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because i say either

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Either works, really.

[–] SonicBlue03@sh.itjust.works 22 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] rouxdoo@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

Best answer to the question here. Neither either of either is right (or wrong).

[–] thatradomguy@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

Neither. I say either.

[–] NauticalNoodle@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I don't. I say either.

[–] semperverus@lemmy.world 7 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Both. Context-dependant.

[–] Jimmycrackcrack@lemmy.ml 8 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Ironically, either of them depending on the situation. Sometimes I even express the concept that I am indifferent to the choice between two things or happy with both of them by saying "ee-ther, eye-ther"

[–] CrowyTech@feddit.uk 1 points 3 days ago

I definitely use them both together more often than just one. Like you, to express indifference to a choice.

I don't tend to do that with neither though πŸ€” and now I'm thinking too hard, I don't know which I tend to go with.

[–] BeatTakeshi@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

So you say both then?

[–] Corno@lemm.ee 7 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Eye-ther mostly, but like with many words I'll alternate between pronunciations! (You still won't catch me pronouncing "decals" like dee-cals though!)

[–] lukecooperatus@lemmy.ml 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I can't tell if maybe you're joking, but is there another way to pronounce decal? I could in theory imagine someone saying it like "dick-al" but that seems unlikely.

[–] Corno@lemm.ee 1 points 3 days ago

"Deckles", rhyming with "speckles".

[–] bricklove@midwest.social 2 points 3 days ago

Weird, I didn't know people pronounced it dye-cals /s

[–] GB19@lemm.ee 2 points 3 days ago

if you don’t mind me asking, what country are you from? I’ve heard people from the us say ee-ther and dee-cals

[–] 200ok@lemmy.world 7 points 3 days ago

In my head I pronounce it as "either", but out loud I pronounce it like "either"

[–] Etterra@discuss.online 5 points 3 days ago

I don't say either.

[–] sparky@lemmy.federate.cc 2 points 2 days ago

Whichever one you say, I say the other one.

[–] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 1 points 2 days ago
[–] el_twitto@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] ripcord@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

I say this in real life, but when I say it I pronounce it the same both times.

[–] Zero22xx@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Either either or either, depending on maybe the context or the phonetics of words used. Kinda like how you say the or the depending on if the next word starts with a vowel or not.

[–] Apocalypteroid@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

Either Either or eIther

[–] then_three_more@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago (2 children)

There's multiple ways up pronounce it?

[–] semperverus@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] Lemmy_2019@lemmy.one 1 points 2 days ago

There is an Irish rural accent that pronounces it AY-ther.

[–] friend_of_satan@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

There's even a classic jazz song about it.

Let's Call The Whole Thing Off https://youtu.be/J2oEmPP5dTM

Oh god of course. I actually don't know how that slipped my mind.

[–] uncurable_utopia@lemm.ee 1 points 2 days ago

Growing up, I self-taught myself to pronounce this word as "Ee-ther". Then I went to a private teacher and learned that the correct English pronunciation is "Eye-ther". Then I also came to know that the word can be pronounced in both way regarding different accents. Then I stopped caring which pronunciation I was using while speaking. Most of the time, I say "Eye-ther". I utter the later one barely.

[–] monovergent@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 days ago

Probably eye-ther, but eee-ther on random occasion

[–] JackGreenEarth@lemm.ee 2 points 3 days ago

Ee-ther and nye-ther

[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I'm in either camp by default, but I'll gladly use either if around other people that do

[–] DemBoSain@midwest.social 3 points 3 days ago

I say ether. Every once in a while I find someone infuriated by that, and it gives me much joy.

[–] FoxyFerengi@lemm.ee 3 points 3 days ago (3 children)
[–] milkisklim@lemm.ee 3 points 3 days ago

I say Data when I'm taking about the character, but I say data when I am talking about the information.

[–] lattrommi@lemmy.ml 1 points 3 days ago

Like day-duhh, day-tuhh, day-tahh, d8-ahh, d8-uhh, d@-uhh or d@-ahh?

[–] Mooseford@lemmy.today 2 points 3 days ago
[–] Antagnostic@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago
[–] lattrommi@lemmy.ml 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I use either either and neither neither nor neither either.

[–] lattrommi@lemmy.ml 1 points 3 days ago

To clarify, that's ether, eyethur, kneethur, nyetheir, kneethur ether, respectively.