy the sun rising and the birds singing... That is, before cars, trucks, and motorcycles start roaring, obviously.

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 days ago
[–] Evkob@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 day ago

I work both opening shifts and closing shifts in a typical week, so I'll wake up anywhere from 5am to 11am.

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 1 points 2 days ago