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[–] shplane@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Boxing. Constant movement, hell of a work out, and you get to punch shit

[–] kralk@lemm.ee 1 points 21 hours ago

Anything competitive works for me. Boxing, BJJ, rock climbing...

Actually "competitive" is the wrong word. It's any sport where I'm not in control of how much effort I'm putting in. Eg running doesn't work because as soon as someone beats me, I just stop trying

[–] DirigibleProtein@aussie.zone 2 points 4 days ago

Walking the dog while listening to podcasts or audio books.

[–] sailormoon@lemmy.world 7 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

I like to watch shows/videos while I workout. Made a rule that I can only watch certain things while I'm exercising. I look forward to watching those things and 'tricked' myself into being excited about the exercise, too! Also I feel much better after I've exercised, so I really look forward to that post-exercise feeling.

[–] dan1101@lemm.ee 6 points 6 days ago

I like to walk, I pick nice places with good/interesting scenery. It's good mentally too, helps me unwind and work out problems and come up with new ideas.

[–] motor_spirit@lemmy.world 71 points 1 week ago (9 children)

find an activity that you legitimately enjoy. that's it

[–] toomanypancakes@lemmy.world 47 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Trial a load of sports. One will click.

[–] motor_spirit@lemmy.world 27 points 1 week ago (1 children)

wasn't trying to be flippant or trivialize this but at the core it's what is needed

I found that trying to distract or occupy my mind while trying to work wasn't enough, for example watching a show or listening to music while using my row erg as a primary workout. Still found myself counting down the time and minutes

I climb shit. In the gym and outside. It feeds my inner child, it's fun, it's exciting, and it involves problem solving so stimulates the mind. Rowing and biking are now secondary exercises or activities to support my climbing fitness and ability. I find doing them with less intensity, less often, and as support (shorter duration) makes it easier for me to digest because I know it will better me for what I truly enjoy. Along the way you just may find yourself growing to accept, like or love something.

Kinda gotta find workable angles that suit your mind and goals. eventually you'll have tricked yourself into becoming a healthy bastard who has some fun along the way

[–] toomanypancakes@lemmy.world 17 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Sorry, I totally wasn't trying to be dismissive either, but I think it came across like that. When depression gets bad it's just hard to find anything enjoyable, and sticking with it anyway is real hard. I'll just have to keep at it until something clicks I guess.

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[–] nokturne213@sopuli.xyz 12 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I hike/walk daily with my dog. ~8km per day, although some days are shorter, some are longer.

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[–] Phen@lemmy.eco.br 10 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I've never enjoyed anything at all in my life.

[–] motor_spirit@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

So we need to harness your disdain and hatred and work with that..

what do you hate most?

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[–] golli@lemm.ee 9 points 1 week ago

And ideally also something that doesn't require too much preparation. If it takes a long time to prepare for or get back after you are usually less likely to do it.

[–] IndiBrony@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

This is what I did. I joined a football league for fatties and it's helping keep me active whilst not being massively outclassed by people younger and/or fitter than me 🤣 there's no pressure to be 'good' at it, as the weightloss aspect of the game is more important.

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[–] MushuChupacabra@lemmy.world 25 points 1 week ago

By doing physical activity that's intrinsically rewarding.

If you enjoy bike riding, go ride your bike, and don't even bother thinking about it as exercise. Enjoy, and get into it.

The fitness part is just a side effect.

[–] shittydwarf@sh.itjust.works 22 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I started lifting for self improvement and quickly got hooked on progression and getting stronger. It didn't take long to become a habit and now it's the thing I most look forward to after a long day of work. With no more than three hours per week you can completely transform yourself..

[–] severalkittens@ani.social 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Lift heavy things! If you keep lifting them then you can lift even heavier things!

No joke, this is my favorite aspect too. It gets to a point where you start to enjoy the soreness.

[–] cattywampas@lemm.ee 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

It's IRL character advancement. That's the trick if you're into RPGs. Sometimes you gotta grind for that XP.

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[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 19 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I used to hate exercise. Then, I pushed myself to do it regularly and the benefits surpassed the negative side of it by a lot. For instance, almost all my chronic pain issues are gone, so I'm saving a couple hundreds yearly on healthcare. I also feel better physically (I can move better, I have better endurance) if I'm exercising regularly compared to when I'm not. Because, let's face it, I don't like it, so every now and then I stop for reasons and getting into it back again is very difficult. But it's always worth it.

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[–] FrustratedArtist@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Find sports that you actually enjoy - try out different things. In my case:

  • Cardio: running fucking sucks, swimming is boring as shit. Cycling, on the other hand, is pretty fun. Feels like flying when everything aligns.
  • Strength: lifting weights at the gym is doable, but boring. Climbing? Hell yeah, give me more routes where I have to tie myself into a knot while pulling up all my weight with my fingertips.

It can be an exact opposite of it for you. Or you'll find out that team sports are the bees knees because support from other people is what you've been missing.

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[–] Postmortal_Pop@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago (4 children)

I lost 30lbs and doubled my muscle mass by doing a gentle calisthenics routine to failure every night while watching the whole series for King of the Hill. I found it kept me busy enough to not notice how much I hated exercise but it wasn't distracting enough to need to stop and watch.

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 13 points 1 week ago

I do it for my dogs. They drag me out and make me walk.

[–] Canopyflyer@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Audiobooks.

Music is fine, but I actually find I will make more time to exercise if I'm listening to a good book.

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[–] Dagwood222@lemm.ee 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Find something you actually enjoy.

Historic European Martial Arts. Swing a sword and mace.

https://youtu.be/sMPSCb7frrc

Or you can dance, or juggle, or tumble...

Stephen Fry lost 100 pounds by listening to audiobooks while he walked.

There are game consoles that connect to a treadmill; you have to keep your legs pumping or the game stops.

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[–] volvoxvsmarla@lemm.ee 11 points 1 week ago

I got a kid but not a car. Just walking to the kindergarten and back twice a day is movement. We spend a lot of time outdoors at playgrounds or parks and I have to do all the grocery shopping by bike or walking. I don't do other physical exercise admittedly, but this kid is a fitness machine. We be running, playing, I need to lift her, carry her, carry her stuff, clean up, wrestle - for real having a kid made me the most physically fit and active I've ever been.

When I was younger I liked to dance. Trying to lose weight I'd just put headphones on in my room and dance for hours. A friend of mine actually lost a crapton of weight this way, think obese to normal weight.

Also, making a kid (and training for it and reenacting it) is great exercise.

[–] snoons@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago

Knowing I won't feel like shit for the rest of the day.

[–] Truffle@lemmy.ml 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Try different things until you find something that feels good even as an idea. Think about things you like doing and how you like them. For me, I dislike team sports and being surrounded by people in a gym setting. I like doing things on my own, preferably at home while not talking to anyone. I first start thinking about maybe enjoying a spooky story podcast while walking so I start thinking about the temperature and the things I like watching while I'm out, etc. Same for weight lifting, pilates and yoga (Those are my cyclical workouts. I get bored easily) I hype myself up in my head first and then use the "do it for five minutes" method.

I have NEVER said "Well I wish I didn't come to yoga. This class sucked" "That lifting routine was a total waste of time. Not doing it again"

Also, having cute/neat stuff for it helps, just beware of spending habits. Did I need to buy green yoga blocks? No Do they make me Happy everytime I look how they are the exact same shade as my pothos? Yes they do.

[–] xorollo@leminal.space 2 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

I second this comment. Podcast suggestions? I loved:

  • We're alive
  • The walk
  • The Magnus archives
[–] Truffle@lemmy.ml 2 points 6 days ago

Oh nice selection you got there!

I like Mr Ballen's early stuff, Raven reads, some Mr. Nightmare here and there, Coffeehouse crime is another favorite.

In spanish I like Relatos de la Noche and La voz que lo cuenta todo.

[–] Creativity@lemmy.zip 10 points 1 week ago

Hiking. I don't try to climb mountains,just get out and move. The fact I have to watch my footing and have a chance of seeing (or at least hearing) wildlife helps distract from the fact exercising sucks.

I use mental tricks as well. I had to bribe myself to get started. "Look there's a trail near that takeout place you like, if you hike you can get takeout!" If I run out of breath due to uphill terrain, I'm not stopping because I can't keep going, it's clearly to look at this neat bird/bug/plant. If I have an off day and need to turn back early, I remind myself that I've already won by getting off the couch.

[–] cRazi_man@lemm.ee 9 points 1 week ago

If you're looking for a "life hack" to make any exercise instantly enjoyable, then that's really not going to happen.

But you sound like you're motivated to start exercising so that's great. You can add this in layers to make this genuinely enjoyable:

  1. find something you like (for me: weight lifting and squash are fun. Running and swimming are hell)

  2. Decide on a fixed time (for me: 10pm every day is designated for exercise)

  3. Make it as simple as possible and remove as many barriers as possible (for me: I don't sit to watch TV or play video games close to exercise time, otherwise I know I'm not going to get up again. I put on exercise clothes when I get home from work so I'm already ready when the time comes).

  4. Add something else that's really enjoyable (For me: I have a TV series that I only watch when I'm in the gym. So if I want to find out what happens next, I'll have to go to the gym tomorrow.)

  5. Make this routine (once you're habituated to doing this regularly, then it stops taking will power to force yourself and is just embedded in your routine)

  6. Forgive yourself for missing sessions (any time you miss a session, it doesn't matter, you'll start making progress again any time you start exercising again)

  7. Make it social (some people love this and you can do exercise with someone. I personally hate that and I love the meditative solitude of exercise time)

[–] salacious_coaster@infosec.pub 9 points 1 week ago

I noticed that I feel better emotionally and physically when I exercise regularly and feel like shit when I don't, so it's kind of a self-preservation thing.

[–] njordomir@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

Bike rides are the only thing that made cardio fun for me. The varied environments and the thrill of exploring massage my brain and I end up not noticing how much it sucks to bike straight up the side of a mountain. Also the alternating grind of ascending and thrilling adrenaline rush of descending keeps things fresh.

[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

I try not to think about it as a punishment for what I ate, and more a celebration of what my body can do.

[–] dan1101@lemm.ee 4 points 6 days ago

Yep. When you get old you won't be as able, so enjoy it while you can. And the exercise will likely prolong how long you can be mobile.

[–] baggachipz@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

This is a great perspective, I’m going to embrace it.

[–] qantravon@startrek.website 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I like exercise that is also something else and isn't purely exercise for its own sake. Things like hiking, where I get to see scenery and animals, or biking, which serves as a mode of transportation. Currently, I do renaissance fencing, which is fun and social in its own right, and I get to master a skill.

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[–] Therobohour@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Work out watch star trek. By the season 4 you'll be made of steel

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[–] TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

Combine with work. Birds and stones.

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