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[–] zer0@programming.dev 37 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

My kids. Not much else though.

[–] Flamangoman@leminal.space 19 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Gotta love the kids, I made this post after getting my youngest to bed and having my heart feel so full of love

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[–] krash@lemmy.ml 9 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Ha. My kids is the best AND worst part of my life πŸ˜†

[–] Brkdncr@lemmy.world 32 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

That all of my recent health issues the last 3 months were temporary.

[–] Flamangoman@leminal.space 13 points 2 weeks ago

GOOD. You need your health, and I find it's the uncertainty that can be so stressful

[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 24 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (5 children)

I'm aware that it makes people cringe, but it's so true that I've never been more happy; more bottoms than a top could ever ask for... Enough to over come the negativety from all the judgemental or bitter queens.

[–] Flamangoman@leminal.space 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Stoked for you, and Iove that description ❀️

[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 12 points 2 weeks ago

Not more stoked than I; I've never had a busier social life and my asocially autistic ass is still surprised by it each time I get another invite.

[–] Corno@lemm.ee 9 points 2 weeks ago

Super happy for you and wishing you lots more happy years ahead! ❀️

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[–] kionite231@lemmy.ca 22 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I am about to get married =)

[–] Flamangoman@leminal.space 11 points 2 weeks ago

Congratulations to you, I hope you have a lovely day and life together ❀️

[–] none@lemmy.world 22 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

My crow bro, Kenny. Most days I go for a walk after work and meet up with him to feed him some peanuts or dog food.

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[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 21 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Right this very second, my chicken preening herself next to me, occasionally pausing to make sure I see her preening herself so that I continue to sweetly praise her

[–] PostiveNoise@kbin.melroy.org 15 points 2 weeks ago

Good chicken! What a pretty and fancy chicken...

[–] Flamangoman@leminal.space 11 points 2 weeks ago

That is adorable

[–] SnokenKeekaGuard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 20 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

I made a shit tonne of brownies and ive had 2 cups of sugar in one day alongside 5 cups of coffee. WHAT A DAY TO BE ALIVE

PS. Folks add pomegranate molasses to your pantry and your brownies. One of my favourite ingredients to give a dish complex depth in flavour, works with sweet and savory.

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[–] NONE_dc@lemmy.world 20 points 2 weeks ago (9 children)

I was able to revive my old PlayStation 2 thanks to Hacks and Homebrew and I'm replaying several games from my childhood apart from playing several others that I couldn't at the time, and I'm having a wonderful time.

[–] eezeebee@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I'm interested in knowing the titles you're playing, if you care to list them.

[–] NONE_dc@lemmy.world 14 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

Oh the list of all the games is veeeeery looooong, like 70 games, but my current favorite that I couldn't play in the day are:

  • Psychonauts
  • Zone of The Enders
  • Yakuza
  • The Simpsons Hit & Run
  • Downhill Domination (this game is Rad as hell!!)

While some that I'm replaying because they are really REALLY good are:

  • Devil May Cry 3
  • Soul Calibur 3
  • Lego Batman
  • Sonic Megacollection plus
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[–] gilgameth@lemmy.world 20 points 2 weeks ago (8 children)

If everything goes according to plan, I'm moving to Europe.

[–] Flamangoman@leminal.space 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
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[–] Gloomy@mander.xyz 16 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Love my kids, love my wife. Feel useful at work. Getting rdy for the final stretch of my undergrad. Life is a grind atm and I don't have a lot of free time, but I wouldn't swap it for anything else.

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[–] piranhaconda@mander.xyz 16 points 2 weeks ago (9 children)

Sobriety. 2 years 3 months since I've drank.

Still relearning some aspects of being an adult. Figuring out who I am. Picking up old hobbies again and trying new ones. So many things bring me joy nowadays where it used to only be alcohol that triggered the ol happy brain chemicals.

I'm in a much better place than I was a couple years ago when I was abusing alcohol as a coping mechanism.

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[–] MrsDoyle@sh.itjust.works 13 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

The bees. All our hives made it through winter and a fairly mild spring so far has given them a boost. Queens are laying like crazy, workers are working hard.

I've started wearing very thin gloves while inspecting the hives after realising that they make it less likely I'll be stung, because I can be gentler. A bonus is that I can feel the warmth of the bees, and that really does bring me joy.

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[–] Retro_unlimited@lemmy.world 13 points 2 weeks ago (9 children)

I’m very happy to be a land owner. Just a few months ago I bought some land and now live in an RV on the land. Tomorrow we drive about 7 hours round trip and get the last of our stuff from storage. So happy to not pay that rent anymore.

We have fresh air, beautiful views, and tons of space to work on projects, free electric from solar, and soon free water from rain. I can’t wait to start our garden soon, then it will be free groceries.

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[–] srock@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)
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[–] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)
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[–] mugthol@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

This post. There are a lot of negative news in the world and Lemmy feels often pessimistic. Reading everybody's answers made me feel lighter, so thank you for the question

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[–] flambonkscious@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I'm really struggling but actually doing extremely well, all things considered. We've had a hostile takeover so even if I keep my job, it really feels like it's going to shit. My garage was broken into and my bikes nicked or damaged - that really sucks bug moreso because is my main hobby, exercise and coping mechanism :(

I'm hoping I can order a new mountain bike with a gearbox, so that'll be really exciting - but it's ages away at best.

The reality is my family love me and I'm successful, so in real terms, things are good - but I really need to work on my imposter syndrome and inner accuser!

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[–] gon@lemm.ee 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

My family. I feel really good that I can trust and rely on my parents, that I can talk to my brother, that I have my grandma close and still healthy. It's a privilege to be related to these people, to be honest.

[–] Flamangoman@leminal.space 8 points 2 weeks ago

Can't choose who you're related to, so ya, it is a great privilege when you're surrounded by good people and you have that network of folks you love and can rely on

[–] refurbishedrefurbisher@lemmy.sdf.org 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Actually, the thing that is causing me stress is also my source of joy.

I quit weed last week. Going through withdrawals which are pretty bad, but I know in the long term, it's going to be worth it to have a clear mind.

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[–] secret300@lemmy.sdf.org 11 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
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[–] pineapple@lemmy.ml 11 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

The home server im setting up. I can finally break free of the clutches of cloud storage.

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[–] pikanut@lemmy.ml 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Its summer here and I hate summers!! But I feel so greateful and happy that I am in a safe and comfortable enough environment to be able to be naked whenever it is too hot.

This is such a privilege considering I am a girl.

[–] Flamangoman@leminal.space 8 points 2 weeks ago

As a never nude I commend your bravery and I hope you enjoy it to the full extent of the law

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 10 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
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[–] MrVilliam@lemm.ee 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Right now, I'm working a ton (72 hours per week) and my wife is working and going back to school, but every Tuesday is an entire day together. We just started playing Baldur's Gate 3 for the first time, and we look forward to it all damn week lol. We started like a month ago, but we're still only just now wrapping up the goblin camp. We both were already really familiar with 5e DnD, so a lot of the mechanics feel pretty intuitive to us. I have gripes with the camera (PS5 version) but overall it's a fantastic experience.

Before picking this up on sale, we were passing the controller back and forth through Astro bot. Also amazing! We rolled credits, and I'll probably aim for the platinum trophy at some point without her. There's truly not much left before we snag that, so she's not missing out.

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[–] ICastFist@programming.dev 10 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Playing X4, despite the crashes.

But to be really honest, giving drawing lessons to 9-11yo kids. Something I never considered doing in my life, but damn does it make me feel good, though the kids' progress (or lack thereof) often leaves me wondering if I'm actually being any good

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[–] Corno@lemm.ee 10 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I don't wanna reveal too much personal info but things have been going so well for me for a while now! So I'd say this current one πŸ˜ƒ I'd say the past two years have been the happiest ones of my entire life

[–] Flamangoman@leminal.space 8 points 2 weeks ago

As long as you're happy, I'm hyped for you, keep that happiness streak going!

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[–] VirtigoMommy@sh.itjust.works 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

… not much.

My romantic life is painful and turbulent at best. My job is collapsing because of the tariffs. I owe too much on my car to keep it if I lose my job and it needs a new clutch anyways, which is about $3000 that I don’t have for the cheap one. Family is distant, cold, and unsupportive. My government is doing its best to make life (as a trans person) as painful as possible. Best friend died last year, my only other friend has just kinda fallen off the face of the earth. My hobbies are frustrating and unfulfilling. I have vivid nightmares nightly. My body is deteriorating to the point of near disability. I eat the same shitty $5 chicken sandwhich every day. Insurance won’t cover therapy and suicide seems more and more likely by the day.

My coffee was warm this morning though so, I guess I’ve got that going for me today.

[–] Flamangoman@leminal.space 8 points 2 weeks ago

Damn, that's all so very heavy. Honestly, I wish I had prefaced this post in some way, because the truth of the matter is that not everyone is feeling happiness these days. I'm really sorry, especially for the persecution trans people are experiencing, y'all unequivocally do not deserve any of that. I hope things improve, and that you're able to find peace, safety, and meaningful happiness in your life, you deserve it ❀️

[–] Glytch@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Getting together with my friends online a couple times a week to play R.E.P.O.. I've been going through a rough patch with my fiance recently and being able to get out of my head and sneak around haunted houses has been really helpful

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[–] Nayfun@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I'm a month away from completing my union electrician apprenticeship. It's been a lot of work, and there is plenty more to come. But after five years of working towards something, it'll be nice to reach a big milestone.

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[–] ovalofsand@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I'm teaching guitar to a couple of students in town. I've started doing an active listening at the end of our shared class. I'm introducing them to all kinds of music they haven't heard and I love it. They're responding and listening to some new albums outside of the genres they've liked.

Thank you for the opportunity to share some good. :)

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[–] Today@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Most days my husband. Some days my kids. Some moments my job. Every night i love how comfortable my bed is.

[–] Flamangoman@leminal.space 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Love this, I am like 3/4 of the way there, I just need a bed like yours to crash out on πŸ˜‚ mine is killing me!

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[–] Witchfire@lemmy.world 8 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I have a ticket out of the US

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