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Hey everyone!

I'm Nick (he/them), I'm 20 and I'm looking for Fediverse friends! I'm former military, and now I'm trying to get into college (Chemical Engineering). I'd love to make friends in STEM, but anyone is welcome!

If you wanna be friends, let me know!

If this is the wrong sub, sorry admins. Idk where to go :(

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[–] sntx@lemm.ee 2 points 8 hours ago

Anything you like to talk about (hobbies)?

I love to talk about (Free and Libre) Open Source Software, Homelabs, HEMA, LARP, Pen&Paper, Space and anything humanity.

[–] Object@sh.itjust.works 3 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Funny, I also happen to be former military (conscription of course) and currently in STEM. Just a bit older than you.

Friends?

[–] KoboldCoterie@pawb.social 85 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

Thought this was a Nicole parody at first.

Can we call you the Fediverse Dude?

[–] thatchemguy@sh.itjust.works 24 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

I have no idea what you're talking about xD

[–] KoboldCoterie@pawb.social 35 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

If you hang around long enough, you'll get a DM from someone named Nicole, aka the Fediverse Chick, trying to phish you into clicking some probably sketchy links. I don't think anyone really knows the story behind it. There's a whole community dedicated to it at !nicole@feddit.org

[–] thatchemguy@sh.itjust.works 16 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

That's scary. Thanks for the heads up haha

[–] JohnnyCanuck@lemmy.ca 1 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

Aww that's cute, you already made a friend.

[–] thisbenzingring@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

i have gotten at least 10-25 of her pm's and more often than not they are different and from different servers

it's a wild ride

[–] thatchemguy@sh.itjust.works 5 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Well I guess not even the Fediverse is free from spammers T-T

[–] joshchandra@midwest.social 1 points 10 hours ago

To be technical, you mean "scammers," who are far, far worse.

[–] bitofarambler@crazypeople.online 3 points 20 hours ago

haha me too, i thought it was pretty funny there.

[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 26 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Is this a parody of Nicole?

[–] thatchemguy@sh.itjust.works 3 points 11 hours ago

Not this again ;-;

[–] Kraiden@kbin.earth 20 points 20 hours ago

"but you can call me the fediverse ~~chick~~ guy/person"

[–] sam@bikersgo.social 15 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

Post, Talk and communicate with people.

As you use the Fediverse you will slowly see regular people pop up, talk to them, especially those you've enjoyed talking to in the past or have something interesting to say to.

The Fediverse is about communication and sharing ideas so do that, This can be done through posting in communities or commenting on posts in communities / topics you are interested in.

[–] wuzzlewoggle@feddit.org 1 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

This got me thinking. Is there any client app that lets you tag users? I know this used to be a function on reddit. I rarely read usernames so it would be really cool if I could tag someone and their username would have a little reminder on them so I could instantly see I talked to that person before.

[–] WhyJiffie@sh.itjust.works 1 points 9 hours ago

Voyager, 1 tag per user

[–] thatchemguy@sh.itjust.works 8 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Hiii!

Thanks. I'm new to all this, so I don't know where to start hahaha

[–] sam@bikersgo.social 5 points 21 hours ago (3 children)

It's all good, yeah it's a little different than your traditional social media as instead of going for reactions and pushing out content you actually need to communicate and talk instead of just pushing random posts more of the time to grow an actually connected audience

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[–] thisbenzingring@lemmy.sdf.org 12 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

we are all friends here

welcome!

[–] thatchemguy@sh.itjust.works 6 points 20 hours ago
[–] Tungsten5@lemm.ee 7 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I dont mind friends. I never went to the military, but I am pursuing a PhD in aerospace engineering at the moment. Not exactly chemical, but engineering is engineering ya know :D

[–] thatchemguy@sh.itjust.works 2 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Oh that's pretty cool! How can I reach out to you?

[–] Tungsten5@lemm.ee 2 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

DMs? I dont really have much else as I dont use social media much at all

[–] thatchemguy@sh.itjust.works 1 points 19 hours ago
[–] thatchemguy@sh.itjust.works 1 points 19 hours ago
[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 5 points 20 hours ago (1 children)
[–] thatchemguy@sh.itjust.works 7 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

In my country, military service is mandatory for all men when they turn 18, and then you serve for 1 year (up to 2). Hope that answers it :P

[–] electro1@infosec.pub 3 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Sounds like a dictatorship, sorry to hear that

[–] AmidFuror@fedia.io 8 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

Ah, yes. the famous Swiss dictatorship.

[–] electro1@infosec.pub 1 points 10 hours ago

It doesn't have to be "official"..

[–] thatchemguy@sh.itjust.works 3 points 19 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Skunk@jlai.lu 4 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

Welcome fellow cheese lover. If you’re from where I guess you’re from, we have a few communities for our big plus country.

Most of ~~normal~~ French speaking in on the jlailu instance, example the not very active !suisse@jlai.lu.

I think there are some English Switzerland communities and I don’t know about German, they are probably linked with the main German instance (like we are on jlailu with the rest of francophonie).

And as IRL, Italian speaking part does not exist 🤷🏻‍♂️

But you’ll find plenty of cool communities not related to a country or language. My favourite type are the ones where you can speak about whatever you want.

Also as a nice to know, you can blacklist keywords on several apps (and communities, peoples or instances), that way you can avoid the US politics spam around news communities.

It takes a little while to craft your perfect lemmy experience, but once done it’s a cool place!

[–] sanderium@lemmy.zip 3 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

You can probably start on mastodon were people have more casual conversations. You will probably find someone with your same interests. Enjoy your journey on the fediverse!

[–] thatchemguy@sh.itjust.works 3 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Oooh I did make a Mastodon account earlier, but I thought that wouldn't matter too much because of federation. Did I get it wrong?

[–] sanderium@lemmy.zip 6 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (1 children)

You got it right, you can interact with Lemmy from Mastodon and vice versa but it is limited to certain things.

Also not all instances are federated with each other which can be a nuisance to keep track of.

[–] thatchemguy@sh.itjust.works 4 points 19 hours ago

Hmmm I see. So I'll keep both account for now. Thank you!

[–] LarryLurkman@lemm.ee 2 points 19 hours ago (1 children)
[–] thatchemguy@sh.itjust.works 1 points 19 hours ago

Hey friend! What's up?

[–] sbf@feddit.org 1 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Which branch? I’m heading into the Air Force to do cybersecurity soon.

[–] thatchemguy@sh.itjust.works 1 points 11 hours ago

That's actually so cool! I was in the infantry.

[–] brucethemoose@lemmy.world 2 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) (4 children)

Heh, I'm an EE dropout kinda in machine learning stuff now. Good luck, chemical engineering seems tough (but cool).

But yeah, on Lemmy the idea is to post in communities that fit your niches, rather than trying to follow people directly like Mastadon, Twitter or whatever. Those are a bit slim but growing (for instance, there are some active science-focused communities/servers).

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[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 1 points 19 hours ago

Nick... Ol' Nick.... Nick Ol'.... 🫢

[–] aldalire@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

Depends on which military you served

[–] thatchemguy@sh.itjust.works 5 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Hmmm... I don't think I'm quite comfortable telling people where I'm from publicly just yet, but my country is pretty peaceful. Rest assured we're not invading other countries or anything like that xd

[–] aldalire@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 16 hours ago

Okay then!! :)

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