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Spoiler alert, no one over 40 does either.

[–] rumba@lemmy.zip 17 points 4 days ago (5 children)

Kind of feels like there's two kinds of people out there right now in the US. Once you think we're fucked, and the ones who think they have enough generational wealth that "their" kids won't be fucked.

There's probably a sizeable third pool out there that are just watching propaganda and going everything is fine everybody's overreacting or I don't care it doesn't affect me. I think even that pool's shrinking a bit.

[–] ameancow@lemmy.world 5 points 4 days ago

There's also people who are absolutely going to get fucked but are still living in a comfortable dream-world where they think someone is going to come make everything normal again.

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[–] Ironfist79@lemmy.world 51 points 5 days ago (8 children)

Hell, I'm 46 and it's really hard to not be cynical these days. I want to believe there's still good people out there but I run into so many assholes.

[–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 29 points 5 days ago (2 children)

I'm also 40 something. Oh for the dizzy optimism of the 90s...

[–] Ironfist79@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

Optimism? Do you remember the entire grunge movement? GenX is full of apathy and pessimism. I still remember the day Kurt died, it was a defining moment in our lives.

[–] Hansae@lemmy.dbzer0.com 22 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (5 children)

I will forever seethe that I missed out on the 1990s, especially considering how IT was a money printer back then & the rave scene was top notch. I just about caught the tail end of the old internet as well, even that has gone to complete corporate dogshit.

And owning a house wasnt a Pipedream : (

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[–] Jhex@lemmy.world 146 points 5 days ago (4 children)

I'm over 40 and struggling not to conclude life on this planet peaked 30 years ago

[–] FinalRemix@lemmy.world 79 points 5 days ago (6 children)

The 90s were seriously such a bop.

[–] Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 57 points 5 days ago (2 children)
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[–] JasonDJ@lemmy.zip 33 points 5 days ago

The dream of the 90s is alive in Portland.

Put a bird on it.

[–] Psythik@lemm.ee 27 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Hey, at least you got to enjoy humanity's peak as a teenager. I was a kid, so I never got the chance to fully appreciate the 90s. My memory of almost anything pre-1993 is incredibly hazy. My strongest childhood memories didn't take hold until the decade was almost over.

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[–] LuckingFurker@lemmy.blahaj.zone 112 points 6 days ago

I remember agreeing with that back in 2021 when it was posted, and now, well...

[–] Ephera@lemmy.ml 91 points 5 days ago (1 children)

A while ago, I was talking to my mum and offhandedly said that I'd have to move north at some point in my life, due to climate change. For me, that's just a given, with record hottest summers coming in regularly and current summers already incapacitating me for weeks at a time.

But my mum's reaction was basically "What's this about now?". She's lived in her childhood town or close-by for basically her whole life. And she's old enough that she doesn't have to worry about the aftermath. But yeah, that was still brutal, how different our realities were in that regard.

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[–] ianhclark510@lemmy.blahaj.zone 100 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I landed a job a job at a company that’s circling the drain, I feel like a parasite feeding off a host until it’s gone and I move to a new one

[–] tacosanonymous@lemm.ee 86 points 5 days ago (8 children)

I'm a public librarian. Just dreading the day we are defunded. They’ve already attacked our national orgs.

[–] IMALlama@lemmy.world 31 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Maybe this varies geographically, but our town's libraries are directly funded by the town. We recently improved a millage for renovations. I hope they would be pretty insulated from... sillyness.

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[–] ProfHillbilly@lemmy.world 37 points 5 days ago (4 children)

I am over 60 and I can plainly see everything it fucked.

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[–] brucethemoose@lemmy.world 62 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (7 children)

Well, interestingly, gen z men are the Trumpiest demographic:

https://www.axios.com/2025/04/11/american-gen-z-podcasts-trump-harris

I guess the meme still holds true, but their concerns about the future are very different. TBH I can totally understand them becoming disillusioned with other old politicians following old voters who will just “do nothing at let it all happen.”

[–] TribblesBestFriend@startrek.website 82 points 5 days ago (1 children)

This is the saddiest shit ever. Young men being angry at the « Men » will vote for the men that will sold them to the bone mill in a heart beat.

There’s a Turkish proverb : and the forest vote for the axe because they where made of the same wood

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[–] VitoRobles@lemmy.today 45 points 5 days ago (11 children)

I know a surprisingly large amount of MAGA/Trump adjacent fans because of my type of work.

  • They're all single dudes. Maybe divorced. Maybe never went on a date.
  • There's Joe Rogan involved.
  • After a few beers, they all will unprompted share their views on Jews, blacks, trans, lesbians, or some other racist shit then back off and pretend it's just a joke.
  • Tell them anything involving empathy "Sorry your dog died" is met with silence or coldness.
  • They all don't give a shit about anybody else besides themselves. And often see themselves as the victim. "Oh Trans person was brutally beaten? Yeah it's a violent world like one time some guy threatened me gotta stay strapped."
  • They may not like Trump's antics. But to them, the Democrats aren't helping THEM. Remember that lack of empathy?
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[–] mjhelto@lemm.ee 68 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] DoubleSpace@lemm.ee 40 points 5 days ago (4 children)

Plenty of my gen X friends have come to accept that they will never retire like the boomers. A lot of millennials never thought they would.

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[–] kittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zone 37 points 5 days ago (9 children)

At this point we have to contend with small wins like Die Linke getting almost 10% of the vote in Germany, Elon Musk getting bullied out of politics, and Carney winning in Canada.

[–] yata@sh.itjust.works 7 points 4 days ago

Unfortunately Musk didn't get bullied out of politics, his office was always meant to expire at the beginning of May. He achieved what he set out to do: dismantling federal government completely to make deruglation, tax avoidance and corruption much easier.

This is just him doing the typical right wing martyrdom whining whenever somebody criticises them.

[–] WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 14 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I won't contend with small wins anymore. I want it all, heaven or hell

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[–] BenLeMan@lemmy.world 38 points 5 days ago (2 children)

I think they've got it the wrong way around. The under 40s have a chance of rebuilding after the war. Yes, there are hard times ahead but they are young enough to come out on the other side.

At 49, I'm quite sure I either won't make it through the coming storm at all or at least won't be able to enjoy the aftermath for long once things get better again.

[–] superniceperson@sh.itjust.works 32 points 5 days ago (1 children)

The under 40s are going to be the ones fighting the wars, as always. Even if there is an other side for humanity after what's coming, no one alive today will ever have a peaceful life ever again.

[–] Gronk@aussie.zone 27 points 5 days ago (4 children)

I'll take prison or a bullet to the head before I decide to fight for a nation that has pulled the rug out from underneath me.

I hope more young people see it this way, maybe we'll actually get to a point where we can watch all these leaders duke it out in person because no one will fight for them

[–] ChillPenguin@lemmy.world 17 points 5 days ago

In my 30s, feel the same way. Why would I offer myself to the meat grinder for a nation that bitches about me all the time?

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[–] Saleh@feddit.org 19 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

The under 40s will be sent to die at the front

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[–] CannedCairn@lemmy.world 7 points 4 days ago

Am 39 and feel this

[–] vga@sopuli.xyz 26 points 5 days ago (5 children)

Everyone over 40: "Yup, social media has really fucked those kids' brains up"

[–] raspberriesareyummy@lemmy.world 24 points 5 days ago

I am well over 40 and I agree with OP. Then again, I didn't give up my empathy at the door to adulthood.

[–] andros_rex@lemmy.world 13 points 5 days ago

Whereas the reality is that things are so fucked because these idiots get their news from Facebook. The Trump administration admitted to making a mistake deporting Kilmer Garcia - they’ll never find out because they’re too busy sharing OAN articles about that trans women they bullied out of fencing.

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[–] Floosh@lemm.ee 21 points 5 days ago

I'm glad to see folks talking on here. Makes me feel better knowing we're here all going through it. Gives me that Band of Brothers vibe "We stand alone, together."

[–] Angry_Autist@lemmy.world 15 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Half a century here, I've never had a time in my life where the next year was better than the last

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[–] GluWu@lemm.ee 38 points 5 days ago (5 children)

My parents just stopped watching the news about anything and just sit thinking everything will be okay. Its starting to get difficult to have a relationship with them because they are so out of touch with reality. They even go to protests but for them its just a thing to go do because they're not doing anything else. They have zero understanding of any of the reasons they're happening other than trump bad.

[–] CH3DD4R_G0BL1N@sh.itjust.works 41 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Idk man, I’d kill just to have mine agree on the trump bad part. You do you, but tuning out our shit news cycle is low on the offense scale for me. It can be much worse.

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[–] AmazingAwesomator@lemmy.world 34 points 5 days ago (1 children)

am 40. still feel this way.

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[–] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 3 points 3 days ago

I'm just really wondering... To the trump voters in the US, is this what you wanted? Do you really think and feel that things have improved? Do you really think the world is a better, safer, place now than it was 10 years ago?

It's like, we had issues for sure, but they were manageable. We had climate change at a critical level but we could still stave off the worst of it and now we're speed running to something worse than the worst predictions that were made. At this point I wouldn't be surprised if earth is like Venus not 200 years from now due to some runaway effect.

I mean, we had a nice run but fuck you, you really really ruined the world for everyone including yourself. I sincerely hope you're happy because then at least someone will before were all dead.

Fuck you.

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